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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 6/11/2009 2:37:30 PM |
I get overlooked by the guys taller than me
Try hopping up and down in front of them. Get in their line of sight. This is more effective if you don't wear a bra.
You may need a step stool for the Yao Ming sized. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/1/2009 10:59:26 PM | I'm 6'3" and I've noticed the same things from tall guys.
It's not that short men are unattractive, it's just that, I personally, want a guy who makes me feel feminine, and when I'm bigger than he is, it feels all wrong. And frankly, being tall and independent, I emasculate guys who are smaller than me. I beat them at sports, am usually physically stronger, and come off as overpowering.
The issue isn't about putting down short guys.
It's just that some women don't buy entirely into the feminist movement. I want to be more feminine than my guy and that IS nature. With so many guys getting in touch with their feminine side because of the Women's Movement, women are forced to seek bigger, brawnier men in order to get manly men.
Guys are the ones who forward the opinion that a woman should be a petite, perfect package, and it's crap. I'd have no problem dating a shorter guy if he took less time primping in the bathroom than I do. Until then, I'll keep dating Vikings. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/1/2009 11:48:50 PM | Hah, right.
I'm only 5'11, but hmm lets see, the tallest woman I've dated was 6'4, then there was one who was 6'2, or 2 who were, my last was my height without shoes on.
The 6'4 was too thin. boney hips/thighs/pelvis. Hurt. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/2/2009 12:01:53 AM | Wow everyone has an opinion on this one.... I'm not really tall, 5'8 (but i like heels) and in 3 out of 4 of my relationships the man was shorter.. but considering there is never a shortage of tall men, i think it comes down to me liking short guys.... now i'm wondering why..... | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/2/2009 1:59:38 PM | | For me, it's not really about her being taller than me, it's about how close is she to my own height. For example: me being 5'6", I would prefer a women that's 5'10" over a women who's 5' 1" but, really, it's not that big of a deal though. I have never turned someone down over their height, it's just a superficial preference. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/2/2009 2:18:41 PM | Intresting post...
MOST people are intimidated by tall people,Men,& Women even some other tall people.
I'm 6'4" tall and in all honesty the ONLY people I take seriously,(as a possible threat) are Men taller than myself.
Then I simply keep an eye on em,& stay prepered to react QUICKLY.As for TALL Women I've dated a few,& personally don't find them Intimidating,but then again I'm not Intimidated by TALL Men either,just watchful.
Honestly I believe your correct on one point...
It takes a Confident Man to handle a TALL Girl,(or even the thought of one) beyond that I believe because of your Physical Size only a Masculine Male will feel comfortable in your presence.
The Male mind is HARDWIRED for the role of protector.It's EASY to feel like the protector of someone who's a FOOT shorter than you,& eighty + pounds lighter.
When you're confident,(as you say) in yourself,& your abilities size is no longer an issue.Thus the "Short Men" hitting on ya,many of wich who are WAY to over confident for their own good. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/3/2009 4:02:46 PM | | In terms of dating or a relationship, i wouldn't go out with anyone taller than me, that's not to say that tall women aren't attractive, just not my type. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/3/2009 11:39:05 PM | | Its easier for a tall guy to bend down and talk to a shorter woman, then for a woman in heels to try to talk to a much shorter guy. We just have more comfortable shoes haha plus its harder to huggle with a taller person, just my take on it. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/4/2009 1:29:41 AM | people are all stuck in tall guy...short girl...short girl..tall guy (;
and then there's the one who are short guys...tall girls..tall girls..short guys..
everyone has their own interests. thats what makes it harder.
i believe that people think they can do better, as in fullfill their interests, so they dont bother.
IF YOU think you deserve your interest. Then be confidence like wayyy confident in yourself and who you are. If a guy looks at you and turns his head or ignores you, just say ha his lost. You deserve better than a stuck up guy anyways. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/8/2009 1:00:16 PM | | OP, don't worry about it, you're not alone. Girls don't like short guys, so it goes both ways. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 7/8/2009 9:49:01 PM | Well, consider this article: Most sperm banks will not accept donations from men who stand under 5' 11" in height. So who is really more obsessed about height? http://www.nationalpost.com/todays-paper/story.html?id=1702952
The sperm-seekers whose demand has produced this height restriction aren't giggly teenagers or desperate housewives addicted to Harlequin romances. They are strong, autonomous, educated, middle class, not-so-young women of ambition with support systems and resources sufficient to the logistical demands of child-rearing.
Whether childless because of sexual orientation, a ticking biological clock aligned with bad luck in the marriage market, or principled misandry, they view their future child's fatherlessness with sanguine confidence and a clear conscience.
Amongst such committed egalitarians in all other gender-related matters, then, logic would suggest a willingness to accept height parity, or at least diversity. So why are these father-cleansing feminists choosing to "mate" with a stereotypically patriarchal symbol of physical dominance?
Because deep inside, they aren't buying the utopian theories they've superficially endorsed. Freed from the hassle of meeting Mr. Right, and at liberty to conjure up Mr. Right DNA, even women mate-free by choice want to perpetuate via their future child's hologram sire the same symbols of male strength and protectiveness women have prized since time immemorial. Their decision to " disappear" their child's father says manliness isn't important; their atavistically-driven entries on the sperm bank checklist say it is.
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/8/2009 7:29:22 AM | | I am actually seeking a girl who is taller than me! And I am 6 feet tall so you can imagine how hard that is going to be. As far as men not being attracted to tall women, this is a misnomer really, a conditioned response from your parents and their parents. Truth be told it should only be a matter of preference, not because society makes some generalization about it. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/8/2009 10:04:44 AM | Some of the sexiest couples are the short guy with the tall gal.
think Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, etc
As a taller woman, I see the point though. I think we all need to lighten up a bit. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/8/2009 2:55:07 PM | | its the same thing as girls liking tall guys. Being 5'6 i get overlooked alot so u just have to keep looking and not wrry about what others say or think | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/10/2009 11:27:47 PM | | I am very attracted to tall women. Legs that go all the way to the floor = yummy. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/14/2009 6:02:27 PM | | Interesting thread. I'm 5'10" (with heels on, 6'1"+) and in all honesty have dated men both shorter and taller. I think taller feels a little more "natural" especially if you're dancing, but it is not a dealbreaker. Of course, when height difference becomes physically awkward or just inappropriate/uncomfortable that would be valid. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/14/2009 6:21:45 PM | I guess it's all about how you look at it, there is a positive side to taller women too. Being of equal height puts you at a perfect height to kiss her lips, a little taller puts you at a perfect height to kiss her neck, a lot taller or with high heels puts you at a perfect height to kiss her... well, you get the idea. It might not be optimal for dancing, but it would at least make slow dances a lot more enjoyable for men.
Seriously though, that concept of a "natural" couple is really just a result of social/cultural conditioning, nothing more. You could choose to ignore it any time you want to. Date someone because you like them, not because of how you look when you're with them.
Maybe that's just me though. I like shorter women and I like taller women, they both have their ups and downs. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/14/2009 7:19:25 PM | i can honestly say a man couldn't care less how tall you are, we are more interested in overall body shape, facial features, skin tone etc | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/14/2009 7:22:41 PM | In your post you should have said TALL men don't like TALL women. Because even if you don't realize it you are instantly not counting short guys as "men".
Regardless, this post is super old anyways. Still it's kind of irritating seeing these posts all over the place. I think I should move to Mexico where I'd be super tall and the ladies would be all over me.
North Americans tend to be taller than the world average(it's 5'10 in NA but the world average is 5'8). 8( At least I'm average...according to world standards!  | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/14/2009 7:55:52 PM | | You want tall people? Go to Germany! I had to go for work a few times - everyone is a giant! men, women - I"m used to being one of the taller people in any given group (in the US) especially if I'm wearing heels but there I was only average and spent a lot of time looking up at people - wasn't used to it! LOL | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/15/2009 7:15:16 AM | I have always liked tall women, as I am 6 2" myself... like the long legs!!! | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/15/2009 8:00:19 AM | | Height is important to a man, society tells them it's what makes them masculine, and powerful. My personal experience has been that many men lie about their height. Last week a couple of guys at work were having a friendly disagreement about who was taller. One claimed he was 6'1", the other said he was taller. I offered to help settle the dispute. They appeared to be the same height so then they argued about the boots they were wearing. I finally told them to measure me, and I came up slightly taller than both of them. When I told them I am only 6' tall they both adamantly disagreed. It was too funny. Most tall women I have ever met have this same complaint; the tall guys are all dating the short women. But, I think being a tall woman just makes us notice this more than others. I prefer a guy who is at least my height. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/15/2009 8:20:16 AM | | I have never had that problem i am almost 5'10.I on the other hand only date men taller than me, which is my preference.There are men out ther who only like petite women and some that like taller...and some have no preference.It's just a matter of finding the once's that do. | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/15/2009 3:25:55 PM | | Just joined the thread and... yawn... would have lost the will to live after reading 44 pages so forgive me if my point has already been made 44 times. In my experience women prefer men as tall or taller than them for purely aesthetic reasons. This is a real shame imho, because some of us are more leg than boob men and, by definition, tall women have longer legs ;). | |
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| Men don't like TALL women Posted: 8/15/2009 3:34:39 PM | I agree, the "average" or "short" woman (which, let's face it, is the VAST majority) have no freakin' clue what it's like to be a woman over 6 feet tall; don't get me wrong, I've had compliments; it's not like I had a choice in my height, (neither do short men); I think, that maybe, I might be finally getting to the stage and say f it. and maybe try shorter men. The pond is even smaller for us very tall gals I am a firm believer that you never know what something is like unless you experience it firsthand. I'm kind of surprised this thread wasn't deleted; and dunno whether to be mad or glad at how long it is. Considering that supposedly only 2% of the population is very tall women I was surprised at all the  | |
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