| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:14:07 AM | If it's thru oral.....impossible to fake as the female body goes thru specific physiological responses to the stages of arousal. Several of these are not something you can control...literally as obvious as trying to fake an erection. Only smaller. 
An orgasm thru intercourse...sure, you could fake one of those. But since many women don't orgasm regularly that way, get a different lover if you feel the need to run that charade. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:47:25 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 sorry guys .....do not fall for that one....
Women CAN and women HAVE faked it with oral....
I have sat and discussed this subject with many friends over the years...trust me guys women fake it alllll the time ...oral , intercours, manual stimulation....alllll the time.
but just for the record this is not always a reflection on the kind of lover the guy is..sometimes we just can't or we are not into it....or the timing is just off... | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:55:34 AM | | I agree .. sometimes, I just can't even tho the sex itself is good.. I can't find myself to orgasm. Don't feel bad, I guess its just our way of making shure your ego isnt hurt. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 5:04:49 AM | Then your lovers don't know what signs to look for.
A quick 'google' on physiological signs of arousal in females will tell you all you need to know. Sorry, you can't fake those...your body is not capable of faking it (there is not concious control), specifically the engorgement of the clitoris & it's momentary retraction right before orgasm...unmistakable when your tongue is involved. Other ways...sure you could fake it.
Kinda sad that somebody would feel the need to...because it's not about the 'prize' it's about being w/ your lover. We know everybody doesn't always get off...iIt's not going to hurt anything to actually SAY 'hey ...i love being with you but i probably won't get there tonite, can we try again tomorrow?.
No big deal.
If you chose deception over honesty in an intimate situation, don't be surprised when your partner does the same. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:02:02 AM | | yes sexy momma has it there..... all girls are diff.. and they dont do the same thing... so give it some time and dont excpect an orgasm every time.... | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:08:56 AM | I always fake and honestly can't usually get an orgasm from a guy. Well no, it's not so much that I fake, it's that I get really into it, and nearly have one and they think I get off before I do. Once I told a guy I didn't really have one and he said "you're lying." I have had orgasms from men before but it's usually just because I'm so into the guy, not because of anything he did. Just so turned on to be there with him.
The men I've been with don't know enough about the woman's body, it takes a long time to get me to climax. I have been with some pretty good in bed guys though. I was with a super star for a year that taught me things, I still didn't get orgasm too much.
I know how to do it myself though, love jacuzzis | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:32:03 AM | | I use heartrate as an indicator. Put your hand over their left breast and feel just below. If they're having (or just had) a true orgasm, their heart will suddenly pound into overdrive. Very very few people can alter their heartrate at will. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 10:02:26 AM | haahaa, it's funny that woman say "Men can't tell the difference if she is faking it or not if the girl is good!"
What a bunch of hogwash that is, there are all sorts of ways to tell. If you have any natural instincts. The first one is, how wet is she! thats an obvious! but slight touches in places and you know whether she is really feeling you or not.
But of course, like girls say too! Why would you even care if she is faking it?! if she is going through the trouble to make you think she is, then she is obviously doing it for you anyways! so enjoy! Why do guys always have to put twists on simple things!! | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 11:30:29 AM | Jenn Again:
" Sorry, but I don't think a guy can tell the difference...I've read all the posts and there's nothing there--other than squirting, which I've never experienced and not sure if I want to--that I can't fake. "
I used to think there was something wrong with me...why was I peeing when I had great sex and orgasmed HARD.
Now I know it is the squirting thing - and I am more relaxed with this.
Some guys really like this and I believe it is because it shows the intensity of the orgasm.
I used to fake, but I wasn't really aware of my body then. Lots of private time and personal attention taught me a lot about myself and what works.
Never a need to fake now as I enjoy orgasms so much.
^^Debrah^^ | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/12/2006 11:36:51 AM | /\ /\ /\ /\ and not all women get really wet just because they had an orgasm...
sure, I can fake with the best of em....but I really prefer to tell ya straight up what u can do to make me cum....or just reach down and bring myself to climax while your doing me....
does it really matter who's ringing the door bell....as long as it's getting rung. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/13/2006 2:55:51 AM | You guys are hilarious if you think you can tell the difference between a real and fake orgasm....heart rate LOL it takes energy to fake to ya know
it's ok let it go, everyone of you will be or have been duped at some point I guarantee it...but again like I previously posted....don't take it personaly as it often has little to do with the man or his efforts.
wow touchy subject for the male half of this thread... | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/13/2006 3:18:27 AM | Interesting how most women here brag that they "fake" the orgasm....same gals that get mad when a guy "fakes" the relationship???.....maybe a guy really can't tell, not convinced a woman should brag about her acting ability though....why fake it if instead you can guide your partner to drive you to a "real" orgasm??......and we all wonder why things don't work out........ | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/13/2006 8:53:54 AM | ^^ agreed, and the funniest thread was the one where the guys were all trying to figure out why women can't get orgasms from them and one said, they have mental problems and they were all going on and on about how they don't have the problem, women always have orgasms with them. I don't think mental health has anything to do with it, sorry to bust your male egos. It's just not as easy as you think.
Just get an instruction book or something. They should give classes on this stuff in school, it's so important and so many people are clueless, from my limited experience.  | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/13/2006 6:52:07 PM | An instruction book? Makes it sound like you're programming a universal remote. :frustrated: All women are different... you have to learn the woman, what she likes, what relaxes her. Enlist her help, no one knows better what will get her off... And for some of us, it's not about the male ego, it's about shared pleasure. Nothing excites me more than my partner's excitement...  | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/13/2006 9:31:07 PM | | If we start yelling "oh baby yeah... oh honey yeah...oh baby....oh my gawd...oh yeah... ouuuuu.... come to mama"... it means you suck at what you're doing. C'mon... how can you NOT tell? | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/13/2006 9:43:45 PM | If you stop worrying about how to tell and concentrate on pleasing her and taking your time and really wanting to give her an orgasim for the right reason like you want her to feel the beauty of one she will have one.
The major reason why women do not have orgasims is because we just dont take our time and we are too focused on ourselfs. I now I will get flack for this because it sounds like I am typing this to get some attention but I have had times where I was focused on my needs, and then when I concentrated on the girl I had rave reviews. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 11/13/2006 11:37:13 PM | Well you can tell if your using a finger or two. There should be a muscle that feels a lot like a rubber band contracting. Not like the usual muscles a woman uses during sex, but a softer piece of tissue I'd say about two inches inside, maybe less. I think that is the only way a man can really know. I've never faked it, but think I'd be able to. Don't take a rocket scientist to figgure that one out.
why the fock does ANYONE fake it? Obviously your not going to get the real thing if you fake it... and even if you dont feel like having the big "o"... why not just say so? Orgasms aren't about petting someones ego. | |
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