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DeagleNINja

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 76

Jealous possesive insecure controlling behavior Posted: 1/19/2006 10:31:36 PM
I trust someone up front and implicitly until they give me reason not to....its that simple My philosophy as well. If they cheat or flirt constantly, they're history as far as I'm concerned. They can work out their insecurity issues on their own time, not mine.

cabana_boy

Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 77
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Jealous possesive insecure controlling behavior Posted: 2/14/2006 12:32:31 PM
this is all very bad news. my girl's ex and family are mad at the world and try to bring her down cause she's the only one who's ever taken responsibility for anything and changed her life around completely. her sis and ex are very threatened and jealous of her happiness, always trying to undermine it with lies and b.s. some of her former friends are now on the sister's payroll as she has no real friends, puts everyone down behind their backs and they all have severe mental illness and addictions. she babysat them for years in their alcoholic suicidal outta commision states for years, and now they judge her & put her down for struggling to get over her ex cheating 5 months ago. they understand nothing about what she's going through and only care about themselves. since they've trashed her reputation with lies and gossip to feel better and deflect attn. from themselves, i'm gonna have a little chat with them and make sure they grasp how ****ing unimpressed i am with such cowardice and betrayal. she got you all through countless suicide attempts, nervous breakdowns and drunken blackouts, without judgement or telling anyone else the truth. all bets are off now.

malc1970

Joined: 3/29/2007
Msg: 78

Jealous possesive insecure controlling behavior Posted: 9/7/2007 10:49:15 AM
I was in the position with my exwife and went through hell for four years trying to hold my family together! in the end a gave up and so ended up a single dad. When I meet my new girl friend and moved on or so I had thought I found that it had rub off on me and did the same to her! This only happened after a minner mistake by her and was after we had had three really great years together, but it did the damage!

Blueguy21

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 79

Jealous possesive insecure controlling behavior Posted: 12/14/2007 12:00:48 AM
Gotta love feminism. A philosophy which ironically divides the sexes, doesn't unite them. I dated a girl with a lot of male friends. Knew it wasn't going to work. Everyone was saying how if you aren't cool with it that you are automatically "insecure and controlling" So I played along and thought "ok maybe I am a little old fashioned, maybe im getting worked up for nothing" , guess what she cheated on me. I choose to listen to my gut instinct now, my new philosophy is to avoid women with many male friends or who simply have very screwed up boundaries. If that means I have to be single for a long time or till the day I die, then so be it. These modern political correct values are why society is in extreme moral decay. I also hate how now everything that is wrong is now right and that everything right is now wrong, just goes to show how stupid of a society we live in when we let the degenerates tell us what "right" is. That's alright though... It's going to change soon, it's going to be the way it was in the old days, just watch.... ;) Gotta love having knowledge of future events.

~LoriMac~

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 80

Jealous possesive insecure controlling behavior Posted: 1/28/2008 3:47:49 PM
wow a self fullfilling prophecy....you are suspicious and jealous and controlling...she doesnt like it...so she pulls away trying to hold onto some semblence of identity and sanity...the relationship becomes intolerable ...as much as she loves you and she notices that other women can have male friends...other women have men with lives of thier own (besides stalking)...she remembers having great relationships in the past where it was really ok to have her own identity...and surprise surprise she eventually calls you on being insecure/jealous/controlling....wow...did it really take scooby doo to solve that mystery? Its is what it is...women have friends...some of them will be guys...believe it or not not all women and men sleep together when left alone...I dont personally want to sleep with any of my guy friends...or I would have already! Has she been unfaithful in the past? That is the best predictor of future monogamy...not whether you have been cheated on.

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