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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/24/2009 10:08:11 AM | I think there are different kinds of bisexual people.
1) People who are addicted to sex and will take whatever they can get. To each their own, but these are the kind of people that give the rest of us a bad name.
2) Girls who are desperate and will do anything to keep their man "happy" or think it will land them a man. I think the whole bi thing is more of an attention seeking act to them than anything. These people annoy me.
3) People who truly can look beyond what gender someone is, and love them for them.
Not all bisexuals NEED to have both their steak and chicken.... every person is different. I think bisexuals do tend to be most open with their sexuality and know their bodies better though. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/24/2009 11:38:02 AM | gotta love these stupid generalizations... based on one persons experience with a few people..
whats next.. gay men are better lovers than their str8 male counterparts.?
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/24/2009 4:55:40 PM | I enjoy both depending upon the mood. Let's face it, a bi female can offer a few more possibilities then a straight gal. If it's a threesome type of night, invite a female friend to join you and she or maybe a friend of hers.
Honestly, I have discovered no real difference in bi females/bi curious females then women that are straight. Hell who knows, the gal you think is straight may have indulged at one time ot another. Really, who cares? | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/24/2009 8:18:11 PM | To the poster who said "we can never be faithful"....um, of course we can. Bisexual does not mean we are automatic cheaters. The majority of cheaters...seem to follow a straight line. (to me anyway)
We are just as capable of being monogamous. We just tend to be attracted to both sexes, instead of one, that's all.
I've always considered myself a pretty open sexual person etc, but it was more due to the fact that I had a mother of whom I could ask anything. I think too many women still grow up with "shaming" messages about sex, which makes them uptight about it later, no matter whether they are straight, gay, or bi. Just being female, can be a hurdle in itself as far as overcoming sexual hangups.
I don't think it really has to do with sexuality. It has to do with how you were raised to feel about sex. If you feel good about it, and you're not ashamed of it or your body, you will be more sexually open. I am shocked at the number of women I've known over the years, who are still "uptight" about so many sexual things. You'd think the internet would have better informed so many of them by now...but there is still a lot of sexual disfunction and misinformation out there. (with both genders) | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/24/2009 9:35:09 PM |
so Let me hear what you think.
Ok I will tell you what I think,I have female friends that are straight and somethat are bi sexual. I can tell you their sexual preference had nothing to do with their sensuality or their passioin in the sex act.
What makes a woman great in bed is if she can totally be uninhibited comfortable with her body, her needs, if she is able to express them, can she totally loose herself in her lover and their passion..
What sexual preference they have in my belief makes no difference this statement to me is like saying a Gay Male is a better lover..Yeah right maybe for another male but not a female.IMO | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/24/2009 9:46:55 PM | Being bi doesn't mean you're going to welcome a 3some just for shts and giggles, it's about being into the person, not the gender. It doesn't mean that a person doesn't want a relationship or exclusivity. I'm sure there are bi's that do it as well as straights, but I think generalizing is not exactly smart. Why label someone's behavior based on their orientation? Silly.
I think the best lover is someone who is comfortable with themselves and their sexuality, that can come with any orientation. Generalizations be damned. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/24/2009 10:28:57 PM | LOL; OP come on; this is ridiculous; I'm so sick of people making such dumb generalizations.
If this is your big question for the night, I think you should get off the computer and go out; you have been typing too long. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 4/25/2009 11:16:01 AM | | that is a very unfair comment, being bi does not mean you have the right the play around being bi means that you are open to a relationship with a man or a women and that you would be faithful. i have had relationships with men and women, i have never cheated and i can honestly say i have been totally satisfied. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 5/7/2009 6:24:41 AM | How can women be Bi or straight.
What about Lesbian.?
Im Bi both men and women.
My mother was straight until she meet this black women that found my mother
VERY ATTRACTIVE to her.
This women asked us to stay the night at her place so we did.
3:ooam in the morning to use the washroom as I her them talking I find this women trying to convince my mom to undress as she had a lesbian porno on the Tv.
As I go back to bed this women had her hand down moms pants and 10 min latter moms naked and 10 after that Moms Very loud.
So yes this women loved my mom and yes there is Bi women and just straight women.
Mom was straight
This black women Lesbain + Mom Straight = Lesbain sex. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 5/7/2009 6:33:29 AM |
To the poster who said "we can never be faithful"....um, of course we can. Bisexual does not mean we are automatic cheaters. The majority of cheaters...seem to follow a straight line.
True story!
Not gonna lie I've dabbled in the alternative lifestyle in my past, but I've never cheated. But hey I wasn't elected the Senator from Bi-ville either. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 5/7/2009 7:46:47 AM | Straight. Deffinately straight women.  Most bi women ive encounterd cant control their lust. And thats no good for a relationship is it? | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:56:27 PM | I dated a bisexual male, and he was insanely attracted to me, and vice versa. I have had several bi experiences but not full sexual encounters. I have had the girls fall in love with me but I cannot have a relationship with a woman. They get angered with me because of this. I never lead them on. So I have curbed my bi desires to just sharing with my partner and once in a while going to a strip club, or a swingers party where I dont partake but just watch. It doesn't mean I am gonna date a girl, or leave my bf for a girl, etc. It just means I'm more open to experiences and would not mind if my partner and I had an occasional threesome. (of course right now that is a fantasy) but who cares, its not a deal breaker if we don't, its just a fantasy and of course that usually stays that way because reality and fantasy hardly cross. To each their own, whatever rocks their socks, but no need to generalize, that wont get u any play.. hehe  | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 10/28/2009 6:20:29 AM | | Of the two best lovers I've ever had,one was 100% straight and the other,my current girlfriend,is bi. I've been with both bi and straight women who were terrible in bed.annd both who were great in bed. I really don't think there's a difference. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 10/28/2009 11:09:23 PM | Sheesh, we are so fast to classify or pigeonhole people into groups. Bi or straight, as long as they are the one you want to be with and it works for both of you, who cares?
If you're insecure, or confuse bisexuality with a sexual addiction or the inability to be monogamous, then it's probably better to stick with the straight gal; we all know straight folks never have any of those issues. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 10/29/2009 12:16:34 AM |
Being bi just means you are attracted to both genders sexually. It doesn't mean you are CURRENTLY sleeping with both. It doesn't mean you have slept with both, or that you will sleep with both. It just means you are sexually attracted to both. So under this definition I am bisexual too!
here are some who PREFER opposite sex over same sex..... but still are attracted to same sex and may have fooled around a bit with same sex. I haven't fooled around with the same sex, but I can relate to the rest. I have been saying that I am primarily straight but have a bi-attraction.
I've thought I could have a relationship with a woman just as well as a man. Women have some lovely qualities and I can be fond of tits just as well as any dude. One thing that probably holds me back from half fledge bisexuality is that I don't like and not interested in cootchie lickin. But women can make some nice partners. Nice to flirt with every now and now. And I definitely don't have a problem complementing the ones I see and like.
To answer the question - well, I can't.
I don't think bi or straight has anything to do with it. I think it depends on the person, her experience, her willingness to be open and experiment with things, and their desire to listen to your needs and wants and the ability to be guided by those. Gay and bisexual woman say they make better lovers to a woman because they are a woman and knows exactly what a woman wants and how she wants it. They may be talking in the sexual sense. I find this to be true but not in the sexual sense, more in the emotional and psychological sense. They know how a woman wants to be treated, talked too, and communicated with. They know how to express their emotions and feelings and be able to share them. They know what a woman want because they want the same thing and know that (with bisexual woman at least) this is the number one complaint among women for men. Men tend to be a little too emotionally distant and void. They are too simple minded - not that they are stupid but they want everything to be simple and shallow and women seem more emotionally complicated than men.
Ideally, it would be nice to have a man the emotional qualities associated with women. | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 10/29/2009 5:19:24 AM | | I've been with both. I agree bi women can be fun in the bedroom, but sexual orientation dosent cypher out whose better then the next. Its all about experience, chemistry,imagination, and stamina that makes a gd lover. I think most of the women on this forum would say the same goes for men | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 10/29/2009 11:14:05 PM | There is nothing wrong with this topic IMHO.
I enjoy both women however prefere bi for the simple reason that they have proven to be openminded sexually.
I like straight women, because they have proven that they know what they want, so its easier to please them.
Anything else?
~Mike | |
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| Bi women or Straight women?
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:06:43 PM | | BI woman, i was married to one, when i was much younger, and more then the fact that she was , is that she was open sexually, i miss that and now know i need that in a partner | |
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