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 Farley1979

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 226
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Posted: 6/15/2008 8:26:29 AM
Only had this problem a long time ago.. It took frigging forever and I said it was ok if she wanted to stop but she said NO! and proceeded.. eventually I blew but man.. I was worried something was wrong..
 justoffnormal

Joined: 5/29/2007
Msg: 227
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Posted: 6/19/2008 12:19:13 PM
She's gotta use her hand with her mouth.
 BaldyisBeautiful

Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 228
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Posted: 6/19/2008 12:33:27 PM
Only ever been able to get off that way once in my life ... ahhhh, the memories .... crap, now I'm horny!
 gordiox

Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 229
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Posted: 6/19/2008 3:17:35 PM
OMG R YOU FOR REAL ?????????????????????????????????????
 gordiox

Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 230
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Posted: 6/19/2008 3:21:54 PM
YOU PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY DEBATING THIS ????????????? OMG
 Boricua Papi

Joined: 10/8/2007
Msg: 231
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Posted: 6/19/2008 3:22:45 PM
Country I'm hard now
 BaldyisBeautiful

Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 6/19/2008 3:24:12 PM

baldy:Tell your lady to try the way I SUGGESTED . It is fool proof

Lady friend? I am currently on hiatus, or as some would call it -- sh*t out of luck in that department. But no worries I always have porn!
 SpiceyCougar

Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 233
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Posted: 6/19/2008 3:25:05 PM
I didn't read all the replies... but...

I have a theory that men only say this so that you will try that much harder to get them off. I have never had a guy not be able to get off from oral.

What I really hate is when a guy will take a two hour BJ, but get off instantly during intercourse (with or without the two hour BJ).
 Von Erik

Joined: 3/28/2008
Msg: 234
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Posted: 6/19/2008 3:40:32 PM

Once i take there co ck out put my lips on the head and than slowly lick and suck and kiss it . get it all nice and wet than take it all down my throat to the balls than work up and down and around with my hand as I am going down and up with my mouth the other hand slightly touching his balls holding the and licking them also......... It works every time

I should say so.... that's after I've bent you over my bike for a while on the side of the road?

It's a combination of the gal's skillz and what's going on in your noggin...
Both of my wives had me pretty well trained to NOT do that... it's taken quite a few years of practice to be able to let go.
KNOWING that she wants it makes it much, much easier...

LOL, still remember the look on my first wife's face the only time I popped in her mouth... she did NOT want it....


You guys discuss this sort of thing, don't you?

Of course... when we're drinkin... and we've ALL got 10 inch d!cks, can last for hours, get our women off 100 times every time and can shoot a load 15 feet across the room...
 ottawa-gal

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 6/19/2008 5:25:14 PM
I guess I must be pretty good at giving BJs to this man I have seen on and off for 7 months. HE has cum every single time except last weekend- think he was too tired, was a friday night. I really like to please him - and there is alot of attraction- think that also helps alot. Guess I must be pretty good! ha ha > Once I gave a BJ and he came in 4 mins in my mouth, was just awesome- he loved it.
 bornagainslim

Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 236
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Posted: 6/20/2008 1:31:55 AM
I have only evermet two girls who could get me off orally. I think it was lack of techinique for the ones who couldn't.
 I_B_ME

Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 237
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Posted: 6/25/2008 2:34:04 AM
Like I stated in previous posts; I've only cum ONCE as she was a MANIAC who got off on bringing to orgasm.

If you're lucky enough to ever connect with a woman like this, DON'T let her go . . .
 skyman1

Joined: 8/28/2007
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Posted: 6/25/2008 3:26:30 AM
Hmm, hard to relate to this one. I've never had that problem. Maybe it's because that I'm so concerned with pleasing a woman and lasting as long as I can, that I've sort of trained myself to cum only on command. If they don't want me to cum and they want it to last for a long time, then it's just not going to happen. If they seem to be pretty satisfied or tired and they ask me to let go, then I can usually let go. For me, it's more of a mental conditioning thing. I make it a point to tell a woman, "Don't say you want it, unless you are done". "When you are done, then let me know and I will cum whenever you want me to". Anyway, I think it's good to set yourself up like this and condition yourself mentally. I'd like to believe that I could last as long as a woman wanted me to or I could cum as soon as she said I could, regardless of what she was doing to me. Hell, she could be slapping me with a telephone book and I would just say "Ok, you said I could cum", "Now, open that book up to the plumbing section, because this pipe is gonna bust soon!".
 roundtwo34

Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 239
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Posted: 6/25/2008 5:40:04 AM
Just relax and enjoy it.
 everlast_toronto

Joined: 5/28/2008
Msg: 240
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Posted: 6/25/2008 8:27:29 AM
I can, with the right person.... lots of women dont know how to do it properly...
 borntoski683

Joined: 4/28/2008
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:19:20 PM
Honestly, for a long time I thought I couldn't either, then one day I met a girl that gave me a mind bending BJ and I think I realized that some talent was involved. I suppose some guys are more sensitive than others which would make it easier for them to cum during a BJ. And some girls are definitely not any good at it either.
 _Red_

Joined: 12/14/2006
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:25:51 PM
I was with one man who said he couldn't. Being a rather stubborn Irish girl, I saw a challenge...and I think we both had a great time turning his "track record" around. =)

I think it depends on a few things most importantly, the man's comfort level with it and also how much the woman giving really enjoys doing so and how clear she makes that.

As for whether it's a problem, it's not like it's something I'd reject a man over tho I would probably give it all I had before ever giving up. At the same time, if it was causing him discomfort and he needed other stimulation to cum, so long as he was happy and satisfied in the end, it's all good if the relationship matters enough.
 Traveling Man MS

Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 6/25/2008 8:22:56 PM
Ummmmm, I usually cum from my penis, not orally.........
 CRAZY 4 DOGS

Joined: 9/12/2006
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Posted: 6/25/2008 10:08:26 PM
I love doing it and don't usually have a problem in this area but I would love to hear more about what exactly men want us to do. Can u give us all the tips u can on giving a man a great blow job...don't hold back I want to know in detail...it will only make more of u guys satisfied and wanting more!!! Much Appreciated!!!
 blondie_and_blue

Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 245
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Posted: 6/25/2008 11:02:20 PM
my man did tonight! ha ha!
 skyman1

Joined: 8/28/2007
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Posted: 6/28/2008 3:15:55 AM
You wan tips and secrets?

OK, here goes. Don't be mad, it's only one man's opinion. I believe I have had the best in my life so far. Maybe the best ever. It was painful to let her go, but sadly, I didn't love her, so it was the right thing to do. I knew that I may never find a woman as skilled as her, but I hate to take advantage of a woman who cares about me. Details: For starters, she seemed to love her craft. She really enjoyed doing it thoroughly. Oddly enough she did not swallow, but she was absolutley a finisher. She would take it all the way to the end and whatever was left over, she would very quietly dispose of into a towel which she kept nearby. I would never know the difference, because by then, I was wiped off the face of the planet. Stamina was a big factor. We would lock into a 69 position for almost 90 minutes straight without a break. She would not give up until the magic happened. Depth was a major factor. She could take it all the way to the base and just stay there. I could hear her controlling her breathing and her gag reflex. She would stick her tongue out, go all the way down, lap the boys with her tongue and lower lip, hang there at the bottom for a long time and then come all the way back up. A lot of spit was a key factor. She always had a glass of water nearby, to keep her mouth lubricated. Very little use of hands was required. She was all about the mouth, the tongue and the deep throat action and controlled breathing to acheive long , lingering depth. When she felt me getting close, she would really step up the pace and if I helped her with my hands on her head, it only encouraged her to go faster and deeper. She never got mad if I helped her. She just got more excited. Best ever! No woman has come all very close to her. I don't base my happiness entirely on sexual skill, so I don't judge other women based on her skills. If I love a woman, that is a huge deal to me. But, somebody asked what makes oral good, so I offered a few tips that I saw from an absolute oral Queen in action.
 crazytimes1

Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 247
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Posted: 6/28/2008 3:30:36 AM
Never had any problems.

The main factor in time to ejaculation is time since last ejaculation.
 outwestinaz

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 248
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Posted: 6/28/2008 7:44:42 AM
Not a problem for me, I love it!
 PosterX

Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 249
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Posted: 6/28/2008 10:39:42 AM
It's been my experience that if the woman is not selfish then it is all good...otherwise it pretty much sucks.. no pun intended. lol

That goes with everything though.. if she is stuck up, like most women in the US, then everything is going to suck and most likely, she wouldn't even want to do that for you.. IMO..

Those types of women are so stuck on themselves and feel that it is always all about them.. of course it's always the guys fault, though.. go figure!
 Mr_Dudley

Joined: 6/11/2007
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Posted: 6/30/2008 8:26:05 PM
I love BJ's, but it doesn't make me cum. Not enough friction.
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