| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/23/2007 3:17:40 PM |
Men don't like TALL women They don't ?? ... well, I'm not going to read through 22 pages of posts, but I'm six feet tall and I prefer women as close to my height as I can find. Not to sound too overly-shallow, but let's face it, in full frontal body hugs, the ... (ahem!) ... favourite body parts just seem to line up a little better.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/23/2007 3:58:07 PM | | I'm 5'9" but slim. I've found that men like dating tall women, almost like it's a status thing. Most of the men I've dated have been my height or under, but I dated one guy that was shorter and not conventionally good looking but oh, my god, he was hot. I loved his humour and his confidence. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/23/2007 4:33:38 PM | Well I've been 6'2 since i was 14, and i must admit that i got many of THOSE looks through the years. But i always felt that this odd attraction is caused by fascination, there are much more short women than tall ones out there. It's like finding a rare gem in a pile of stones. But you can use those stones to build a home, as for the gem... well, it will always be there just for it's beautiful nature - a jewel, decoration of sorts. But eventually, the fascination dulls out and you find yourself alone again. And that's just plain sad.
I believe that height should come as a plus, or a minus. But the basis for any relationship lies within the person himself. I can't say i felt most comfortable dating guys who were much shorter than me, but like someone here said on the first few pages - everyone is the same height when cuddling on th sofa. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/23/2007 9:31:51 PM | i know this thread has probably been threadjacked by now but i just had to say that i find tall women SUPER SUPER SEXY!!!!! especially if they're taller than me. easier kissing,  | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/23/2007 11:10:37 PM | That I can't believe. I'm 6'2. I love tall women. No complains here. Any girl who's around my height give or atke whatever. Hey, if she or I notice one another thats all that matters. Everything else gets interesting from there. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/23/2007 11:38:52 PM | Physiologically....it does not make a darn bit of difference.I appreciate a woman...even if she is "short! Men love women!! Period!! Psychologically..if she is taller and I have to look up to her !!!!My God ..my poor male ego !! If she is worth the effort........and does not succumb to "hype"..wunderbar! Lets play.!!
Women are women..men are men...vive la difference!! Sociological hangups combined with media sterotypings, constitute the majority of insecurities incurred with relationships and dating. You like what you see...tell them..but not too explicitly to avoid legal ramafications. What a stupid world we have created ! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/26/2007 1:21:41 AM | | well if it's good for dustin hoffman (who i thank profusely for making my life more manageable years ago when he dated a very tall woman & suddenly opportunities opened for me) and if it's good for tom cruz... who cares if some men don't like tall women or if some tall women don't like short men. we all have plenty to choose from. and like i said before, it's the "moves' ladies and gentlemen! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/26/2007 2:23:25 AM | it takes a special kind of guy to approach a tall because he knows he WILL be rejected because girls will always reject a smaller guy.As per the forum here the other day, judging a book by the cover is still rampant.
The reason that guys li smaller is so they can feel protective and the converswe with women, its going back to our primeval days im afraid. I never approach a taller woman unless she's with someone or a just chatting cos you know its a waste of time | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/26/2007 3:18:32 AM | here my story about tall and short: when we are toe to toe, my nose is in it when we are nose to nose, my toe is in it and when I am in it, there is no one to talk to.
op, the same thing is true the other way around. I always wanted a tall woman but they kept saying no until I met a shorty. a shorty, you can lift her, go upstairs and drop her gently in bed.........a tall one, you lift and you come down crashing.......... | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/26/2007 9:38:06 AM | Just wondering how many of these men that are stating that a tall woman would turn him down have actually asked out a tall woman? And no I dont mean a tall, super model looking woman? I mean your average, pretty but not drop dead stunning, tall woman?? Just a little after thought.. why do men chase after women that they dont have a snowballs chance of getting with instead of choosing the less stunning apperance woman with the heart of gold?? Somethings I will never understand  | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/26/2007 9:44:02 AM | Dear southern lady Im no talking about supermodels, just your average common or garden NICE AND NORMAL lady, they ALWAYS turn you down regardless! I would chat and be nice to alady if she was taller than me but they always look down their nose figureitlevly as well as physically at you so what IS the point!!! You seem a nioce lady thought so there you go Mike | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/26/2007 9:58:53 AM | I disagree im 6/1 and i love tall girls but seems most girls want man taller if they are around 5/9 or more go figure lol . I have found that taller woman 5/8 and above to be more down to earth as far as communication maybe its cause they understand some feel diff or like you said intimidateing, ill take tall anytime:) jerry  | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/26/2007 10:00:16 AM | Not that I am an expert in dating or anything else really... Where are you meeting these women?? I can see if a woman starts talking to a man and she just doesnt feel comfortable tring to get out of it... But if a man is a real live true nice guy and she finds him attractive then I just dont see a woman running away from a man just because he is shorter than her...
A guy that I dated for many months ( see the Best Pick Up Lines Ever Used On you Forum) that was shorter than me. He was 5'9" and I am 6'1" and we were VERY happy together. Things just weren't ment to be with us...
Good luck and happy fishing!!
Dont worry I am sure your is some where over there in the English Channel  | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/27/2007 10:16:11 AM | It is truly not about height as much as how they feel about themselves. I am comfortable in my skin (finally...and it took a lot of growing up and maturing), so I am open to dating whomever catches my attention. I want people to see me with my partner and say "damn, they look happy and really like each other." If they are noticing our height difference we need to laugh more.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/27/2007 11:46:09 AM | All this talk of dislike is nothing but malarkey and tomfoolery.
It is just preference. I may see a hottie that is 5'5" but will by pass her for a saucy wench thatis 5'9" or taller. I have always dug tall women. Who knows, maybe it is a bigger butt, bigger breasts bigger hands, bigger feet...who the hell knows.
Anyways, one should not get obsessed over anything, lest you will become like that Lord of the Rings character called Gollum: Precious, precious, precious.... creepy.. (shudder) | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/27/2007 11:58:23 AM | Hi.and WRONG! Tall men love tall women!! Not only great in a gown or dress but down right sexy!! And a not to older women lose the short hair! Grow your hair
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| Re: Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/27/2007 12:06:56 PM | I think you are doing just what you said you weren't trying to do... Generalize.
While you decry the fact that the tall men you are interested in, aren't interested in you, you refuse to even consider a guy who might be shorter. I don't even look at that part of the profile unless I'm first interested in who she is and what she says.
Some of the women on these dating sites have such silly measurements of what a good should be. I've seen profiles where the women say that they will only date a guy over six feet tall. Because she likes to wear heels. I go back , to check her height, and find she is only 5-2 or 5_3 ... What are they going to do... wear 7 or 8 inch heels?
One time, after writing a second email to someone, I mentioned that I was a widower... she wrote back that she doesn't date men who's wives have died... because it spooks her out. How mature do you think she was.
To me, that ranks right up there with "does/should size matter?" | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/27/2007 12:11:23 PM | I dont know what guys you hang around but I like tall women if she is even taller than me that is even better I like tall women with very long legs, there is a lot of things you can do with a tall woman that you cant do with a short onelike having sex face to face both of us standing up instead of having to lift her up, which mind you I am not against | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/27/2007 10:33:58 PM | | when your nose to nose his toes are in it and when your toes to toes his nose is in it! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/28/2007 1:35:23 AM | rjpof74 the mommy in me cannot resist. you will have luck and need not be intimidated. your profile indicates a good head on your shoulders and when she comes along, she will be right for you and very special. use your martial arts discipline and be yourself! unfortunately, my little daughter 5'2" is too young for you, only 17, but she has male friends from her height up to 6+', not to mention her very tall adoptive mom, me! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/31/2007 1:10:00 PM | I think that deep down men DO like TALL women but only those who are not sure how to 'accommodate' their long legs for example might be a bit sheepish when it comes to height. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 2/16/2007 12:01:11 AM | | Personally, I love tall women. I'm completely enamoured by a young lady on POF who is extremely tall. She messaged me and I fell for her head over heels. She said I'm the perfect height for her.... and she's 8" taller than me!! If only there wasn't so much damned country between us :( | |
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