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 lonestardaddy

Joined: 11/18/2006
Msg: 51
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Posted: 5/13/2007 11:31:44 PM
From personal and IRL experience, I can honestly say that it is very unnerving when a woman shows too much interest in what was merely a peek on your behalf ...or in my case, and on another personals website, to my agreeing to meet as a potential friend. For as much as too many men 'hit on' women for sex, the one who traced my license plate after a first meet in a children's park here, I'm safe to say that I was so not interested in her penchant to tell me how to live my life. Obsessive behavior is so unhealthy to any LTR, even if it's merely to remain friendly w/whomever. Knives and boiling rabbits had nothing to w/my fear of this woman. Life had handed her a husband who passed away on her, but then I can believe that she most likely brought that on w/ her myopic and insecure POV for life.
 Rod-Iron

Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 5/13/2007 11:45:47 PM
Simple... don't answer her and forget it. Probably a porno spammer anyway.
 Catman 4 u

Joined: 3/17/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 5/14/2007 3:04:32 AM
Stalking traits are often related to people with, Borderline Personality Disorder, however not all people with the disorder stalk, but some do...What ever anyone ever does you completely ignore stalkers...That is the only way never answer them, you make like they don't exist...You don't want to go threw that, I know of persons who went threw utter "hell" ...
 rekless

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 5/14/2007 6:15:25 AM
I understand what you are going thru, I was in a relationship with one woman when i had to ask another repeatedly to "NOT CONTACT' me. I told her i wasn't interested in being with her or meeting her of phoning her. She continued to contact me and insisted on me getting her phone number. After i blocked her, she got friends to contact me to ask me why and try to give me her phone number to explain why i didn't want to meet her...



After a couple of months she left me alone.
 Rev.italianviper

Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 55
Women stalkers
Posted: 5/14/2007 7:17:44 AM
i still get messages as well from other sites,, thankfully none are on p.o.f. and yes there are those who just cant get the hint, not interested,, you tell them no thank you and they still keep comming, hmmm which sites and maybe someone here knows something about the sites in question and can help youc that way,, you can block user feature here, most other sites,, including pay sites also have that feature,, in email,, you can block a user as well and their email,
 Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 5/14/2007 7:18:37 AM
Run south as fast as you can...cuz I found you...you thought you could hide from me...
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Posted: 5/14/2007 7:35:42 AM
yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhh
i think woman stalkers are great.....keep up the great work ladies wooooooooooohooooo
oh yeah email me for my address.....OK?
 OnceaSanta

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 5/14/2007 9:34:17 AM
Old threads. Cause if you don't the "search police" climb all over your case. I really want to find out things that are going to affect me, myself. Not something that happened to someone else 3-4 years ago, but they are the rules.

I have been stalked, a 350 manic-depressive with schitzophrenic tendacies. She would not take no for an answer and I was married at the time. Even tried to get her priest to talk to her and he wouldn't. Finally I told her to F#CK off as nicely as I could. That worked. Reasoning with her did't.
 sexyfunguy

Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 5/14/2007 9:43:48 AM
I completely agree - you can't reason with them.....they're in their own little world and nothing can break through to them. Pleading with them only feeds their obsession as they see that they are getting through to you.....and forget about calling the cops - they don't care. My stalker went away after a very long time and I suspect that its because somebody asked her out finally and she latched on to them.

From now on, I am very careful with whom I give out information to, and only after a gradual series of dates. A lot of women can't handle that - but oh well - not my problem.
 OnceaSanta

Joined: 10/23/2006
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Posted: 5/14/2007 10:05:24 AM
Recommendation for you all on phones. I have used Yahoo phone. No phone numbers just an email adress that you can create for each prospective date. Requires a microphone for both of you. There is no charges in between the States and Cananda, just be prepared to be bumped every hour so you have to call back.
 ukyoss

Joined: 2/20/2005
Msg: 61
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Posted: 6/1/2007 9:34:36 AM
Ignore them. The worst thing you can do is reply to any emails. I have had a EX stalk me for a long time and i learnt the best thing i could do was to ignore them . I know it sounds harsh but its best for them to allowing them to move on and get you out of their mind.
 GuitarGuy_

Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 6/1/2007 9:55:05 AM
It must be the truck!








Block her, or go on a date.
 jg65

Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 8/27/2007 9:45:36 PM
What's her # (just kidding)
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