| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 9/7/2007 4:17:19 PM | | I don't think I've ever come from a BJ. It seems like there isn't enough friction, or maybe my partners weren't the best. But I never have trouble coming during intercourse or masturbation, unless I am stressed, drunk, or just miss my window. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 9/7/2007 4:20:56 PM |
Is it with every woman?? Or just a few?? Maybe if it is just a few those girls need to work on their skills. I have yet to come across a man that I couldn't get off orally.
Girlfriend.... I'm totally with you on this! I was trying to read between the lines here and ask what's the catch.... or the joke.... because none of the guys I've been with have EVER had a problem in this particular arena. Maybe it isn't entirely the female's fault... maybe the guys have to be in a certain mental (hypnotic?) state or frame of mind, or else actually love, or at least trust the woman so much that they can relax and release without anxiety? I'm determined enough that if something I try isn't working for him, I switch tactics until I stumble across one that does work... the more frustrated I get, the more I give it, and then he gives it, and then, wow... Touchdown! | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 9/7/2007 5:01:19 PM | | Well, the first time i got a bj is the only time that i have cum by one. that was when i was 15 or 16. Just have never been able to cum by a bj. I've had some wonderful ones... but have not cum since. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 9/18/2007 5:20:06 PM | | Do you mean men who can cum from having a BJ, or men who cum from kissing, or what? What does "cum orally" mean to you? I have no problem cumming from a BJ. If you do the prob may be psychological, or physical. See an MD, and then a shrink. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 11/21/2007 8:07:52 PM | | From a woman's perspective.......I have my moments when I can't get my boyfriend to have an orgasm while I am giving him head, but it's okay. Every guy is different. I think that you have to find what a girl does to you that you really enjoy and stick to it. If she does something while giving you head that really turns you on, then tell her. Don't be afraid. If you guys don't tell us what you like then how are we suppose to know. That's when it becomes your problem and not ours. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 11/21/2007 8:21:38 PM | | LOL, cumming from a BJ is an enigma to me because I have never been able to without making a bunch of faces and concentrating! Don't feel bad... I don't, it's just the way we were made. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 11/21/2007 9:24:54 PM | | i have oly enccountered one guy that I couldnt send to launh orally and he had an issue to begin with....he soetime couldnt let the missile count down even with intercourse over a period of 45 minutes ...he was orally gifted but fo rme...im an intercourse kidn of girll ineed it sometimes to just do the deed...i am one of hte few girl that can cme from intercourse alone...and well alot ofmen my age who have the 40 something change have become adept at oral to avoid the failure to launch being revealed....i appreaciate the attempt butsometimes i woud rather just get over the hump and get things done with and snuggle f he isnt goign to join me with dessert if you get my meaning | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 11/22/2007 1:15:03 AM | All men can if they are worked on by a sufficiently talented co*ksucker. Most women aren't very good at it, but the possiblitiy also exists that you're gay and only a man can get you there. You'll have to explore it fo yourself. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 11/22/2007 6:20:01 AM | Some ladies have been quite good at it and some have not; therefore sometimes I do and sometimes I don't.
And then there was this one lady who really put here heart and soul into it and..........yeeeeehaaaaaaw! Best orgasm of my entire life.      | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 12/3/2007 6:02:36 PM | | I know it's two years from this post, but I have the same problem, I have never cum from a BJ & I've been with some chrome cleaners. My problem could be length of time, needing more time to settle in but otherwise I don't know. Maybe if I was with Jersey101 it would be a different story, but we all know it's not just about the looks with that technique. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2008 10:54:35 AM | OK Count me in....and I can cum from a BJ.... I have never had any problem. Sometimes it is the most intensive way for me.....you know, knees shacking, the whole body just explodes!
As for the men who cant....God you dont know what your missing!
P.S. If you cant just sit back or lay back and just enjoy it and dont think about cumming and it will happen! | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2008 11:06:30 AM | | Odd question. I've had only 2 girlfriends who could bring that about - and for the life of me why I thought that breaking up with either of them seemed a good idea at the time? The glorious results of a misspent youth.... | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2008 12:01:28 PM | | Totally and completely depends on who the other person is! Post divorce I've dated someone who'd never done such a thing before and at the other end of the spectrum was this woman with no time to horse around - she could go from start to finish in about two minutes flat and I've never been one to rush - she was just unstoppable once she got the notion ... | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2008 1:51:52 PM | | i have a hard time cumming from blowjobs especially if its taking a long time. a woman's best chance is within the first 10 to 15 minutes. i notice a differnce between black chix, white chix, latinas and asians. the black chix and latinas are the best based on my experience, the black chix suck it hard, the latinas use alot of motion with the head twisting (spinning motion) sucking it hard and pulling...i love their blowjobs the best actually, the white chix do to much loose sucking and licking, the licking using alot of tongue action is fine as long as they suck it hard, they can deep throat pretty good too. the white chix are actually the best deep throating, the asians i'm not sure about, i haven't had many asians..lol | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2008 5:43:08 PM | | My first long term girlfriend would give oral as foreplay for an hour as long as I never came.After her it took a long time before I could ever let go even if the women I was with wanted to swallow,I guess the training I got as a teen was difficult to get over. | |
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DonQ
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Joined: 1/10/2008
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2008 5:52:42 PM | I've NEVER heard of a guy who can't climax when oral is done to him. But then again.. I haven't talk to every guy in the world about it either. Its just not a subject that comes up (no pun intended) during casual conversation.
Me: Excuse me, is the train running on time?
Conductor: Actually sir we're running a few minutes ahead of schedule.
Me: Good to hear. Speaking of head, do you climax during oral sex or does it just frustrate you?
See? Not your standard everyday topic of discussion. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/24/2008 8:41:48 PM |
I envy you, that means you can last longer, most of us are so sensitive anything warm and wet can set us off....it can be disappointing.....
yea I gotta say i'd feel sorry for any man that sensitive, but i've got the oposite problem belive it or not, i'm so insensitive that well sex I don't know i'm still a virgin (has no problem sayin it) BUT I need a lot of visual stimulation while tossing the pool stick it takes forever if at all some nights actually. I've had oral only once and though it was ok...it did take a very long time for me to cum I think she actually wanted to stop heh. Anyway it makes me worry that one day when I do eventually come to the point where I will have sex that I won't cum at all as i'm so insensitive, after all sure a man who cums to soon is no good but a man who either takes to long or dosen't cum at all is almost if not just as bad right? | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/26/2008 9:56:35 AM | I never realized that this could be a problem. I guess I've been lucky in my choice of partners as they've always came with oral sex. ....
Blargal....I think when the time is right and you do finally have intercourse, you'll be fine. It could just be that you're bored with masturbation and it feels as though its insensitive. Once its where God intended it to be put, I'm sure you'll do fine !
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