| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:53:24 PM | | Girls are pros at faking guys out. They seem to do it all the time. I don't think the girls will give any real good pointers. Why would they give up trade secrets. You just do your best. If it's not good enough, she'll just dump your ass and label you big time. But good luck. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:54:15 PM | aww cheeky. honey can you turn the "live within 75 miles thing" off your email for a sec hun?
Youre so logical I love it. I read your profile, totally understood you and I'd love to be buddies.
it wouldnt let me email you lol | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/22/2006 7:10:54 PM | There are too many signs from the body that can't easily be faked. Its surprising that a lot of men don't know them all....I think thats why that its so easy for women to do it...not that they are great actors. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/22/2006 8:02:10 PM | It's extremely easy to tell if a woman has had an orgasm or not; just ask her to stand up right after you think she had one. There are all levels of orgasms and most of them is not easy to achieve because unlike men, it almost always invovles a woman's head and heart. A mild one is the satisfaction of being close to the one you love.
Once you get in that zone, it's the best feeling one can ever have and the slightest disturbance like your patner asking who is your daddy can cause you to loose that feeling and hence not have an orgasm so you fake it to please them.
However, if you are not disturbed, and you go all the way to have an orgasm? oooooh baby!!!all sence of reality goes out the window. Any honest woman who has had an orgasm will tell you they do not remember what they said or did during an orgasm. A deep/er/est orgasm is like a workout. Ask the woman to stand up immediately after all her hollaring and toe curling; use your ingenuity like changing sexual position. If her legs ar'nt wobbly then she did not have an orgasm. The same way a man gets spent after having his orgasm, is the same for a woman. Anything else, and the woman is faking. As for a G-spot orgasm well it's messy yes there is lots of fluid anything else and its a deep orgasm. You want your female to have an orgasm everytime start pampering her for a week with lots of kind words and goodness and withiout having any vaginal stimulation. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/22/2006 8:08:29 PM |
Who the heck cares how a woman feels about sex and orgasms? I pay the bills, I do the dirty work, I am the man of the house. Therefore the sex is for my pleasure. Women constantly say they pay men for their efforts by giving them sex. When they are not happy with the man they take sex away. So screw them, all that matters is if we get ours. If they want an orgasm they can do all the work during sex.
Some guys say the sweetest things...I think I'm in love.
Faking it comes very easy for most women....I seriously doubt any man could ever tell when I was faking. You know...after years of practice, you get to be pretty good at something is all I'm saying... | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/22/2006 9:40:01 PM | Sexy Momma, you indeed are wise (or experienced) beyond yr years. The Roman love poet Ovid advised women to fake their orgasms if they had to, to help get the man off.
It's true that eventually a man's orgasm doesn't amount to much by itself.
A good jerk isn't what it was when he first happened on it at 10 or 12 or
whatever age. But, when you are inside the woman you love and admire, or really really like, during patient or repeated trips up the hill, that incredibly full smile, that look on the face on the way and that "Oh that feels good" phase that should last forever if God were kind before
climax, if that can be faKed, I have yet to believe it, even if the screaming
and contracting or clawing is faked. It really doesn't matter, as long as my mind is
blown, as long as the clawing hurts so good, I know her mind is probably blown in some way too. Even if she fakes it out of some kind of sweet gratitude, my gratitude mixed with hers is a bonding thing. I know it was real if she talks about a warm glow about her for the rest of the evening and she looks that way. Then the rest, if it is the first time, is a woman that you did not know before. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/22/2006 10:15:14 PM | Sorry, but I don't think a guy can tell the difference...I've read all the posts and there's nothing there--other than squirting, which I've never experienced and not sure if I want to--that I can't fake.
In short, I don't think there's a man who can truly tell the difference if the girl is in tune with how her body would normally respond. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 12:27:59 AM | | a woman can moan, clench her muscles, thrust wildly and kick and scream but one thing she can't fake his her heart rate going up, the sure fire way is putting your hand to her heart and finding out if it's an elevated heart rate, see once again proving that the heart can't tell lies | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:22:50 AM | | Other than a stethoscope if your paying attention you can normally feel it...it gets warmer and wetter plus if your in really deep you can feel the cervix contract and then relax in a rhythmic manner. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:34:45 AM | Just a question though: Isn't this where afterglow and cuddling come into play? I mean, cuddling afterwards I could always feel her breathing heavily.. and there is the afterglow which I honestly dont think can be faked either.
But then again.. if you do it and just get up and walk out of the room... well slap to you and I hope she faked it so she could get her clothes on and get out of there as well! lol.
Well call me old fashioned but for me there is much much more to sex than just getting off and calling it a night. Theres the exploration, the teasing, the honesty and communication, the cuddling, the pillow talk, the closeness and intimacy, sharing fantasies, learning how to best please your lover, etc.
See... now that got me excited! lol. 
Or was i just faking that??
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 5:54:23 AM | >>>>> women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell <<<<<
Any man with any experience at all should know the difference. If a guy can't tell when the big O is happening or has happened, he might want to find a course called sex101. JMO | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 6:30:25 AM | If you really know a woman, and really love her, you will know. There are physical signs, but many of them can be simulated. It would be very possible in a short term relationship, but far less likely in a long term caring one. In those cases, faking would probably be never even imagined.
If they are asleep a few minutes afterwards, you were either really good - or horrible.
Women who fake are helping to create the problem. If a man is lied to, then how can you blame him for thinking he is a good lover? Everyone is different, and communication in and out of bed is the key to making love. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 6:43:02 AM | | Well, Whiskey29--that attitude will get you absolutely nowhere. If we have the grace to fake an orgasm you should have the grace to pretend it matters... | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 6:46:28 AM | | So why does everyone feel the need to lie about this? Is the relationship that unstable it cant withstand a simple "sorry dear, no I didn't have an orgasm?" And dont start spouting stuff about male egos either... married ten years and it was I that broached the subject, and rectified it, in the first year. It was way more of a boot to my ego to give her one for real than it ever would have been to find out later she was lying to me about it. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 6:50:59 AM | Well, Whiskey29--that attitude will get you absolutely nowhere. If we have the grace to fake an orgasm you should have the grace to pretend it matters...
Are you serious?????????? .......GRACE??? well, thats what this place is about..opinions..........just for the record........if it's fake, then it's fake.........thats her choice........i dont care!!!..if she wants a REAL one.........then she can tell me how she wants it....and I'll get her there!! | |
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