| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/30/2008 12:59:20 PM | | It's understandable though. To women, a relationship is all about the perception of security, and height plays a role in that. So do many, many other factors, but height is one that is very apparent and very easily discussed so it often takes the blame. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/30/2008 1:35:15 PM | I dated taller once... especially when she was in heels , there is just something about looking upwards in to a woman's eyes and remaining manly.....most of all in an argument. and no I do not suffer from Napoleon syndrome . (like talking to your mother or something) "Can we go out for dinner?"
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/30/2008 1:53:00 PM | well im 5'10/11 i dont have a problem- theres always a nice gent to chat to. Or funny mail box remark to brighten my day. No one has said a thing. Bless you , you know who u are and thank u for my nice chats. I am middle aged, middle of the road- maybe they dont feel intimidated by me. Sweatpea, ever tht your just too hot to handle girl friend. Always found men like long legs myself.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/31/2008 10:00:45 AM |
So Tra C...What you have mentioned and the way in which you talk about height, it is obviously a requirement and not preference. So what do you believe is shallow and superficial?
i dont see anything wrong with wanting to date someone taller than myself...ive dated shorter men...i even married a guy that was 3 inches shorter than me....its just uncomfortable to me. i want to be able to look into their eyes without bending down...or without them eye level to my breasts.
what i find shallow and superficial are people who are into ONLY appearance ie: girls that only want to date men that look like a rockstar or a movie icon...men that only want to date supermodels. sure if i fall in love with a shorter guy...then so be it...im not completely ruling that out. its happened before. im just saying id RATHER be with someone taller than me. security is a HUGE factor. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/31/2008 2:42:04 PM | | I'm 6' 7" and I have only dated 1 woman who was taller than me. I was 6' 3" at the time, and she was 6' 11". It was cool at first, then got awkward. I won't date anyone shorter than 5'7" now, and if another woman who was taller than me came around again, I would have no worries...unless she was taller than 7' 5"! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 12/31/2008 5:13:52 PM | | I like to feel powerful so I prefer to go with a titch, bigger women scare me. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/7/2009 12:35:31 AM | | All things being equal, I'd prefer to date a woman who was taller than me than shorter. At the end of the day, it is probably the least important characteristic of a woman I can think of though. If a girl was 6'6 and had a good personality, I'd definitely go for her. The question is, does anybody really think such a girl would go for a guy who is between 5'6 - 5'7. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/7/2009 1:01:34 AM | "if another woman who was taller than me came around again, I would have no worries...unless she was taller than 7' 5"!"
No tallest woman in the world for you then!!!
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/7/2009 1:31:51 PM | | I don't mind tall women at all but in my experience they generally don't care for guys my height (5-7). Actually from my experiences here, most girls over about 5-5 due to the fact they like heels don't care for guys my height. But...as I say those are just my experiences and realistically I'm not so sure I'd want to be with any woman who would rather be with someone other than me. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/7/2009 6:36:15 PM | I'm 5'5"... there aren't many who are shorter than I am... it seems that most women want taller men. if that were the case, i would be SOL.
all of my previous girlfriends/lovers were taller than I am. the tallest being 5'11"...
i am attracted to tall women... i think they are gorgeous. intimidating, maybe... but it's responses like the post that started this thread that make me uneasy about myself for being short. yes, i'm short.. sorry. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/8/2009 7:37:47 PM | | no it's usually more like " I need to be held by a man taller than me so I'll have a false sense of security and or saftey blah blah blah " and really wtf is the difference ? I might be short 5'7" but my sons mom is a 6 footer . I loved when she wore high heels and not cuz I wanted to show her off but because I think it looks sexy . And you must think us shorter than you are losers cause your only complaining about the tall guys passing you up.and you say your not ugly in reference to only short guys trying to talk to you .did you ever think the man of your dreams or soulmate or whatever might have been short ? And you'd never give him the time of day cause your taller than him. Maybe when they come out with IMPLANTS that make short guys taller you'll get aproached more often . | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/8/2009 7:45:38 PM | | could you honestly explain to me how a taller gent is more secure than a shorter gent .are you implying that only tall guys make good money ?or that a tall guy will always be able to defend you ?ha !!!tell me that's not what you mean | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/8/2009 7:57:09 PM | | Being a taller woman, I know that it's the short ones that usually seem to give me attention. Or maybe it's the shorter ones that grab my attention. I have a gnome/elf like man fetish. tss | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/8/2009 8:40:31 PM | | bigbrown- perception and reality are often quite different. You should understand that by now. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/9/2009 5:36:16 PM | | The men in my area don't seem to have any issues with a tall woman as nine out of 10 emails I receive are from men shorter than me and I'm 6' in my bare feet. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/9/2009 6:50:50 PM | | I personally find tall women sometimes even more attractive than short/average height women. My problem is, every time I come across a tall chic, she rejects any guy who is not tall as or taller than her. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/9/2009 7:34:46 PM | | I'm with you Cliff...Most of the time I find tall women more attractive. For the longest time I have been attracted to women who have been volleyball players. Most of the time the have very attractive athletic builds. But 9 out of 10 times she is going to be taller, so my chances are not good here. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/10/2009 5:59:25 AM | Height is not an issue for me like it is for some women. Any time I've rejected a guy its been based on personality, lack of commonality or physically he was not my type. But it was never about height.
Just because some taller women have said no due to height doesn't mean they all will. Its music to my ears when a shorter guy says to me "I love your height!".
Some famous women are taller than their husbands: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban, Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise, Tracy Pollen and Michael J. Fox. France's First Lady Carla Bruni is taller than her husband. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/10/2009 7:49:32 AM | LOL.... I hate when I see a tall woman with a short guy. Tall women are for tall men. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. I've dated a few tall woman... between 5'8" to 5'11". I am not into the short women. I don't consider myself bad looking either. I'm 6'4", in pretty good shape, and have goals set for me.
There are a lot of men out there that don't have the balls to walk up to a woman and talk with her. That's not me. I have no problem doing that. lol. Plain and simple | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/10/2009 8:19:42 AM |
LOL.... I hate when I see a tall woman with a short guy. Tall women are for tall men. Whoa there Tarzan, maybe Jane has her own ideas about who she "is for". In any case, don't be a hater, it's not very Christian of you. Fortunately, you're still very young and hopefully will grow out of this phase.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 1/10/2009 8:26:47 AM | Wow this thread has been amusing. Guess it all boils down "to each his own" I used to be very attracted to short women 5 footers. I'm average height of 5'9" but recently I asked out this 6' women. I 'm so attracted to her and realized the attraction was nothing to do with her height; it is her awesome kind and bubbly personality that hooked me. All of my friend’s razz me about her with such comments like "so you’re going out with Amazon women again... “I just smile and say hell yea! I did get one positive comment from a friend last week after he spent some time with us he said "now I see why you’re attracted to her" I have come to my own conclusions... I love women tall or small. It’s about the person and who there are and everything else is superficial. | |
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