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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 6/21/2012 7:19:32 PM | | Also don't forget those crazy exes calling just because or getting him out of bed because one of kids is in er or she just won't go away n get her own life. And he will never see it like that he will say well she is mother of my child/ kids. Well in tht case u guys need to get back together n try consueling. The child n child mother always come first n I do want to n won't compete with that. Sorry that I'm going to sound selfish now but before having my own kids I want guy all for myself | |
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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 6/22/2012 4:18:55 AM | I'm not against dating a man with kids but I recently received a message from a man who is a full time dad, living on benefits. He'd filled in his Ideal First Date with, "Meet for drinks (you're paying)"
I don't like to ignore people who have taken the time to mail me so we had a short conversation before I told him I wasn't interested in dating an unemployed, full time dad (I wasn't rude). He was very offended and told me he was sick of the stuck up, judgemental woman on this site. Apparently we're all the same! | |
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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 6/22/2012 7:06:22 AM | Come ON Op. No one really gives a DAMN on here what a woman says she wants/likes/is looking for.
Everyone just wants a ****.
I just described about 80% of POF population 
So your gonna have to learn to deal with it. I specifically state somewhere on my mess of a profile I dont really believe in long distance relationships, yet I've received messages from girls in Russia, and in Thailand, and in Nova Scotia lol. Not talking about forums users here, just regular messages. | |
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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 6/22/2012 10:04:29 AM | | No no one reads what u write just today I got MSG from totally cute guy but one of his requirements was for vir to be n I quote very very sexual n it's funny bc in my profile I stated I am not looking for bed budy n want to take my time to get to know the person before sex I need more than just connection so yeah I guess he did not read that part. I have same problems getting MSG for guys looking for cute ass to pound they do not read not most of POF population | |
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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 6/25/2012 10:59:00 PM | | It seems that as soon as you mention something you *don't* want, you get deluged with replies from people with exactly the opposite desires. Don't want kids - replies from fathers. Don't want sex exclusively - replies from guys uninterested in anything else. Don't want idiots - replies from men several sandwiches short of a picnic. Don't want unhygenic characters - replies from guys for whom washing is something done under duress once a year. It seems people sometimes don't read things properly and only see the bits that interest them. So the OP's "not interested in dating someone with kids" gets read as: "interested in someone with kids". Depressing, but true. | |
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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 7/2/2012 12:09:34 AM | well, OP, if you WANT to meet men w/ facial hair, say you DONT like it on your profile........
Just watch, they'll all come running out of the woodwork, guaranteed!
PS-I dont know though if saying you 'dont want a relationship' will have the same effect and bring on all the loyal hearted, so, do keep in mind that would constitute an advanced level experiment! | |
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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 7/13/2012 11:36:29 AM |
Posted By: KatarzynaS on 6/21/2012 9  32 PM Subject: How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers Message: Also don't forget those crazy exes calling just because or getting him out of bed because one of kids is in er or she just won't go away n get her own life. . .
Uh, just for the record, any decent father or mother would WANT to know if their kid was in the E.R. Calling on that occasion doesn't qualify the ex as "crazy." | |
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| How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers
Posted: 7/13/2012 2:26:55 PM | You have the option of ignoring the messages from men with children or sending them a simple, "no thanks, but good luck to you." message.
I will date men with older teenage or adult children, but I do not want to date anyone with elementary aged children either, OP. There have been guys with a small children who are convinced we would be perfect for each other in spite of telling them I am not interested several times. Those are the ones I find scary...the ones who fixate on some fantasy and cannot take NO for an answer. | |
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