| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 4/1/2008 5:16:05 PM | I'm 6'8" and would love to meet someone tall. There are very few, if any, women that intimidate me because of their height.
As far as your theory goes, when someone walks up to you and says lets go....its hard to say no, I'm waiting for the tall one....lol | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 4/12/2008 9:04:58 PM | | I have to say just for my taste and view...though I have dated tall women...I'm more attracted to smaller-shorter women as a matter of preference only.I do not feel tall women are a threat at all...I just go for shorter women as a matter of taste. I am average height (5' 10") if I were 6' 5" short women would still get my attention faster. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 4/12/2008 10:46:58 PM | | There are few people in my ballpark. Met a few recently, including the most recent whom I will see almost eye to eye with if she wears heels. Works for me, it is nice having someone that I can hug without kneeing them in belly. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 8:40:55 PM | | Now wait, you just said that you get approached by men, cut the crap and just say the men you want to date don't seem to want to date you and you don't want to date the ones who are interested because you don't like a guy to be not as tall as you | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 8:54:06 PM | Not even a little bit?
Why, oh why couldn't I have been beautiful or rich instead of tall?
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 9:12:22 PM | Hi Julia:
What a fabulous post! Being tall myself this is a topic I am quite familiar with!
I think in some ways you may be right about the instinctive thing. Attraction is such a funny thing. I think that it's more about confidence. I know a much taller girl who is much more confident than myself . She has every height of man approaching her all the time!!! For her it's a nonissue and she dates people based on their overall attractiveness. She told me that if I am not hung up on height (mine or theirs) my date will be less likely to feel that way.
I have found that certain guys will tell my friends that they believe that I am just too tall to date. I am 5'9 but I like heels. What can I say? I don't let shallow people like that get to me. I just remember that I am the bigger person. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 9:31:26 PM | ^^^ obviously... anyone over 5'5-5'6 is a no go, I don't even pay attention to them, online or offline...
and I think, tall woman, short man couples look damn funny to me, or even sad in a way...
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 9:41:11 PM | I am getting tired of everyone getting so bent out of shape over height. Who cares about height! It seems that Women want guys who are taller and men want women who are around the same size or shorter. Personally I don;t care we are all the same size lying down. What;s wrong with getting apprached by a short guy as long as he;s good looking what do you care if he is tall or short? I'm a short guy with confidence. I'll stand up to the biggest guy in the room and at the same time flirt with the hottest girl int he room. I may not go home with her but I made my presence known. I have Cajones! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 9:55:45 PM | Why, oh why couldn't I have been beautiful or rich instead of tall?
Naughtical, I think you are beautiful and tall, money can't buy you love, so, other than paying bills, having money is very overated. But then, I'm not shorter than you. I'd love to whirl you around a dance floor with you looking up into my eyes. I know they are out there, but, I've never dated a girl taller than me. So, I don't mind tall girls AT ALL.
L8TR

EDIT: How about dating guys whose profile pic looks like a cartoon? | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 10:04:56 PM | Awww...thanks Danny. If you ever come my way...dancing it is.
Never cared much for cartoons...even when I was a kid. | |
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| One short guy's thoughts Posted: 6/4/2008 10:09:32 PM | So it seems like a lot of the men here are highly tall, in the 6'+ range. Here's a viewpoint from the complete opposite end of the spectrum, my 5'1"/5'2"ish (and always short, not one of the kids that grew fast and then stopped) self. In my dating life I've had one girlfriend that was shorter than me, and although it was my longest and most successful relationship to date, it's really not my preference. Height isn't a dealbreaker to me by any means, but all other things being equal (brainpower, passion, athleticism, maybe a good dose of geekiness and curiosity thrown in for good measure) I'd much rather have a tall partner than a short one. This is for a couple of reasons-first off, just visually I find taller women to be more...well proportioned is probably the best way I can put, and second, I'm really attracted to strength. I have a very dominating personality (probably a side effect of the height ) and I want someone who can balance that out...I don't want the challenge of breaking someone (as some posters have alluded to); I want someone I _can't_ break. And if I'm dating some dainty little short girl, I often feel like breaking her is way too easy to do.
Now, that said...I've been rejected multiple times by taller women. That part sucks. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 10:27:32 PM |
Never cared much for cartoons...even when I was a kid did they even have cartoons when you were a kid?
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/4/2008 10:52:52 PM | | Hey, I'm 6'2" tall and have always fantacized about having a 6', slender girlfriend, just never had the good fortune to meet one:) | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/5/2008 4:06:51 AM | I think, on average, most women have an issue with height.
I have a friend who won't wear heels because, most men she meets, are either her height (5'8") or shorter.
Personally, I'm 5'4" and feel I am short, so most men I date are taller than me. I do prefer a man being taller than me, probably because I am accustomed to that. It's rare to meet any man who is my height or shorter, as a result if I did meet a man shorter than me, I would probably feel out of place, but if I like the guy enough, then I would adjust. I have even dated men 6' +, probably because they are who I meet.
I think this is too much a sweeping statement, there will always be exceptions and personal taste is too varied. Some men like tall women, others like short, and women can also be the same. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/5/2008 1:02:22 PM | So this post is basically telling us: Hi, I am tall and very pretty. But I can't seem to get a date (!) Wouldn't you be interested?
If you are looking for a date, try putting up a picture instead of telling us how pretty you are. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/5/2008 1:10:22 PM | Sweet Pea, I am 6'2" and have known ladies my height and shorter. I have no opinion on the matter. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/5/2008 1:33:18 PM | | I had a man tell me recently that my being taller didn't bother him a bit and that I could even wear heels to add to the height difference because he knew who would be in charge of the 'situation' it was said with sooo much confidence I became instantly intrigued!! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/5/2008 2:23:28 PM | | I, myself, have had many men initiating the contact on here saying stuff like it's too bad you're taller than me. Sometimes its only by an inch, which isnt much to me. I mean really, if you're attracted to me, I dont think an inch is going to matter?? | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/5/2008 2:33:47 PM | | I'm 6' 4" and would love to meet a tall lady, but most of the ones that I do meet are of average height 5 ft 4. I feel more comfortable with tall women. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/5/2008 2:39:51 PM | ''well long tall sally shes built for speed shes got everything that Uncle John needs oh baby,yeahhhhhhhhhhh baby,having some fun tonight'' Little Richard | |
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