| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/16/2006 2:10:05 PM | | I get asked this question to. I'm 38 years old and I have never been married. I already had a child so I don't feel the pressure of wanting to have kids before it's too late. A lot of my married friends are always telling me how unhappy they are in their marriage. I'm enjoying life single or not. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/16/2006 11:55:54 PM | | Well, I wasn't single for about 3 months... now I'm single and I remember WHY I need to stay this way!!! I'm so sick of games from people and lies... It's so much easier to just live my life, do the things I enjoy.. and... leave relationships to people who obviously do better at them than I do! | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/18/2006 7:01:33 AM | | I left my husband 30 years ago. I know that I have put up a wall that nobody can get through. I do get asked all the time why I am still single. I suppose if that special person could break through that wall I might consider giving up my freedom. For now though I just keep myself very busy. I'm hardly ever home, and I do enjoy my lifestyle very much. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/20/2006 7:49:27 PM | | For me, it's by choice. You could say, that I would rather be single and happy then in a relationship that's not working and miserable:) I just haven't found "the one" yet. I'm sure I will stumble across them when I least expect it! | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/20/2006 9:17:52 PM | | I was always single by choice...but after awhile I thought it would be nice to start dating again and have somone in my life...I joined this site and after the few dates that I have gone on I am sooooooooooooooooo glad Im single and probably going to stay that way | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/21/2006 3:22:01 AM | Have all us HAPPY SINGLE people heard out HAPPY MARRIED friends tell us "oh I love my husband/wife BUT if something happens to them I'm NEVER GETTING MARRIED AGAIN"??? too funny...I'm so much happier being single... I just like it this way. It would be nice to have someone but the gain is not worth the pain it eventually causes.. so it's just me and my animals!!! | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/21/2006 4:25:43 AM | I'm still single because no one seems interested in me.
This isn't a pity posting only a fact, perhaps someone will change it. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/22/2006 12:36:14 AM | I am still looking for that person to be perfect with. That person who will compliment my personality, and I in turn will compliment hers. Together the "WE" will be complete. Until then, I wait, content still, yes, but when your with someone , its just that much more perfect...gives that second pillow in the bed reason to be there. 
Or maybe its just cuz I just cannot find anyone who will save me some chocolate | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/22/2006 7:48:09 AM | | Theres nothing wrong with you, trust me. And dont look back - over 30 is not the end of the world - lm having a great time since l 'was dragged, kicking and screaming' over the 30 barrier. Enjoy yourself and your mature company - ld sooner chat to someone my age than go for some 20 year old girl who doesnt yet know her ass from her elbow in the relationship game. Go girl. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/22/2006 4:18:09 PM | | I hear that, but I've been married more than once, it's because I'm very picky, am not gonna settle for anything less than who fits the mark.. I have a certain criteria that if they don't meet it, too bad! so sad! why not? if you settle for less, then you end up getting divorced later on down the road or worse, maiming them! lol.. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/22/2006 6:01:20 PM | I get that question all the time too. It is there opening line basiclly. It kind of puts me on the defense. My reply is...my choice for the moment. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/26/2006 4:45:51 PM | | I get asked that same question, all the time... Its a life style choice for me... Because experiences with relationships, shaped me... I was involved with someone for a very long time... (12) yrs, committed, and now the thought of settling down- well , its appealing, but not completely yet..lol Am i the only one who feels this way? Or am i just a lil "fickle?"... ah well gotta be me, and they say- you know yourself best.... good luck to all! | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/26/2006 4:54:57 PM | I get that asked by friends and co-workers.
response: 'shrug'
In all honesty, it is a choice. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/26/2006 5:42:44 PM | Cause I'm sexy like that.
Every lady needs a lil' Molonel in their respective life 'cause he's sexy and charming like that.  Being the generous soul that he is, he aims to give all the ladies a chance.  | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/27/2006 2:05:31 AM | Because
- I like to undress straight into the washing machine
- I like to leave my power tools on the kitchen table and the kettle on the garage bench.
- I like to watch late nite documentarys in bed. Far better quality than the prime time stuff.
- I like to leave my girlie mags anywhere.
- I like motorcycles
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- I hate going to pick up bars and being confronted by a bouncer stoned on steroids
- I hate playing second or third fiddle so some cranky mum or some overdressed hyena of a gf. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:14:56 AM | Because the last man in my life had the same interests as Sparticus. The damn guy just had to get naked every time he saw a washing machine.  LOL @ Sparticus 
~OT~ Apparently it's because no self-respecting single man wants to date someone who only leaves their house once every couple of months. I don't get it, I have always imagined the ideal marriage/relationship being one in which I never actually had to spend time with my spouse ~ maybe the problem really is me.   | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:18:49 AM | | Because for the longest time, it was easier than taking a chance again. My fiance passed away a year ago, and it took some time to gather myself up again. Do I want to stay single? Not entirely no. I like having someone in my life. I'll even share my chocolate stash if required. Maybe. | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/27/2006 8:30:35 PM | My mom's constantly on my back about wanting grandkids , & when am I getting married , get a boyfriend , date etc etc etc. It gets superannoying at times.
And than there's just about anyone else that will assume that I would want to get married / have kids , & think there's something wrong with me when I say im not sure if I do.
Personally I love being single , so im happy  | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/29/2006 10:36:47 PM | | I am still single because I am not into alot of the game playing and the so called pursuit many men allow themselves to be drawn into . In other words ,for example, if I call a lady and she wont call me back than I do not keep calling or if I go to a club and ask a lady to dance I wont keep asking. Many men are persistent and women deep down like that . I am just me and can not compromise who I am to fulfill someones ego . | |
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| so, why are you still single?
Posted: 10/30/2006 1:34:12 AM | Just wanted to let you know that my best friend and I are asked that all the time...What a dumb question....sometime I want to say "Because I chose not to marry the loosers that wanted to marry me in the past ". lol...maybe I will someday lol
Now I say because I choose to be.
There is nothing wrong with waiting until you meet the right person, I would think that it's actually smarter than marrying anyone that comes along.
Here's one for you ...the questions from married people get better and better....When are you going to have kids your getting up there and time is running out....this from a girl that has three and her and her husband can hardly make ends meet and he became so stressed he cheated on her......
No thanks I'd rather wait
Sometimes I wonder if the people that ask are secretly jealous of the independance and time to do whatever I please?hhmmm | |
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