| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/19/2007 9:06:45 PM | girl u r not the only one i think most singles get asked the same. i will be 36 next week n i been single 4 8 months now, only because i wont settle 4 less then i deserve.when we get older we see things diffrent. when i come across mr right i'll know it but mr right now will do until i get there. aint nothing wrong with being single ya just know what u want ya just aintcome across it yet u digg.  | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/19/2007 9:14:44 PM | | no im sorry that is not so i had atleast 2 relationships with men that didnt have much & loved them just as much as the ones that had alot more. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:21:06 AM | I am still single because I seem to meet a lot of women that are on and off again with their psycho ex boyfriends...
Still, I am not sweating it... I think its just a matter of time until I bump into one of the other fishies here and it all works out. :) | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:37:23 AM | Why is being single a bad thing? :) Let's enjoy our freedom and enjoy the experience of meeting new people. Single doesn't = bad thing, it just means we are free to find the "mate" that best suits us.
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:26:57 PM | Because people that value honesty & kindness get scared off when they find someone that is honest and kind!
I'm learning the hard way to avoid profiles that specify stuff like that. | |
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tdh46
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Joined: 1/7/2007
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:39:30 PM | waiting on the pretty lady above me to e-mail me
Actually i think it's because i am in a very good place in my life right now. Not really looking that hard. | |
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tdh46
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Joined: 1/7/2007
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/21/2007 8:52:53 PM | | When you finally do talk to her, let her know I'm still waiting for her to let me know she got my change of address. :) | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/22/2007 1:19:17 AM | | I haven't quite worked out why I'm still single. Maybe I haven't been trying hard enough. | |
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Joined: 12/7/2006
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/22/2007 8:36:05 PM | Holy cheese and rice!
I only just became single.
Give me at least a year to think about and answer to that and if Im still single in three years I damn well should have a good answer.  | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/22/2007 11:16:10 PM | Yeah, I get the same question alot. Im my case, I watched my brother go thru 5 wives, and now he's with his 6th ! I've also seen people who were married for 30 years get divorced. If 2 people want to be together, they will be, and thats how it is. You don't need the state or the church enter into your relationship to make it work. Apparently it does not make it work, and marriage is grounds for divorce from where im sitting.
You can spend the rest of your life with someone without actually being married to them, nothing supercedes real love. Now, If I was with a lady for say 5 years, and she desired me to marry her, I would do it just to make her happy, but I don't see the importantance of the paperwork really. Love is mandatory, paperwork is optional. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/23/2007 4:05:29 AM | | Its weird poeple still regard something wrong with you if your over 30 and still single. As I am pushing nearer 40 and tell people I am still single they look at me strangely. Even more so when I said I have never been married or had kids. Its not out of choice being single its just never meet anyone who can tick all the boxes. I still like my singledom but I guess I should call it my independence. Then maybe thats my mistake I want my cake and eat it. I guess i just have to find the man who will change my mind. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/23/2007 5:04:40 AM | Every time I just about dip my foot into the pond of a relationship with someone, OUCH.. .I read some of these threads and see what the men have to say and I put on my shoes, gather up my toys and little red ball and RUN HOME.. ALONE!!! | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/24/2007 12:26:04 AM | Oh God help me, anything I say here is going to show up in my profile !
Yea, right, the old, "why are still single" and (let's get some dirt on you while we're at it) trick , eh ? I'm not falling for that.
Oh, yes I'm still single cause I'm very 'clingy', oh did I say, "needy" wait, I meant, very loyal and commited.
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/24/2007 6:30:42 AM | | In my case I am still single until the man that really can handle my children comes along. I'm finding a lot of guys say they love children and can accept the whole package but when it comes down to it, they treat the kids like crap. I won't settle for that. I wouldn't treat their kids any different than my own. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/26/2007 2:03:52 PM | probaly because no one wants too take the time too get too know me for me
so far all i have met on here is people who want too play with your head. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/27/2007 8:32:48 AM |
guys keep asking me why i'm still single
They may ask this as a compliment, stating that men must be crazy not to want to date you or be your boyfriend. Men who say this to me I ask, "Well are you interested in me" and they react in horror quickly stating that if they weren't married, blahblahblah. You know, they may be asking to see if you are gay (which would pique their interest) , if there's something wrong with you or just saying the equivalent of 'nice shirt, where'd you buy it'. It is just conversation, nosiness, a compliment or something to talk about . Don't take it seriously. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 6/29/2007 9:01:45 AM | I'm still single because modern day dating has gotten downright scary.
People that worry about what others might think, or people that can't think for themself, and ask others to do their thinking for them.
A lot of people making moutains out of mole hills. Dating shouldn't be in competition with NASA to have the most rocket scientists!
Here in the forums alone, I've seen hundreds of "should I (do whatever)" , "should I give him/her a chance?" , "Should single parents give men/women that haven't been married a chance?"
Borrowing from the Nike slogan "JUST DO IT" There's a 50% chance it works and a 50% chance it doesn't.
I see so many people focused on the negatives of dating & romance in the forums too. How to tell he/she's a player, cheating games, how to lose a man/woman in whatever amount of time.
With all these people on here doing stuff like that, it's the same people that are out and about in the real world, that I as a single guy has to weed through to find one that isn't so focused on so much negative stuff, and can hold a thought of their own.
I'd rather set here single and wish I had someone to share life together with, than be WITH someone that is so worried about how others would think of her for being with me and WISH that I was single again.
Who cares what others think about who you are with. The only person that I'm concerned about caring is the person that I'm with!
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