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Posted: 12/21/2005 1:29:29 AM | | no prob pale just wish we was a little closer lol but it's really more of a psycoligical thing if you just sit back and enjoy and not think about what's going on or trying to cum it'll happen. Also is she stays down there long enough that helps too | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 12/21/2005 8:52:13 PM | it happened to me twice with my last girlfriend.it was because i was thinking way too much while having sex with her.i wanted her so bad that the first two times she tried i could not cum.third time was a charm i was more relaxed and
did not think too much and did not worry about if i could please her or not.i ended pleasing her just fine. alcohol can and will effect performance depending on how much yoy drink and sometimes what you drink. | |
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Posted: 12/22/2005 12:29:35 AM | i want the pillow under my head soaked.
Im guessing a bottle of water doesnt count! What if she's not up to the task, or not as good as you desire.. then what? And what if she wants her head on the pillow!??
OT* Finishing is generally not a problem, but sometimes not the best idea. If a man can only go one round, then you might want to move on to something else before he gets off.
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Posted: 12/22/2005 10:52:55 AM | | you got a good point pale and unlortunately I'm one of those that can only get off once per round so yeah the first round is usually oral or handies but can't say that I haven't tried to get off a second time or wouldn't try | |
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Posted: 12/22/2005 11:03:58 AM | | It deffinitly depends on the girl and how she does it. Throwing in some hand action and deep throating will do the trick for me! Anygirls in Virginia Beach who want to perfect their skills, just let me know. | |
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Posted: 12/22/2005 12:25:14 PM | I've only achieved orgasm once while receiveing a blow job, and that took a very long time.
Sometimes it's just the penis is too desensitized from sex, masturbation, etc ...
You may want to try a week or two of abstinence and see if you still have trouble.
Sometimes it is the girls technique.
Sometimes it is just the guy does not find oral that (mentally) stimulating. I like to kiss a girl when I am having sex with her. To me, kissing is almost more arousing than sex itself, so any position that doesn't allow for kissing requires more mental effort on my part. | |
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Posted: 12/22/2005 6:49:30 PM | Well not too many havnt , but one did i sucked it till it hurt lol still nothin
but then i rode him , then didnt take too long after that, maybe i just got him
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Posted: 12/22/2005 8:18:19 PM | my god have i ever been lucky with my ex's ..
they all swallowed , they all learned real fast ( when they didnt already know how )
and they were all horn dogs ..
a lil trick for you all , girls , grab him by the mouth and a hand ( of his ) , get him to suck your finger and you copy what he does , I know im sometimes a lil shy about saying what I want and this covers it .
the reverse doesnt work quite as well unless you set up a code for when you lick his hand here it means ...
suck that finger it means ....
etc , etc
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Posted: 12/22/2005 9:01:23 PM | it all depends on us, ladies. If you stroke his penis with your mouth or hands while you go down on him, then he will cum. If not, then he will just be really excited without a way to let loose.  | |
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Posted: 12/22/2005 10:23:32 PM |
Max darlin, it aint no problem. It's not your fault (nor hers, btw) that you can't get your rocks off orally. If it's giving you blue balls, then you obviously enjoy it to an extent, so have it part of foreplay and then move on to something that works for you. Although most guys can (in my experience, that is), it's no big deal if you can't, it just plain and simply does not work for you. Problem? I see no problem....
I agree 100%-- it's not YOUR fault and it's not HER fault-- i disagree with the post above me-- it's not that the girl doesn't know what she is doing. I have l33t oral skills.. lol.. Anyways my ex has never had an orgasm from oral sex and he is 32 years old.. and he's slept with just about as many women. (please- keep your comments to yourself)... anyways my point is-- he had the same "problem" but totally enjoyed and was turned on by oral-- so it was just foreplay and we'd incorporate it into sex.. ie. sucking his****after he had ****ed me in the ass.. | |
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Posted: 12/22/2005 11:15:04 PM | | If you come the closest by jerkin yourself off then have her bob down for the booby prize ,,means you been jerkin off to much,and not been gettin enough blow jobs. | |
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Posted: 12/23/2005 8:26:09 AM | Well .... maybe jerkin off too much is partly to blame... but lady ... didn't you read the other posts.... seems lots of guys all ages don't get off from head ... even by so called expert girls and other guys get off just by a girl breathing on their little sex toy soldier. I'v found over the years and many affairs and relationships that desire mixed with technique is a key to success but most of the time I'm in the group that most often doesn't blow until my ship is in port.
BJ's in the dark could be anyone and in the light too often feel great until a disrespectful or degrading thought cancels the delivery. It doesn't take much to deflate some situations and the woman cannot control your thoughts. I'd say its no big deal and like so many other posts its not the main course or final opjective, its just foreplay so enjoy it for as long as it goes. Don't be trying to shoot the back of her head off. And to her, don't do anything you don't enjoy. Its all supposed to be enjoyed and savoured and oh yes... love helps alot.
Oh did I give you my personal experiences ... its about 70 - 30 in the didn't cum for whatever reasons that didn't matter 99.5% of the times because the intimacy and intercourse were great experiences 75% of the time. Not all sex is good, but its worth giving it a try. | |
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Posted: 12/23/2005 8:43:32 AM | | I do struggle. But if I don't then I feel as if I have let her down. For me it has varied from intense pleasure, to almost being in pain...... Not sure what is going on, as isn't this supposed to be one of the holy grails for blokes? To find a woman that will let you in her mouth. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 6:14:28 PM | | Hey it definitely depends on the gurl...if she's good i'll probably get off...if she's ok it's a 50/50 chance and if she sucks at sucking then i'd rather just *uck :P and the best is when she doesn't stop when ur going....spit or swallow i don't give a s*it just don't stop when i'm going :P | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 6:23:12 PM | The last guy I was dating told me he couldn't cum from oral....
I proved him wrong... it took a little extra work, and some "special" techniques, but I did it.... and boy was it worth it  | |
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