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 angelleys

Joined: 6/7/2006
Msg: 201
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/24/2006 5:17:51 PM
I would hope so! That is a woman in the modern age that is concerned about her health and the health of her sexual partners.

Condoms are more than just a 'hey bob can I get a price on the Trojan multi pack' now, they are a necessity for any single person who is having sex.

Hurrahs for anyone who always stocks up on condoms....mega hurrahs if you stock lube, toys, vibes, lingerie and condoms!!!

Have a humpy jar..every time you have sex and use a condom pop a loonie into the jar...depending on how often you have sex you will either have enough to keep a never ending supply or go to Hawaii on a happy humpy vacation
 roughntender

Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 202
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/24/2006 5:26:29 PM
Personally, I can't understand people that are ashamed or scared to buy condoms. Get over it, be an adult. The person behind the counter would rather be somewhere getting some, like they think you are about to. I am always prepared, but not in a pretentious, condom in my wallet kind of way. Here's the truth, if she has a mixing bowl, pillowcase or shoebox full of condoms, the latex can't stop everything Paco. RUN LIKE HELL!!!! If she has 12 to 24, okay she knows in this day and age, you have to put a "sock on the pickle" to quote Ice Cube because nobody wants their gentials blowing smoke signals. Game. Set. Match. Common Sense & Maturity 1, immature, haphazard, ugly-bumping 0.
 JerryInTampa

Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 203
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/24/2006 6:12:14 PM

So you meet that girl you connect with and your making out and its getting to the rip the clothes off part. You realize you dont have condoms and she whips one out in a heartbeat. Is that a good thing? I guess it is as far as the safe sex part goes but does that mean she's perhaps a little too sexually active?
WTH is "too sexually active"?

Last I checked, among straight people, women have sex the exact same amount as men (in fact, this is a logical neccessity). So is a man with a condom "too sexually active"?
 Lil Red Riding Hood

Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 204
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/24/2006 6:16:16 PM
As a side bar too I carry 3 or 4 different kinds.......hahhaha. Never know what size ya might run into or what the guys preference is.
 blondeangelkisses

Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 205
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/24/2006 6:49:54 PM
Yes .... it is a great thing!!!! Why would you assume that she's too sexually active because has has condoms?? Just because she has condoms doesn't mean she's sleeping with the whole football team.... it simply means that she respects her body and health (as well as yours) should that moment come along.

What's the big deal?
 Botox_Smiles

Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 206
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/24/2006 9:01:58 PM
if anything a condom screams RESPECT...
obviously, if your to the point where you want to sleep with eachother whats the difference if you bring toss out a rubber or she does?
She's being respectful of your personal health and well-being as well as her own
 sunfire_sweet

Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 207
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/30/2006 12:42:28 PM
anybody who carries them is damned one way or another, but at least your carrying them, all too often people don't and you end up with a few situations 1) a pregnant chick that you may not like the next morning, or 2) std's 3) AIDS or 4) you end up getting all hot and excited and then the shut down happens.... i applaud anyone smart enough to bring along their own handbag of fun, at least people are wisening up that there's things out there that you can't cure anymore and save you from regretting something you just wanna forget!
 bellsy27

Joined: 5/30/2006
Msg: 208
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 8/30/2006 3:08:08 PM
To me it's better to have one and not need one then to need one and not have one....Does it really matter if she has 1 or 20, atleast she is responsible,and if your in the middle of making out or you going to honestly stop to think about har past sexual partners??(dude your about to get laid shut up and get some)
 victory1225

Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 209
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:54:14 PM
The part about whipping it out worries me. Get it? ehh anyway, yeah sounds like she's doing too much whipping! Mwhahaha

~n~
 Just_Be_Real

Joined: 9/5/2006
Msg: 210
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 9/25/2006 8:39:46 PM
i got condoms on me all the time baby!!! i am not overly sexually active...but if the time comes, rather be safe and have great sex.....then pass up a great opportunity if me and the male dont have any sort of protection.
cheers to you dolce!!!! you read my mind and spoke it
 badgirl4u2nv

Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 211
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 9/25/2006 8:47:16 PM

If she has the condoms is that a good thing?


GOOD FOR HER!!! I think men should be responsible for their own d!nks and the costumes they need to put on them. It's nice to hear of a women taking matters into her own hands and you should be happy AND SHAME ON YOU FOR NOT HAVING ONE!! HAHAHA
 Seshiro

Joined: 9/22/2006
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 9/25/2006 8:49:44 PM
I think everyone should be responsible for it. You much accept the consiquences for your actions
 alisha 120

Joined: 9/11/2006
Msg: 213
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/1/2006 10:43:08 PM
here we go with the double standard...could it POSSIBLY mean that she is a smart woman who is in control of her sex life, doesn't want to get pregnant, or get a sexually transmitted disease, yet is still a warm-blooded, functioning human being? can we PLEASE dispell the myth of the "stud" versus the "whore" once and for all?
i go with the boy scout motto: BE PREPARED
 AshleyRose21

Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 214
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/1/2006 10:48:38 PM
Being a woman who does keep condoms handy I can say it is not because I am sexually overactive. I keep them so that if there is a chance of intimacy and he says he does not have one I do. I am not willing to catch anyone else's problem or get pregnant at this point in my life. The truth is I do not think there are a lot of people out there who have their partners get tested before they become intimate and there are people out there who have no problem passing on what they have to someone else. It is a matter of protecting oneself.
 Woody_ Smith

Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 215
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/13/2006 6:02:25 PM
I means that she was thinking more clearly that I and was prepared.

Too sexually active? Is there such a thing? Don't believe it is possible. That thing doesn't work like a lock and key, one size fits all. Too many morality hangups around here folks.
Don't shove your values on someone else.

If you want to be the one and only, find a virgin marry her and keep her ina chastity belt if you can.


Woody
 Sigi

Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 216
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/14/2006 7:01:04 AM
Yes, it is a good thing...meaning she takes good care of herself.
 PandorasBocks

Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 217
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/14/2006 7:35:36 AM
Absolutely a good thing. She's smart, and it doesn't mean she's with every guy around. Be glad you are with someone that takes care of herself & her partner. My question is, how do you know a woman without condoms doesn't sleep around (without pro too!!!!)
 qwertyalso

Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 218
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/14/2006 2:10:41 PM
Let's get real world here - Either she's diligent or a complete whore. To be on the safe side, disregard the "diligent" option...
 cuddly_zo

Joined: 9/29/2006
Msg: 219
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/14/2006 2:19:27 PM
its a good thing ...why when men have condoms on them its ok but if a women has them they might be sexually active come on ppl its 2006 not the 1920s..... just be lucky that she has brains to get them out!!! thankyou
 krankiss

Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 220
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/14/2006 2:44:03 PM
Dude, it means that she's prepared to have safe sex. No condoms and she'd be risking that the guy may not have one (as in your case). Then she'd have to trust him to pull out or wait and buy some or settle for oral etc etc. Not as much fun.

Remember that girls want sex JUST AS MUCH as guys do.. society just punishes them for their instincts LOL. She was prepared that day.. aint bad :)

Flip it around: She's posting something asking "The guy didn't bring any condoms.. does that mean he's sexually inactive?" Maybe, maybe not. He simply might not have been prepared that day..
 flyguy51

Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 221
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If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/14/2006 2:53:08 PM
I believe women who don't have birth control merely because they want to avoid that loose/easy/slut/whore/etc. stigma end up pregnant. Therefore, men should not reinforce that stigma. After all, it takes two to tango...
 cuddly_zo

Joined: 9/29/2006
Msg: 222
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/14/2006 2:56:19 PM
thankyou...krankiss...u said it beaaaauuuutifully
 july16ladybug

Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 223
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/15/2006 8:33:24 PM
In this Age and Time....a woman who doesnt carry a condom is A BAD THING.....very very very bad lol..Of course woman should carry condoms at all times....think safe sex all the time, eveytime!!!!!
 carpenter01

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 224
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/15/2006 8:42:22 PM
you know what. when it comes down to it if the guy dosent have a condom that usually means two things. One, he wants to take her out on a nice date and get to know her. Or two, he's totally broke.
Opposites attract. If she's got a jimmie and he's high and dry, let the good times roll.
 Pamela1

Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 225
If she has the condoms is that a good thing?
Posted: 10/15/2006 9:31:21 PM
Actually I would say that makes her smart and she practices safe sex. You can't assume a woman is too sexually active just because she has condoms. I have condoms available for just in case I meet someone and we hit it off. Doesn't mean I'm too sexually active, it just means that in the event that sex may occur, I have the condoms for both of us.

Just my 2 cents!

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