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 Drusurfer06

Joined: 8/11/2009
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SO why are you still single after 30?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:57:20 AM
Women have it easier because us Men always have to initiate, I know it's tradition, always been that way, but that makes Women having it easier.
 trekker013

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 8/27/2009 12:14:40 PM

The question "Why are you still single?" is silly and insulting. Nobody asks a married person "Why are you still married?" The question seems to assume that there is something wrong with being single. There is not.


Thank you sir. Those were the words I was looking for in an earlier post on this thread but didn't know how to express it.

The sad thing about it, though, is when the question is asked how many single people suddenly feel compelled to have to justify themselves. Like you said, if you were to ask someone, "Why did you get married?" "Why are you divorced?" "If you're divorced why did you get married in the first place?" as if implying there is something wrong with it the person in question would very likely get annoyed, if not downright offended.

If there's people out there who can't comprehend the fact that being single is a good thing then there's really not much you can tell them.

Their problem. Not mine.......
 needsluv77

Joined: 5/22/2009
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SO why are you still single after 30?
Posted: 8/28/2009 3:25:39 PM
I picked the wrong guys...oops! But, now I have a chance to get it right. Hopefully one day!
 fra59e

Joined: 6/4/2005
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Posted: 8/31/2009 8:58:39 PM


... us Men always have to initiate, ...


Funny but I didn't notice that on the ballot last election day. When was that law passed? Did you vote for it?

Who makes rules for you? Why? Is that the way you want your life to be?
 Calientecutie

Joined: 4/5/2009
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SO why are you still single after 30?
Posted: 9/1/2009 12:36:18 AM
ask them why they are single
you want a descent human
do not want to support a man
want a intellectual, somebody has values
if you have been released from prison...please do not apply
if youhave 10 children and five women...next
if you are into drugs...here is the door

you get the message
it is beter to be happy then with somebody and miserable
do not want a needy human
want a winner...please line up here
 Calientecutie

Joined: 4/5/2009
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Posted: 9/1/2009 12:37:54 AM
sluv77...be cautious and find a descent man...look at your qualities...and expect the same from them...i find us females are too soft
it aint's working...the mother theresa camp is closed
they need to work and make their own money

this is not a hotel...good luck dear
 tank72

Joined: 7/17/2006
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 9/3/2009 2:21:06 PM
don t really know. its tough after 30 though
 unique1011

Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 1807
SO why are you still single after 30?
Posted: 9/4/2009 1:20:48 PM
simple! I've never met anyone who I could feel happier and free with
 butterfly1285

Joined: 9/16/2008
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so, why are you still single?
Posted: 9/7/2009 6:46:41 PM
LMAO!!! That is the absolute BEST answer I have ever heard!! Luv it:)
Thanks for the laugh, and good response next time I'm asked!!!
Heidi
 butterfly1285

Joined: 9/16/2008
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Posted: 9/7/2009 6:47:53 PM
Thanks trekker...that is a great point!! I like that response very much!!
Heidi
 LittleWomanlyOne

Joined: 5/30/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 11:59:53 AM
Well I know one of the reasons I am still single is that I didn't date for 3 years so I was out of the game for a time. I've been actively looking for a year now and haven't been dating much. Sometimes I get discouraged and feel as though sometimes men are looking for some very young, skinny, blonde girl. I know I'm cute and curvy, but now I'm wondering what's going on myself.

I'm still out there trying though!
 Bad*MonkeyFunker

Joined: 7/9/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 12:18:12 PM
be cuz... I am fabilicious... noone can reach my fabiliciousness level.... that's why...there I said it!


 Gold_one_in_CT

Joined: 8/31/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 6:13:14 PM
Listen, I think everyone gets it. Yeah you are right. If you are fat and ugly, you better hope that you are born a woman or you will never go on a date as long as you live in the US! Dating is an absolute joke for women. It is a lot easier to reject someone than to approach someone. I don't understand why based on the quantity of men that women have access to why they complain about not finding the perfect man. How could you struggle in a game that you dominate? The answer is that they (the women) are more selective than men.

So a woman should not be single because remember the dating game is a complete joke for them.
I agree with you, it is a lot easier for them to not be single. However, my reason for being single and not married (which is not a bad thing now) is a lot more complicated than it being due primarily to women's total control of the dating scene.
 Gold_one_in_CT

Joined: 8/31/2009
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SO why are you still single after 30?
Posted: 9/10/2009 6:16:35 PM
Drusurfer06 my last message was directed at you
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