| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/13/2006 8:49:02 AM | I have laughed so hard ....my sides are hurting......whew......this topic is hilarious....
ok..guys.....from probably the ONLY honest woman in the world!...sorry ladies...gotta tell!!!
Whether a woman cums or not......is whether the woman knows HOW to make herself cum....so it is not your fault.....period....
most women fake orgasms.....sad to say.....my sister once asked me....Do you really love sex as much as you say you do?....we were in our early 30's at the time....I was stunned.....she then said.....seriously....I mean.....I just dont care if I never have sex again.....THAT blowed my mind...first I was shocked..then I was scared..(never have sex again..YIKES..I would rather stop breathing NOW)..hehe...then I recovered....and I very gently said......
Sis...have you ever had an orgasm?.....she says.....hmm...uuhh.....I THINK I have....LMAO....
uh oh....we had a problem....here.....I said.....uhhh..NO....sis...if you had...you would KNOW it.....she said..oh no...(got somewhat defensive on me)...I am pretty sure I have...LMAO..
I said..ok.....this is going nowhere.....so I went out and bought her a simple back massager..gotta start out simple here.....b/c without a doubt she doesnt even KNOW what gets her to the point(for me....it is..well darn....that is anothe forum..hehe).....
I give it to her with this advice...make sure you are totally alone......and get totally naked...on your bed...some sexy music on....low lights....and turn this thing on...and touch yourself ALL OVER..till you get to your kitty.....then just close your eyes....and rub yourself fast....then slow...then put it on and off of yourself...till it feels really good.....and whatever you are doing at THAT time...do it MORE..and faster........wooo laaaa.....her husband is STILL telling me THANK YOU.....hehe....
moral of the story.........Orgasm...is all about knowing your body VERY well.....very uninhibited...a tad selfish for a few moments......about feeling sexy....and LIKING yourself....hmm.......none of these things guys can make happen......UNLESS...you tell him what to do..because every woman is different.....find out what she thinks of when she plays with herself...hehe......then you can help her out......lol
when a woman truly cums........she will be wet.....sensitive and heartbeat pounding........instead of trying to figure out if a woman did or not.....get her to masturbate for you .....and watch HER closely.......tell her you want her to REALLY cum for you......no matter how long it takes...you sooooooooo want to see her face when she does.....then after that.........you have a comparison........stick a finger in there....at the end.....it will be pulsing so fast.....you WILL feel it....if she is faking one...it will pulse...but NOT in a steady FAST rhythm.......
TTFN......Free Spirit......
p.s...my personal opinion.....I think all the fakers should just stand up...and POOF ..disappear...hehe.......then damn....there would only a few REAL women left in the world......and a LOT of the game playing would stop too.......and to the women who really want to know HOT to....just email me....lololololol....... | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/13/2006 9:48:57 AM | | You can't tell women are that good. Remember that movie When Harry met Sally?? It shouldn't bother you that much over one night. Even the best atheletes have thier off days too, so don't sweat it and go for round two. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/13/2006 10:07:10 AM | The answer is: A woman's vagina contracts during orgasm.
I have NEVER NOT had an orgasm.
I have NEVER faked it.
It wouldn't have occurred to me.
and......a man does not GIVE you/us an orgasm....it's something we get for ourselves.
Any more questions? LOL, LOL | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/21/2006 12:03:57 AM | sometimes prolonging ,you got to let me do my job. .the horns cant hurt you (cant hurt if they cant stand,lol) if know what your doing and its fun. me does agree its not a boys sport,and yes if you dont know what going on ,"gods speed" you'll need it.the funny thing is this is to be 'enjoyable' time that is the sad part. orgasm can start with the flowers i bring home. its about enjoying someone else and taking the time to think of someone other than yourself. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/21/2006 6:45:01 PM | their vagina gets more wet, usually excreting a white, odorless liquid which is easily viewable on your penis.
their vaginal wall also tenses, you can usually feel it, unless you have a really small penis.
glad to help, thank me later | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/21/2006 9:46:37 PM | | hay they say women first i do what it takes to get the job done i giver her oral then full on and a little back and fourth but i have read in maxim that one way to tell is if she gets tiered after and just wants to go to sleep but some women get energy from some orgasims there is good advice in the june 2006 issue of maxim | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/21/2006 11:27:40 PM | | Personally I like to give more than to recieve, There is just something about a womans eyes rolling back in her head, when she begins to arch her back and cant control her movement and afterwords her whole body trembles and breaks out with little chill bumps even at temps above 72 degrees. Its awsome. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 6/21/2006 11:40:49 PM | | You want to make sure she has a good time like you always..ok one listen to her..the noises she makes and listen to her body Language(the way she moves and touches you). Respect her, do your best to make sure she enjoys her & yourself. If you do this then I am sure if she doesn't orgasm she will still of enjoyed it all. | |
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Joined: 6/15/2006
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/3/2006 6:22:26 PM | | I liked the toe curl post. But, are women still doing this??? Why? ALL of the books say never never never do it. If the guy is a good lover, and knows you are into him, women need to relax, and this takes time...sessions....Guys want to do it the first time with the lights on. Sure, if I had Halle Berry's lighting and make-up men. But, it will happen. Girls, I think the faking thing is way passe. We have enough trouble communicating with men. We want to talk, they want to solve the problem over and done! Don't do this stuff. So not fair. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/3/2006 6:28:01 PM | IF HER LEGS DON'T SHAKE, AND SHE IS SILENT AND/OR COMPLETELY STILL, ITS SAFE TO SAY, YOU DIDNT GET THE JOB DONE. I PERSONALLY WOULD NEVER FAKE IT, MAKE 'EM DO IT TILL YOU GET YOURS, TOO! | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/5/2006 10:08:17 AM | | it really depends, if it sounds like she is auditioning for a porn movie than its probably fake.. but hell I am pretty good at faking it lol so you never know | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/19/2006 12:26:49 AM | | just let it go... who cares if she's faking it. doesnt mean she's not enjoying herself. she'll still be feeling some form of an emotion. you would hope if she is in bed with you then she is feeling good anyway. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/19/2006 12:32:31 AM | I got this off the net...
The only real way to tell if a woman has faked an orgasm is usually by the way she acts after sex. She probably faked an orgasm if:
1) She quickly hops out of bed (or wherever you had sex) and starts cleaning, dusting or cooking. Be wary if she heads directly to the shower, especially if you have a removable shower head (I shouldn't have to explain this one). If the sex was good and she really had an orgasm, she would need a couple of minutes to recuperate from the headrush to catch her breath and allow the blood circulation back into her legs.
2) Her cheeks lack color: In general when a woman experiences an orgasm, her cheeks (and up around upper chest) tend to change color due to the increase in blood flow.
3) Her eyes don't look dazed: The eyes tend to look relaxed and dazed seconds after an orgasm while she recuperates from the experience. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/30/2006 10:57:49 PM | | i prefer real ,but if she wants to fake an orgasm thats her problem i believe if a woman needs to orgasm and has to fake it tio keep me happy it s not what i need to be happy, i prefer to talk and work it out sometimes all it takes is a lil communication,besides i like to please my woman and would be very insulted if she needed to fake it ,there are better ways to solve that problem | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/30/2006 11:05:52 PM | I think the best to way to say it is the french way "le petit mort"= the little death.
I used to be with the one girl, everytime she came she was like dying lol...she eaven tried to kick me of the bed | |
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Joined: 5/13/2006
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 7/31/2006 3:04:06 AM | sometimes its good.(ok im gonna get offtopic here)i can cum after doing for quite some time but my concern would be "did she?" i'd feel like i didnt perform so at all costs, i'll.
Magically i ended up with this french(yes from france) hot girl, 23 but she planned like a 35 yr old, up tight,very serious at whatever she does...focused........
anyway in bed after all the fore play....... and going the whole nine yards, she couldn't "O" made me feel half a man for the 1st time ever, now if she faked it i would be very happy and my mojo still up.I had to work her some other way ,20 mins later she finally does and say "i only cum by hand" in her french accent.that was it for me cuz man, its hard handwise for that long. Never saw her ever again!  now im very cautious with the french,thought some other one i met last week dance far better than most americans i've seen. I'll keep u updated. | |
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