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 ForaktarU

Joined: 11/25/2008
Msg: 51
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Posted: 12/8/2008 2:11:16 PM
This boy use to deliver papers to our house....he would try to collect his

money and i always ignored the door knocking.....i was not going to pay

for my parents news reading.

When i was 33 i met him.....he was 20 by then.

Believe me i payed him real good....for 3 years.

PS, just doin my duty...keeping the economy running smooth...DO-ING my
part......news is....i like em young
 Mountain Lion 1

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 12/8/2008 2:44:56 PM
^^^ ummm that may have been good fer you...
but tell me honestly now
what is it with the young boys wanting to have older women???
All they have to do is wait and they'll see

<---- for cover
 Ticketoride

Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 53
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Posted: 12/8/2008 2:59:24 PM
Whatever makes anybody's Boat float short of crossing the Line.

Anyone much under 32 to me still appears to have "Baby-Features" I never noticed a Decade back, not appealing at all. Once they hit 38 - 43 they start to calm down a bit, and much of the Hyperness of the 20's & 30's falls to the Wayside too ... well not all ...
 ForaktarU

Joined: 11/25/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 12/8/2008 3:26:40 PM
CALMING DOWN AT 43........EKKKKKKKKKKK

I am almost 47 and im fully charged.....a hyper v-8

i wouldnt want to blow an older dudes gasket.

But i am willing to try

PS, um...ah...BYOP................as in paddles
 Wild Sweet and Cool

Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 55
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Posted: 12/8/2008 8:25:39 PM
why that's simply shocking! check ids first paramount lol
 cariƱos!

Joined: 12/4/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 12/8/2008 11:19:50 PM
/mmm-mmore like a 12v Jaguar myself, smoother than ever and supercharged, yes.
Having difficulty finding my match.///
 benilla

Joined: 11/12/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 12/8/2008 11:26:44 PM
If the both of you feel like you've reached similar stages in life, I don't see why not! And if it's just for fun, then I don't see why an older woman wouldn't want a 20-something guy.
 VancityMTBr

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 58
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Posted: 12/21/2008 4:43:01 PM
I think younger guys dating older women is fine, it's worked fine for me at least. I dated a woman 16 years older than me, her and I had some great times. After all it's about who the person is, not how old they are.
 SUNLITE

Joined: 1/5/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 12/22/2008 10:24:06 AM
21...the brain is barely finished forming I would have to say you would not have much in common when it comes to life experience....not always but probably.
Just at different places in life.
It became a problem for me.
 XHTML

Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 60
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Posted: 12/22/2008 11:59:39 AM

21...the brain is barely finished forming I

This gender and age thing goes both ways too. Moreover I think in some the brain doesn't complete the maturation process, sometimes its not immediately apparent.

There was the 48-year old woman, who was a guest in my home.
After showering she left the wet towel on the carpet in the bedroom.
After a shower on the next visit she left the towel on the table in the bedroom. Curious, I asked why she did that.

"I didn't know what to do with it." she explains.

There are three towels racks in the bathroom, but apparently their purpose is lost on some people.

We have lunch. I'm usually a fast eater but intentionally and eat slower to be polite to my guest. She eats less, finishes first, get up, puts her dishes on the counter by the sink and goes into the living room around the corner and flops down on the couch.

I'm still eating and found that quite rude, and innocently ask "Hey, where'd you go?"

"I'm finished and I always go to the couch when I'm done." and stayed there.

That was the last visit! You might have felt the ripples in the pond from the big splash when I tossed her back in.
 pkd7114

Joined: 3/17/2008
Msg: 61
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Posted: 12/22/2008 11:49:47 PM
I dont' think it's bad, do w/e works for you, if other ppl have a problem then w/e it's not like they're the ones you're dating
 islandcruizer

Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 12/23/2008 12:22:35 AM
Do what ever you are comfortable with, but call it what it is. It is a good time for both but the chances of long term are slim. You are both in different stages of life though that doesn't mean you can't find things in common. If this is a move in thing already......look out, he is barely out of Mommy's house. Do you hang with your friends or his????
Like I say, call it what it is and just enjoy it if it works for NOW.
 WesternWildRose

Joined: 9/15/2008
Msg: 63
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Posted: 12/23/2008 12:26:20 AM
Been there...done that... no hangups...no concerns...it is all about personalities...and chemestry really.

Remember back when 50 was considered 'OLD'....times have changed... we choose to look at a person's character, their moral fibre...what we like about them rather than their ID.

got to admit...been with men more than 11 years younger than me.
 gfrgiuj

Joined: 1/7/2007
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Posted: 12/23/2008 8:16:49 AM
Age is a number... its maturity that counts. I've dated ppl both younger and older than me. To be quite honest, I found the younger ppl to be far more mature and grounded than the elders. To the point I'm now marrying a guy 6 year my junior - but is much more responsible and practical then most people would expect.
 nvrtoolate

Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 12/23/2008 11:05:58 AM
I think that if you are lucky enough to find someone who makes you smile - go for it, even if it's only for a few dates.
 VancityMTBr

Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 66
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Posted: 12/23/2008 8:32:06 PM
It's not too hard to find someone to make you smile, it's tough to find someone who will keep you smiling both inside and out.

I enjoy older women more because they know more of what they want and are willing to tell you what it is, there are fewer stresses as well (in my experiences). Younger women seem to be more dramatic and harder to deal with...

An older woman really knows how to be herself and comfortable doing so, that in itself is sexy.
 Nick_Sh

Joined: 12/21/2008
Msg: 67
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Posted: 12/25/2008 4:41:34 PM
I have been dating a girl that was 7 years older then me, she was 28 and i am 21. It was one of the best relationships bouth of us have had. The most importent thing is if you guys have the same goals in life, and if u truly LOVE eachother.
 punem264

Joined: 7/26/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2008 12:08:47 AM
I have taken off the age range here on my profile, just to see what my response would be, and have been noticing that the younger dudes like older woman. I have received a few messages from the 25 and under range, which is pretty cool. Tells me I still got it. I wouldn't date anybody from high school are you kidding me? I agree with you post 67, age shouldn't be a factor as long as the two parties have something in common.
 Sugars_Desire

Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 69
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Posted: 12/26/2008 8:10:41 PM
If the two people are happy, end enjoying each other than I see no problem!! I know people who also have a 10 yr age gap, and they have been happily married for over 30yrs...
I myself always seem to find younger men!! but I think my limit is 5yrs either way LOL
 Xavery

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 12/26/2008 8:37:33 PM
^I agree with the poster above.

I am having a really good laugh reading this page (page 3 - in case counting is not your forte). I mean one of these posts almost made blow a gasket. Can you guess which one?

Well, age is in the eye the beholder. And really, I think, it comes down to what makes folks happy. Airbrush a few people in Photoshop and you may see things differently.
 Aurora Starr*

Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 12/27/2008 9:07:01 AM
I never see age...I wish I didn't know how old they were even. One of my dearest male friends is much younger than myself and very wise for his young years.

I dated a man 4 yrs ago...I was 40 he was 27 . We had a wonderful time and lots of laughs. He was thoughtful and generous. What more could a person want in a friend. He moved away and we still stay in touch.

My father married a lady 16 yrs younger! so I gather if I were to do the same no one would be all that shocked!

Sweetest day dreams!! BC POF'ers!
 Midas_one80

Joined: 10/15/2008
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Posted: 12/28/2008 3:46:12 PM
Of course it matters. Obviously you are just interested in sex and not a long term relationship. now when this goes wrong, don't come on the forum and say all guys are jerks. you know what you are getting in to here.

some will justify this as they don't see sex before marriage as a sin; but, others will frown on it to see two grown people involving in a relationship that has nothing to do with emotional attachment than most probably sex.
 Midas_one80

Joined: 10/15/2008
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Posted: 12/28/2008 3:53:43 PM
Exactly! School her whitetigress. what the heck is a 32 year old woman doing with a 21 year old? unless she in it just for sex, then it is a waste of time. and then you women come back and say you can't find nice guys.
 starfire56

Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 12/29/2008 11:31:02 AM

but tell me honestly now
what is it with the young boys wanting to have older women???


young boys pretty much want any woman!!!!

But then again...
Two bulls, one young, one old are standing on a hill looking down at a herd and the young bull says, "Lets run down there and get one". The old bull looks at the young one and replies, "How 'bout we walk down and get 'em all?"

also, "Old age and treachery will overcome youth and skill."

In an equal world all women would be as horny as men .

Also see thread on 'ol goats.
 Scott-90210

Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 75
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Posted: 2/22/2009 10:57:44 PM
I happen to love older women :) I wish it was easier to find this type of relationship,, but so many people can frown at it,,

If I have the chance to be happy with someone, then I am going to do what's right for me, only I know what will make me happy in a relationship, "and that happens to be older women lol"
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