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 Hold_da_Fries

Joined: 11/20/2005
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:07:43 AM

So, why are you still single?


Haven't found what I'm looking for. Next question...

That's always a good comeback.
 single guy 70

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 77
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:19:04 AM
I ask myself that question all the time lately, I've come to the conclussion that perhaps I am too interested in ladies who should be considered "out of my league". Women who have seemed to take an interest in me in the past, have been ones that I really have no interest in. While at the same time, I've found myself attracted to women who I know aren't gonna be attracted to me.
I hope people don't read this and think that I'm shallow and hung up on appearance. When I say women I have no interest in, it's often because I don't feel that I have enough in common with them. But it does seem that the type that would interest me are the kind who, if you see 1 of them single, you just can't believe that she is single, for many reasons, attractive, intelligent, pleasant personallity etc. Common sense should tell me that there is enough competition for these women from other men that I'm not gonna have a chance.
I guess at least I've never wasted much of my life with somebody I know I don't have enough in common with, to make a lasting relationship. But I'm beginning to wonder if maybe somebody needs to kick my ass toward somebody who's willing to take an interest in me, and make me learn to like her and forget about the women who think of me as "somebody I like as a good friend, but that's all"
 Darklights

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 78
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 11:08:51 AM
Probably because I'm unique, don't give a crap what people think of me, and do my own thing (but not to the detriment of others).

Ha, I've been called eccentric, wierd, intimidating, antisocial, and much more. When the right person comes along, if ever, we'll know. Until then......
 mustangsally1273

Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 79
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Posted: 12/26/2005 11:18:52 AM
Still single because there is so much less pressure and it's an amazing way of life anymore! Too much dishonesty and evil out there! No one to have to answer to...Enough love in my life through my friends and family!!! And that is UNCONDITIONAL!!! Nothing can compare!
 mbadpuppy

Joined: 11/21/2005
Msg: 80
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 11:41:54 AM
I read your profile, mustang, and you are an absolute twisted freak. Excellent. With the sincerest of compliments.
 MMMBaby!

Joined: 10/25/2005
Msg: 81
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 12:18:49 PM
Who the hell knows? Just timing, fate, or maybe I have been saved from some freak and don't know it! Time passes, love comes around, things are fine! I'm not really worried about it, but I sure am horny!!!
 -Aussie Buff-

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 82
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 3:33:34 PM
Some of us are not single by choice

It seems that ( in my case) those women I have an interest in have no interest in me, and as such enforced singledom.

And some people like being single - personally I hate being single, for the last 2 years I have been on my own - I have been in 3 long term relationships since i was 16 - so being single is really not to my liking or style.
 promuso

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 83
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 3:51:58 PM
Well Buff, your single cause you live in the act, i used to live there too and moved out because it was loaded with self centred 'Worship me' women. Act women are notoriously painful too meet as 99% of the time they are taken and go out in packs and act single.

I know this, my ex wife lives in canberra and i am canberra born and bread.

If i was you, id move. I did. Ive been single for a year in brisbane, its hard i know but i aint much chop to look at. Youd score in no time...
 leafslady

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 84
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Posted: 12/26/2005 4:16:25 PM
Looking at these two^^^^^^
I'd say I really need to move to Australia!!!
 promuso

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 85
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Posted: 12/26/2005 4:20:53 PM
Looking at these two^^^^^^
I'd say I really need to move to Australia!!!


Haha lol
 -Aussie Buff-

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 86
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:41:36 PM

Well Buff, your single cause you live in the act, i used to live there too and moved out because it was loaded with self centred 'Worship me' women. Act women are notoriously painful too meet as 99% of the time they are taken and go out in packs and act single.

I know this, my ex wife lives in canberra and i am canberra born and bread.

If i was you, id move. I did. Ive been single for a year in brisbane, its hard i know but i aint much chop to look at. Youd score in no time...


I couldnt agree with you more on your comments Wizbey about Canberra women- nice to meet another Canberra man on here as well that understands where I am comming from - alas my career is attached to The Dept of Defence here.

i am currently in Melbourne for the holidays and well the difference in people is amazing - Brisbane is a top place as well - but dont mention your from Canberra - they dont like it - I speak from experience there. And dude theres many women that would go for your look - dont defeat yourself - there is absolutely nothing wrong with you and you having something I wish I had - musical talent, keep on rocking
 CurvyGurlATL

Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 87
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:50:10 PM
I've yet to find the person that matches me.
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 88
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:55:37 PM
Because I live with the "newly wed and nearly dead" on a damn ROCK
 indy38

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 89
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Posted: 12/26/2005 8:20:24 PM
I dunno, because a couple of years from now I don't want to have to label myself as "divorced" because i married the wrong person...marriage all to often seems to be the beginning of the end for many couples.
 small*mtn*lake

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 90
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Posted: 12/26/2005 8:23:39 PM
Hey fox,
Know what you mean...... lived on the island for 3 years. You'd like it here...... plenty of fit young bucks working out in the patch and no women
 steamcatcher

Joined: 4/20/2005
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 8:37:43 PM
It seems that all of life's decisions have lead me to this point in solitude. The only time it bothers me though is during this festive season. Career decisions, relationship choices, what I wore the day "the one" stepped into, and out of my life... A million little things, timing is everything and once a decision is made your life changes forever, good or bad.

I'm single becasue I've made choices that keep me that way, that's it, the short version.
 -Aussie Buff-

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 92
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 8:46:34 PM
Well said steam catcher - you are not blameing anyone else or blameing your self - you are being objective and saying its a result of choices made - Kudos to you
 steamcatcher

Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 93
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Posted: 12/26/2005 9:01:47 PM
Thanks buff! I've gone through the "You did this to me" part of my life. I guess I got tired of listening to myself, and others, whine about life's misfortunes and realized I have a choice. We all do. "Why am I still single?" whines a woman who wont date a bald guy... "Are there any nice ladies left?" whines the man the fat guy who wont look at a lady over 40... lol. Be picky, but we should stop complaining about the choices we are making for ourselves!

And if "kudos" are what I need to be built like you, send me a bushel!
 ThatFunnyGirl

Joined: 6/23/2005
Msg: 94
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 9:06:42 PM
Because I'm not going to settle for mediocre next time.

 Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005
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Posted: 12/26/2005 9:52:15 PM
I'm a pain in the rear, head strong and simply put: I'm too *used* to being single. At this point I haven't the slightest memory of what it was like to be in a relationship and how to go about it. These days I screw up things right out of the gate, and like so many profiles on here say, women just don't have the patience or inclination to work it out and give me a chance to adjust and improve. Everyone wants the perfect fit immediately, with no effort involved.

 smilindad

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 96
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:06:31 PM
after being cheated on by my ex it's hard to find that special person that you want to let in don't want that heartache again maybe one of these days i'll find the one .
 Ldygmr

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 97
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:07:48 PM
I'm still single because ....

I want to be! Duh.
 Doc Sage

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 98
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:10:41 PM
I see nothing wrong with being single when I have all these wonderful friends.

Doc
 cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005
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Posted: 12/26/2005 10:18:29 PM
speaking of BAD DOGGIES... thats the reason I'm still single. Too many men want the FAST lane and I believe it takes more time to make it work. Sure we can all hump and have sex, but if you are like me... REALLY looking for a great guy with longterm potential I won't accept the BAD DOGGIES coming arround my bush!
 Readysetgo

Joined: 7/8/2005
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Posted: 12/27/2005 12:31:41 PM
I am looking for someone who is at same place as me. Not behind me or in front of me. Someone who has some ambition and is motivated to contribute the same into a relationship. I do not want to bring someone up to my level or bring someone down to my level. Have I made sense? I don't feel I'm better, but I worked hard to get back on my feet. I am selective is all. I to don't want to get involved for the sake of it and then not be satisfied later on. I'll wait for the one who is right for me. I'm pretty sure I'll know. Good luck everyone.
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