| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/23/2007 10:27:10 AM | | This is simply not true for the greater majority of men. Ever since my teenage years, I was always hit on, approached, or however one comes in contact By shorter men. Iit was the long legs that first attracted the male counterpart. At the age of 16, I was told by my brother in-law to beware of men just dreaming about having my long legs wrapped around what ever body part they so desired. Now maybe someone with a low self esteem might have taken issue with my height, but I need a man who knows how to handle and not be intimidated by a woman. The funniest left handed compliment given happened when 2 young men walked by me and I over heard one say to the other 'Now she's worth the climb'. Years later, I still chuckle. So, next time you enter a room, throw those shoulders back, stand up straight and make your enterance, girl. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/23/2007 10:41:09 AM | | Iv found most men like tall women,most of my height is in my legs and never have had any complaints thus far ,Im happy with my height and wouldn't want to be shorter ,as far as being intimidated I dont see why they would be | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/25/2007 6:32:30 AM | | If anything, I do like tall women. I'm 5'10. But I find that women as tall or taller than me tend to go for taller men. So, perhaps the topic would be more appropriately titled, Tall women don't like shorter men. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/25/2007 6:45:05 AM | Well I would not necessarily say that they don't. Also cannot combine all men into one melting pot either. I am 6'1 and darn proud of my height and love it! 
I get a combination of both, tall and short men. I do not necessarily have a preference. Just as long as the guy is comfortable being around me, and secure about his own height. Height is not something that can be controlled.
Taller men are harder for me to come by as most would like a shorter woman, and then for shorter men some get a little scared or nervous around me because of the height difference so I just can't win! LOL. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/25/2007 6:47:54 AM | Look for another reason why men won't approach you.
I stand 5'-11"..... My ex-wife stood 6'-0".... We didn't have a problem with height. We had problems with other things...but height wasn't one of them!!
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/25/2007 7:12:49 AM | Hopefully this hasn't already been said but at 28 pages I skipped a lot of this forum. From a strictly anthropological point of view tallness is an attractive characteristic in the search for a mate. It also puts the tall individual into an immediate position of dominance. (Try being the only one standing in a room full of people sometime, you sense it almost immediately). This may be why tall men seem to be not interested in tall women. A tall woman challenges a tall man's dominance. I'm 5'8". I'm currently seeing a woman who is 6'. The only problem she has is when we go dancing. She likes to wear heels. (Helps show off those long legs). So if she does wear heels she is now almost a foot taller and my face is in her chest. Otherwise the height variance doesn't bother her. We having too much fun.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/25/2007 8:09:20 AM | I am 5'10'-5'11, I was the tallest girl in class since the fourth grade. Now, I think I am about average. But some men still go "wow your tall", and they are 5'7-5'8. When we meet I swear there doesn't seem to be a huge height difference. I think sometimes it all in your mind. I could say that there was one time I felt awkward with someone shorter than me, he was 5'1, and well when we were slow dancing I felt a bit violated..lol, but hey he wasn't complaining...lol. Besides, when I do confront men if my height bothers them, they usually say no, we are all one height in bed...lol. Typical man...just joking...hmm..maybe not.. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 5/25/2007 10:25:46 AM |
Tall women don't like short guys. Whatever, all the same.
I completely agree to that. Being 5 feet 1/2 myself, I get turn down by lots of either taller or even same height as me girls. As if everything stopped there.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/3/2007 8:25:53 AM | | Im 6ft4 and I love tall girls. I have dated very short girls and it doesnt work out well for me. I find tall girls very attractive and i love the fact that you can look them eye to eye without getting neck ache! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/3/2007 8:45:43 AM | First of all forget about this tall nonsense; I prefer to think of us as "normal-sized" and the rest as short. I have met many wonderful and interesting short people, but for a potential partner someone similiar in height is a definite plus. It's difficult to even talk to someone shorter when you constantly have to slump down to hear them.
I think of "tall" women as being long-stemed roses that are a joy to appreciate. And their legs..........!
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/3/2007 9:02:36 AM | I'm 6'2. I'll be perfectly honest when I say that I prefer women to be shorter than me. And by shorter I mean 4'11 to 5'4. That's the gold spot for me. Doesn't mean I won't date someone that's taller, but Most women who are up there are either too filled out or too thin. I met a girl once who was high side of 6'4 and she was built like a man. Not buff, not fat, just "thick" and filled out. She was like 200 lbs but I swear that was my first dealing with an amazon-like female and it was a total turn off.
There's a girl at my work who has to be 6'5 at the least, I mean she towers over me and I'm considered one of the taller ones. Her only issue is that she's too thin - for her weight she should definitely be about 5'4, but because she's so tall it makes her look anorexic. Obviously, not a turn on.
If she's weight and height proportioned I would date someone who was no more than my height. At my height though, there'd definitely have to be a 135lb weight limit. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/29/2007 2:11:42 PM | How tall a women is has nothing to do with anything. too me anyways.
I've dated women from 4'10 to 6'5". They've all "brought something to the table".
I wouldn't exclude anyone based on their size. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/29/2007 2:27:43 PM | sniper308!!! message 5
'I'm 6'5" tall and refuse to have anything to do with pygmy women under 5'7" '
how very bloody dare you!! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/29/2007 2:38:42 PM | | i dont mind tall women being six foot two myself i do know that i have amate but i know one ol friend i used to know real small swell guy ou some might call a dwalf he marrired to a six foot girl he starreid in films such has star wars and quiz shows fort boyard you guys might know who i mean where they have to get keys to win cash well i mean that guy not r2 d2 burt he 2 his married to dancing girl over six foot i wouldnt mid how tall they are but love has to be there in the first place aint it | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/30/2007 5:32:56 AM | | i know the feeling....im 6ft 2 and many guys would go out with me if i was shorter...i dont have a problem with my height and find tall me love it but shorter men may feel insecure lol | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/30/2007 6:12:11 AM | | Life has shown me that it is best to judge a lady on her "depth" rather than on a physical attribute like height. My relationships which were based more on the physical attributes have never been as meaningful as the ones based on the mental ones. But I can understand that it is the physical attributes such as height that we as people first react to. We all have our likes and dislikes and it is most important that the choices we make in life are ones that we are comfortable with. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/30/2007 3:22:51 PM | so i'm 5'10 in flats so when i'm out im at least 6'...I havent had any issues with finding tall men...I have found that the men actually love it! I will have somebody track me down from the other end of the bar, simply because they love it... Maybe it how you hold your height... Be proud of it...wear those heels..stand tall and let the world see you! And if a short guy hits on you...good on him...take a secure man to approach a taller women...
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/30/2007 3:30:57 PM | | I am tall and wear heels that make me over 6 foot. I have not run into your problem at all. Maybe because with my heels most shorter guys heads are eye level with my chest. lol | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/30/2007 3:33:04 PM | | iv never had any problems, getting a tall man, they all say just my size, and when it comes to kissing, lips are a lot nearer than a short man, dont let a silly thing like that worry u. and i am 5.9 | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/30/2007 6:47:46 PM | iv never had any problems, getting a tall man the question isn't can taller women score dates with tall men. pay attention. the question is do men like tall women?
the answer is yes of course. men generally aren't height snobs like women. although there will be some guys who don't like tall women, generally height is no factor to a guy in regards to a lady's attractiveness factor. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/30/2007 6:55:35 PM | | I haven't read all 28 pages of this thread, but a woman's height is not an issue for most men. In general women especially the tall ones are much more picky when comes to height. I haven't dated a woman that is around my height because the vast majority of women are shorter than me, not because I wouldn't be attracted to a tall woman. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/2/2007 1:28:58 PM | I love "tall" women, actually I think we are normal sized and everyone else is short ;-)
My problem is finding someone in my age range and interests.
The opposite is quite true also in that short women are not comfortable with tall men. I guess they figure we are too big for them.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/6/2007 2:09:03 PM | To illustrate how rare "tall" women are, I did the search for ladies age 49 to 61, non-religious, from 5'10" to 6'2" and only came up with 32 matches.
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