| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 2:17:56 PM | chose to ignore the other options I listed?
she's an adult and it's what she wants for whatever reason
maybe she wants a man instead of someone she has to train
she's a good candidate for a trophy wife don't you think?
then again we know nothing about her or her life experiences, she may have the maturity to handle it | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 2:23:00 PM | Sorry, totally off topic, but I noticed your screen name...I've always said that instead of butterfly... Since I can remember.. Always flutterby~~~ Good one
I think age is just a number.. It depends on "whatever" is going on in their lives, I guess, as well as maturity level. I know at the age of 18, I was just a "bit naive" and had no clue the first time I got married. I learned a lot from it though.. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 2:24:17 PM | It never ceases to amaze me at some of the close-minded attitudes and posts here. How can you judge a couple soley on one factor, their age difference. Age is just a number and if they are feeling the love, who are we to judge them for it. Hypocracy and jealousy are probably the primary factors behind some of these responses.
Good luck to them I say. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 2:30:52 PM | | if they are happy why would anybody else worry about it.Maybe it`ll last and maybe it wont.Most marriages don`t last so whats the big deal about this one??They may just surprise everybody and make it work. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 2:30:58 PM | Come on now ladies alot of you that are in your 40's see nothing wrong when you go for the younger guys. Just because this guy went to the leagal limit. Now you want to burn him at the steak like some of the women have said age is just a number so think about it next time some guy ask and you feel hes to old for you when hes closer to your age than the guys you have been seeing  | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 2:56:29 PM | I don't put them down but here are some things to think about.22 years life experience difference.Musical tastes.I don't know about you,but there is very little my daughters listen to that I can stomach.I've given it the old college try and admittedly there are a few things the kids listen to I like,but the most popular stuff,the rap is annoying noise to me.They can't relate to Led Zeppelin or the Beatles (I know,there are some kids who can,but I'm talking in general here).Then there's the issue of kids.I'm 45,I'm done with kids.When my youngest gets grown,there will be no empty nest syndrome.The grandkids are welcome to visit,but it's a joyous thing to hand them back to the parents when it's done.There will be a time when this girl may want kids and if the 40 year old dude doesn't want to,what then?There is no compromise,you either want kids or you don't.You also have to consider biology.She hasn't hit her sexual peak yet.His has come and gone and won't come back when she's in her 30's and 40's,assuming of course if he's still alive by then.
An 18 year old may be fun as a trophy and pretty to look at,hell,I'll take a lap dance from a hot 18 year old in a titty bar,but for a long term....my 18 year old daughter is out of the house finally (one down one to go) I'm not too keen on having another one.But that's just me. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 3:06:27 PM | | That's a bit young, and even though I've always, always been with younger guys, I'm not into raising another child~~~ I just said this on another thread last night, I believe.. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 5:29:07 PM | I dont know, I'm 50, and there is this young girl, I think she is about 25, I would''nt mind asking out. I kind of like her, and I get the feeling she kind of likes me, but I'm just not sure.
Then If I ask her out, and she did not feel the same way,it would be acquired.
And I don't want to loose the sort of friendship we do have.
Or dont want her to think I'm wierd for asking her out.
Not sure what to do? | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 7:55:37 PM | | I work in construction work and most of the men that are married have told me that if they ever get a divorce they would date girls between 18-25....Now keep in mind that most of these men are 30-40 years old...I talk to men all over and they state the samething...So the men on here must be a league of their own..Which is kind of strange.. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 8:03:43 PM | Now my ego would become larger if an 18 year old was interested in myself but on the same token I would feel that she would be cutting her single life short. What do you think?
Not me, I would feel like a complete loser that could only get females if they were so emotionally immature that they couldn't analyze my sick and twisted nature for what it would be if I were a 40 year old guy marrying a teenager. I am not one for eugenics, but man oh man, if there were ever a case, then this is it. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 8:27:55 PM | Not me, I would feel like a complete loser that could only get females if they were so emotionally immature that they couldn't analyze my sick and twisted nature for what it would be if I were a 40 year old guy marrying a teenager.
CSUguy, you are telling me that you would feel like a total loser to have an 18 year old interested in you. Not sure why. Think of the difference. You at 40 would probably have the love handles, some bagage in one way or another, shorter energy from your younger days. Probably more settle in one form or another. Maybe even a gut as our weight usually goes up with age. First at the 30 mark and second at the 40 mark. Note: I am assuming the 18 year old to look similar to younglust there. To have a very tight body, firm breast not sagging do to gravity, no stretch mark from child bearing, firm butt etc. Probably way more energy than you have. Just surprise that this would not build your ego up. Heck anyone interested in me builds my ego. Even a 60 year old women. Note: I may not be interested in her but still builds my ego up. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 8:29:59 PM |
To have a very tight body, firm breast not sagging do to gravity, no stretch mark from child bearing, firm butt etc. Probably way more energy than you have.
Yeah, if I looked like you describe I would have an even tougher time trying to dissect her motives. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 8:45:53 PM |
artandsoul-
We're here to give our opinion. Give them credit for their courage...........are you on glue????
Guapisimo, as you said, we're here to give our opinion. I gave mine and you just proved my point; rude and narrowminded attitudes such as the one you are currently putting on display here are exactly what these two people will have to face as they try to create some happiness for themselves. They're married. That part is a done deal. If they're lucky, they won't be bombarded by people like you who base their opinions on numbers alone and keep telling them that it will never work.
No, I'm not on glue. But someone like you could probably drive a guy to it. Merry Christmas to you too. | |
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| 18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man?
Posted: 12/24/2005 10:40:47 PM | | They say Elvis even when he was up into his late 30's and 40's always had young girls. I've read that his friends said he thought 18 was old. So he must have had them real young. Maybe Michael Jackson hasn't been the only Superstar child molestor???? | |
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