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 Author Thread: If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 126
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 2/28/2006 11:22:59 PM
Sounds to me that she would be considered jolly well equipped

But I do hope that every man on mission carries his favourites otherwise it could be h o t
t o h a n d l e

buzz
 HUNflower

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 127
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 12:32:03 AM
Heh. I alwasy thought of myself as being prepared. I didn't think that a guy would think of it as a woman being too active/changing partners like undewear cause of it. But just to think about it, I think that's why men who has been in my bedroom questioned me afterwards when it came up randomly cause I keep both male and female condoms right on my drawer in FULL view. I have left overs from previous partner, still not expired, why throw it away, I have my own family pack, yes, the family pack, I'm not kidding, and just to give him a break, I have a couple of female ones too. And my pill is in full view in my bathroom, who cares? I don't think anything of it, it's just being prepared. But if he wonders, and believes I'm a whore than he can leave just as horny as he came in through my door.
 sexi_mama

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 128
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 5:05:01 AM
Believe it or not, most women like to have sex too.

Here is a question for the OP, by you having the condoms, does that mean you have been a little to sexually active also? By you not having them with you, does that make you even worse? You used them all up?

No, I think not. She just happens to be a very well prepared woman...simple as that.
Kudos to her for being ready!
 mr playful

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 129
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 5:06:43 AM
let's just get this straight....
a women has more to lose by not having condoms (we can all get desease they as an aded bonus can get pregnant)
I mean come on, it is not highschool anymore, being prepared is a good thing...
and it saves you running down to the convinience store with a woody trying to buy a three pack and then trying to get back into the mood...
See if the women is prepared that is good... no and or ifs or butts...
now if you wake up handcuffed to a radiator... that might be bad
 heavenlee77

Joined: 12/29/2005
Msg: 130
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 5:24:55 AM
Better to be prepared and a protected!
 dimples82

Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 131
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 7:14:14 AM
Hmmm, I'm kinda shocked this is an issue this day and age. Here's the thing....guys can be forgetful, or do not plan for things...or they are so excited they're about to have sex they don't care if it's protected....I have always carried condoms in my purse, probably since I was about 20 or so, some I've used, some have been thrown out due to expiries...or just being icky after too much time in my purse lol.

I refuse to depend on another person to take care of my sexual health and I keep myself prepared so when that option for sex comes...I have the choice..
 wingsandheart

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 132
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:23:20 AM
I always have condoms ready at the drop of a hat. I don't sleep around, and honestly, I have to go through them from time to time to throw away expired ones. *Sigh* I would like to start using them BEFORE they expire.........
I can see thought why it would be weird. I guess if I was to go over to a guys house, and he pulled out condoms and had a whole drawer full it would be suspicious.
At least you know they're playing it safe.
 blackberryhottie

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 133
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:26:49 AM
Hell no..it doesn't mean she is too active..in my opinion..she is SMART
 uppity

Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 134
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:59:27 AM
...then there's "pleaser" who jumps in a stranger's car, has unprotected sex with him, then meets days later with he and his buddy....for "fill in the blank"

now we gotta wonder why she "DOESN'T" have a handy condom, eh?

does it mean...? has she been....? what if she's got....? whew!

put a dam on it, already!
 Gibson LP

Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 135
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 10:32:54 AM
It means she is a smart woman, that she knows us men are absent minded... or single tracked.
 Happily misunderstood

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 136
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 10:36:59 AM
If you are questioning her sexual activity level at this point......why are you having sex with her? Don't forget condoms don't save you from everything
 pamelaluva

Joined: 2/8/2006
Msg: 137
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 11:07:09 AM
Cripes dude...

Who CARES what she might think if you bust out your own supply? This day and age, it is EXPECTED behavior, and anyone who does not understand this concept lacks in the common sense department. Safety, man..safety.

Its better to have one and not need it then to need one and not have it.

though it IS a little embarrasing when your purse drops, spilling its contents for all to see. And there sits mr. condom...*gulp*

lol
 all about laughs

Joined: 4/18/2005
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 11:18:47 AM
I always have them with me, I would be worried about the ones that were given to me... are there any holes poked in them, are they ripped, outdated, all that stuff...

I think you would should always expect the unexpected, so take them with you when going on dates...

Cum prepared, opps sorry about the pun... :p
 dimples82

Joined: 10/31/2005
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 11:38:32 AM
It's funny cause last year I went down south with a group of girls and no one had thought to bring condoms, so I quickly picked up a big box and tossed it in my carry on. Get to security and for whatever reason they had to search my bag, open it up and the first thing they see is a big box of condoms! The woman searching my bag actually complimented me on being prepared and she hoped her daughter would be that smart when she went! And of course...people were coming up to me all week asking for condoms!
 Happily misunderstood

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 140
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/1/2006 11:51:08 AM
If you can't trust her to use condoms without holes the the hell are you doing sleeping with her?????/
 Molly_4_U

Joined: 2/22/2006
Msg: 141
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/8/2006 11:22:09 AM
Yes...its a good thing she has them...Its shows shes responsible..but c'mon guys...there not that cheap anymore!!!...should be mandatory that men should carry them!
 Felanie

Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 142
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 3/8/2006 11:28:59 AM
HAHAHHAHA... sexual promiscuity..... *sigh*...

Who cares who provides condoms... be happy your getting some hump action!
 EZ_in_Sauga

Joined: 6/9/2006
Msg: 143
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 7/15/2006 9:30:33 AM
they ruin all the pleasure
 JRJ73

Joined: 6/21/2006
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Posted: 7/15/2006 10:31:48 AM
Hi. Women who carry condoms or diaphrams etc. are making themselves look like they never know when they're going to have sex next so they are always prepared. It definitly shows that she's very sexually active... but at least she's smart about it. :)
 hojash

Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 145
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 7/21/2006 5:55:40 PM
See this is another double standard. So it's ok for men to have them no questions asked but if a woman does oh no.
 1rightonguy

Joined: 6/3/2006
Msg: 146
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 7/21/2006 6:05:54 PM
This is a ridiculous question.......

any guy who feels threatned because a female is responsible enough, and confident enough in her sexuality to keep condoms around is a tool....

c'mon, dude, it's 2006....people have sex now.....

trust me, even if she had no condoms, doesn't mean she's not sleeping around either....at least if you find them, you know she's smart about it
 D.P.O.D

Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 147
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 7/21/2006 8:38:41 PM
it's means she was thinking ahead I always keep aome in my purse I havn't ever had sex but when I do i'm not planing on a living breathing reminder


lol
 thisgirlismissingonething

Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 148
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 7/21/2006 8:40:35 PM
ummmmm YES, it means she's not an idiot and respects her body. Man i get red in the face when i hear that guys think thats dirty or bad......
 touchmeimsick

Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 149
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 7/21/2006 9:07:44 PM
I have condoms.

I got them for free at planned parenthood.

But I don't generally carry them around with me...

But I don't think it indicates a girl is too sexually active if she does carry them. Maybe she just keeps one in her purse or something just to be on the safe side, even if she's not planning upon having lots of sex with anyone. Because you never know what can happen.
 eye4light

Joined: 7/12/2006
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Posted: 7/21/2006 9:51:13 PM
Let's apply the same question to you.

If you were the prepared one and had a condom, does that mean that YOU are too sexually active? Or just that you have your act together and are smart enough to be prepared should something should arise (so to speak).

Reading through these forum entries makes me see just how often men adhere to double-standards, maybe without even realizing it. But I suppose women also have their double-standards too.

I tend to think we should think of, and treat, one another as if we are all on the same level...unless you're both into that God says the woman is suppose to obediently submit to whatever her man says because he was made the ruler of the household and is therefore wiser and smarter than any woman could ever be crap. A lot of people still believe in that stuff. Wierd.
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