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Posted: 12/17/2005 2:10:54 PM | frrosty...
she will be one lucky gal... you evidently know what the word love means... Its a wonderful word and a wonderful feeling... and oh, to share it with someone that understands it... all the best my friend... let me know how things proceed....
love
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Posted: 12/17/2005 2:18:28 PM | @dharma4u
In a post you say "I happen to be the woman on the other end of the phone with tictactoe." . Here you love Frrosty? How many guys do you love on here? I think Tic has competition . | |
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Posted: 12/17/2005 3:48:05 PM |
Here you love Frrosty? How many guys do you love on here? I think Tic has competition .
Love is a word and feeling that should be used for all mankind... I love you too im_on_fire..... and I wish you nothing but the best in your life...
A positive emotion and feeling sent out to all of mankind... Not just at Christmas, but everyday of the year...
Love to all you all...
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Posted: 12/17/2005 3:55:30 PM | ive been there and i have even went to work and not even slept but i fu can carry on a good conversation all is good.... we can all be a little or alot long winded thats for sure...the only down fall about yacking that long is that the next couple times that u chat with that person is that u end up not finding all that much to talk about...u know what i mean?
same ole thing
1 how was ur day
2how was work
3 how are the kids
4 whats up tonite
u know that kind of thing | |
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Posted: 12/17/2005 6:15:17 PM | grumpytess
You dont always have to talk for hours on end. It all depends on the day and the person. Even the time of day.
But , I'm glad we talk about so much more than the four points you've brought up. | |
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Posted: 12/17/2005 8:59:40 PM | | recently I spent hours and hours on the phone with one person, he made me laugh. and made me feel good, he is an amazing person...what I would do to be able to talk to him again.*sighs* | |
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Posted: 12/17/2005 9:54:12 PM | | Yes. Unfortunately, it's not a guarantee that you will like each other when you do meet, which is the letdown...wait, were the calls *after* you've actually met? ;-) well, then, good luck! | |
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Posted: 12/18/2005 3:10:47 PM | I've had many emails since this post. Don't know why they wouldn't post their thoughts here. But i suppose not everyone feels comfortable with the forums.
If I may insert a quote from one email, and a name will not be published here. I do want to maintain that persons confidentiality. But the concern is a good one.
"A fear the conversations which are long at first will diminish as the novelty of the new " find " or relationship lengthens "
I worked a lot of hours in the last 48 hrs. haven't had the time to call this lady I have been chatting with. I have missed the talks and her ability to keep a conversation alive. I don't feel there will be an diminishing factor as long as the two people can continue to share in each others lives. Be open, honest, and not play any games . | |
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Posted: 12/18/2005 4:10:08 PM | tictactoe
that was just a few things i imagine most ppl can think of things to say to each other but if talk to someone for hours on end it leaves not really that much to talk about and to get to know about that person in future phone calls | |
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Posted: 12/18/2005 4:32:45 PM | I agree with Psycho (Never thought i'd say That sentence sincerely!) :P
Take it for what it is worth without laying too much expectation on a dream-come-true outcome and it is a Very cool thing! Sometimes it goes way further and sometimes not. Fun, either way, I figure. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2005 9:21:56 PM | | Yes I used to have them all the time. We started in IM, then phone, then met, then were married. I am sad to say that the marriage ended, but we were together for 6 years. I was happy to talk to her every day sometimes to much time at that. But I did fall in love with her and as I said we were married... | |
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Posted: 12/18/2005 9:29:10 PM |
"A fear the conversations which are long at first will diminish as the novelty of the new " find " or relationship lengthens "
I understand what that means.
I have noticed (not only by my experiences but by my gf's experiences as well) that men will do whatever they need to do to hook you. And, once they do, they back off and feel it's ok to slack off. IOW, they take their women for granted. The right man would never let that happen. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 7:51:48 AM |
that men will do whatever they need to do to hook you. And, once they do, they back off and feel it's ok to slack off. IOW, they take their women for granted. The right man would never let that happen
Nor would the right woman let that happen... Life is what you expect it to be... I was married for 16 years and learned many valuable lessons about conversation etc... Most important thing in a relationship is the ability to converse... If you don't have the ability to talk then when problems arise you can't discuss them and they become bigger and bigger...
My ability to converse with not only Tictactoe is because of years of silence with my partner, not on my part but on his.. He was non-verbal except for day to day things... I learn my lessons well and this round I am not being involved in a non-verbal relationship... I think Tictactoe is correct in his comment about not playing games, he and I seem to be on the same wave length on that... NO games at all.. Call it like it is, express your feelings and you know if the other person doesn't like that... Oh well, sorry about their luck...
We only have one go around this time and so might as well speak and act from your heart...
It is better to have loved and lost; then to have never loved at all...
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Posted: 12/19/2005 8:01:15 AM | | OH yeah...some reached up to 7 - 9 hrs.....it was amazing....both people passing out from talking. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 10:52:15 AM | | Anyone got good tips on how to let someone go nicely without pissing them off? | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 11:29:41 AM | icehockey101
Are you asking if you're on the phone and you need to go? | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 11:38:38 AM | @Tictactoe
I wish I could find someone who can talk like you and Dharma do. If Dharma ever gets tired or backs out, you know how to contact me. A good man is hard to find. You are a lucky lady Dharma. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 12:44:59 PM | | Honestly the idea of talking on the phone for more then 45 minutes is akin to chewing gravel with busted teeth. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 12:57:04 PM |
@Tictactoe
I wish I could find someone who can talk like you and Dharma do. If Dharma ever gets tired or backs out, you know how to contact me. A good man is hard to find. You are a lucky lady Dharma.
Is it just me, or was that post completely out of line and cheesy? | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 3:17:33 PM | Ms. Picky
That's quite the post from Fire. I'm here to enjoy the friendships that have been created as a result of being on this site. Cheesy? Out of Line? I suppose it's a subjective observation.
This site isn't about competition. It's about searching for the right person in ones life. Someone who will compliment all aspects of our life and being.
For me, it's not about if someone " gets tired or backs out ". I agree those are very real and obvious possiblities. As are the possibilities of a long term life with someone.
It was a bit awkward reading her post, but then , I've seen others on POF which were far more out of line and cheesy. | |
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Posted: 12/19/2005 3:43:15 PM | That's so funny you mentioned that coastergal... It's only happened to me once--but it's happened to my daughter several times now~~since her BF moved to LA to go to school.... She falls asleep while talking to him... I keep forgetting to ask her what he thinks about that.. Maybe he's already asleep, huh>? | |
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Posted: 12/20/2005 6:17:32 AM |
Cheesy? Out of Line? I suppose
Reap what ye sow.... Thanks for the wonderful conversation last night, I missed them with you working so much...
love
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Posted: 12/21/2005 7:44:31 AM | Sometimes those long phone calls pay off... Had our first date last night and all went very well... No surprises for either of us as we had talked, asked the right questions and had gotten to know each other prior to the meeting, the conversation was even better once we could see each other smiling and always great to laugh face to face...
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Posted: 1/12/2006 5:26:47 PM | @ tictactoe
I see you're becoming quite the guy on here. Are you still on the phone 3 hours? | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 7:28:29 AM | Recently I've had one and am looking fwd to more from that same man...  | |
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