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 sonoranstud

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 12/20/2005 10:52:48 AM
so i guess if you were able to cum orally you would swallow
first.or just being kissed on the mouth would make you explode.
 Tatguy

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 12/20/2005 10:54:52 AM
I would cum evertime my now ex wife would threaten orally to leave me...does that count?
lol

As far as I am concerned, the only reason to not let the boys go is terrible technique.
Teeth and poor tech. can make you raw in a hurry.
One chick used to have a thumbnail diggin into me.
Looking back I think it was on purpose but the rest of it was horrible too. lol

Most of the time if you tell a woman what feels good and what does not, they will adjust accordingly and you can enjoy it more especially if she is enjoying it. It's not a god given talent, it's a learned thing and sometimes you want to shake the hand of the guy who had the patience to help her get to that stage.
Of course, if the woman really enjoys it too, you wont have to take off your socks, they'll get blown off anyway!

When sex is good, it's great! When it's bad, it's still pretty good! lol
 goodone4ya

Joined: 10/12/2004
Msg: 28
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Posted: 12/20/2005 1:35:28 PM
I guess it depends on who is doing it.I actually turned down head because their performance on the tool was way to weak.Like a poster said earlier on this thread-dont just go up and down on it.Use both hands,tickle the boys below with ur tounge-finger urself and look at me when u do it---make me feel like u want me to cum and cum again while ur down there-and we'll be in for a weekend.
 supraman187

Joined: 12/3/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 12/20/2005 2:01:18 PM
I have found that even amatures who are are giving one for the first time can become champs at BJ's as long as you give them direction as to what you like. And most guys are never afraid to tell women what they like. So, be more vocal with her, even if you feel uncomfortable just telling her strait out, you can still give her hints as to how you like it, whether it be a "that feel's great, keep doing that" to a "damn, lay off with the teeth"
 sockmonkey82

Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 12/20/2005 2:43:25 PM
I've been told that lots of girls use teeth, but I never have. I've mastered the sucking and working the hand technique though. Anyway, I usually don't have a problem getting the white stuff at the back of my throat, and don't ever get complaints. :) For those who are interested.
 SNF_melle1968

Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 12/20/2005 2:56:21 PM
Yeah definately u have to love suking **** and makeing a man moan.....i have never had someone not cum when i gave head ..so i didn't know that there were some who couldn't. Mind you most of them told me they couldn't at first, but when u set the stage .....it cums LOL :P i thought men just said that so u would try harder LOL ...man games
 rickyb18

Joined: 7/30/2004
Msg: 32
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Posted: 12/20/2005 3:04:45 PM
ive never been able to, but then again, maybe we havent found the right person who knows how to do it right
 single_dad_in_fla

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 12/20/2005 3:54:48 PM
I was completely opposite.....notice I said "was".......

I was never able to cum during intercourse........I could go hours......some times days......or months.....ok now you know I'm joking.......but seriously....I had an extremely hard time cumming during sex, but orally.......shit as soon as her hair hit my stomach I was done.....
 webwanderer

Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 34
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Posted: 12/20/2005 3:58:27 PM
I very rarely cum from oral. Then again its been so long since I got any i haven't had the chance to test to see if anything has changed lol
 jim9660

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 12/20/2005 4:13:58 PM
I can count on one hand how many times I have. It isn't that it doesn't feel great, just doesn't happen.
 jim9660

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 12/20/2005 4:22:02 PM

Never had a man who had a problem with me giving him an orgasm orally....I have had a few guys tell me that they hadn't been able to before they met me.

If I had a nickel everytime I heard that line...
All but one female failed. It doesn't bother me not to cum orally, it bothers them more that I didn't.
 Racer71

Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 12/20/2005 4:40:47 PM
It depends how good the woman is.. I've been with woman that weren't all that good giving oral... If you can't cum with oral, you should communicate with your partner how you like it. Communication about sex and how you like it is very important to get most out of the relationship sexually.. I always tell the woman that I'm with exactly what and now I like it and always ask her what and how she likes it...
 Paleone

Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 12/20/2005 5:03:12 PM
Cant say as Ive had a problem with my partner(s) getting off with oral. Always finish the job!
 Uniform77

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/20/2005 5:51:26 PM
it's not a "Problem" at all, it's if you're relaxed, confident and she's doing the right stuff for you! I've been 9yrs now since I last came through oral but it doesn't bother me at all as I just get to swap round and have a go on her! .. it seems to bother some women terribly if they think they're good at it then can't make you explode!
(god help the poor woman who finally does it for me! she'll drown!)
 sexyshooter

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 12/20/2005 6:59:16 PM
There have been a couple other posts about this....I don't know..maybe Ive just always been lucky...or maybe Ive just been with women that know what they are doin...but I have always been able to cum from a BJ...The ONLY times when I haven't..it's been because of too much alcohol...That made it tough...but it wasn't that it was BAD...I just had too much to drink.
 xX420Xx

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:00:50 PM
I can that in a weakness
 Captain Sargasmo

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:05:13 PM
once.

other than that, it takes me a while to cum anyway...orally or not.
 helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:23:28 PM
Captain Sargasmo must be hitting the sauce pretty hard. I was going to say alcohol may definately be a factor or the girl's technique/enjoyment. As long as you enjoy the maincourse/intercourse, dont worry about it. I have never met a man that couldn't come orally. Maybe you are feeling pressured to come and cant? Is the girl taking her time, teasing with her tounge, giving your balls attention?
 Captain Sargasmo

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:32:15 PM
the truth?

when i was a kid, i was beaten up a lot. i was smaller, and i was mouthy back then as well.

kids being kids, the groin is a popular area to target...and because of that, i've lost some sensation down there. everything still feels good...but most times i quite easily outlast my partner...and cumming is something that i need to concentrate on.

moreso if i've been "hitting the sauce"...

*edit*

there are a few upsides tho...

i've never been a 2-stroke choke.
blueballs don't happen. ever.
 webwanderer

Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 45
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Posted: 12/20/2005 7:45:15 PM
They also say being circumcised may decrease sensitivity. That might explain it for me, dunno, never had sex before I was cut lol. If that is the reason I'm not complaining because it has definately improved my ability to last. The downside of taht is that sometimes my partners don't beleive me when I say I'm enjoying it. If I keep coming back for more then its all good, just trust me. I can live without coming from a bj theres lots of other fun things for us to do.
 lonelyone19762

Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:16:24 PM
pale I wish there were more like you out there. Too many women I"ve been with jsut do it for so long (not nearly long enough) and then say me next and expect me to be there until they get off which I don't mind but I guess they don't ever think I'd like the same done to me. Hell the only reason I haven't gotten off orally with many women is because they dont stay down there long enough fo rme to.
 xdiago2005

Joined: 8/31/2005
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:39:51 PM
Here's my 1 1/2 cents:

i can, i have, i would rather not
i would much rather cum at the same time as the girl, and that prolly isn't going to happen if all she's doing is polishing your knob. now 69ing though, if she's good enough to time things right, then i'd be all for it.
i can only imagine thus far, but a woman cumming in your face has got to be good too. now i don't just mean a good 'O', im mean, i want the pillow under my head soaked.
i think the other day i heard someone refer to it as 'squirt'

bring it on, im game
 Startwearingpurple

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:43:21 PM
Ohhhhhh yes I can

And if she knows what she's doing it can be better than anything else
 Paleone

Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 12/20/2005 11:27:14 PM

pale I wish there were more like you out there.


Thanks Lonelyone... I was raised to always do my best! Mom said so
 Brako

Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 12/20/2005 11:42:17 PM
Two Thumbs Up!!!!!
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