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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 7:08:36 AM | sorry duplicated--wish i could come up with something really funny to fill this space...oh well...
no worries, the hpost about having grace and pretending it matters was funny enough!! | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 7:16:37 AM | If you care for your partner............ You will find what makes her tick. .... communication ...... stimulation & forplay (explore )......a woman by nature needs more time.........
Believe me.............. you'll both benifit greatly...... try to be more open,comfortable with yourself. (your body).
Enjoy!!!
Cheers !!!!!!!
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 7:19:00 AM | | they cant, this was officially proven by Meg Ryan in "when harry met sally"....representatives from No'maam state that they are planning to defend their client "vigorously" in a class action law-suit involving every man on the planet... however to date no one has ever stepped forward with a reasonable counter argument...unofficial polls show than 99% of men state that their women have triple-mind-blowing-clitoral-g-spot orgasms every night...the 1% was dating Meg Ryan during the time of the poll... | |
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Posted: 1/23/2006 7:31:55 AM | | Maverick and Montreal Man, I hate to sound like I am forming alliances, but so far you seem to be the only guys who don't sound like Masters and Johnson clinical experts or "I'm going to find out if she's lying" obsessed performers. There are women who fake to get their lover off and then there are women who fake to get him off (literally). If she immediately gets up to go drain the monkey and you lie in be basking in your prowess then it probably wasn't the real thing, enjoyable though it may have been. Who the heck, even if you are able, does things like asking them to stand up or puts a stethoscope to their chest or measures how wet the sheets are afterward? And I must agree with His Wife, there is grace involved in the real thing (Read DH Lawrence Collected Poems). | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 8:13:26 AM | The dead give away from When Harry met Sally is when she smiled and went back to eating. I mean, you finish and she says "that was mind blowing honey now get me a cheesburger", somehow I don't think it happened for her... lol. And a class action lawsuit? No way, I would be too embarassed to get up in court and announce that yes she had to fake it all the time cause I have no clue what I am doing and am too embarassed to ask.
And I must be in the 1% cause I have never claimed she had triple mind blowing clitoral g spot orgasms every night... lmao.
In fact.. she once asked me what a g-spot was.. we had alot of fun finding out!
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 8:25:43 AM | | A fake orgasm is a gift to a guy, least it is from me. Means you are doing everything you can, and it just aint going to happen for me at that time. Why leave you feeling like you failed? | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 8:27:41 AM | | why would you have to guess is my question...if the lady fair's eyes are rolling back in her head, if her back and other body parts are arched skyward, if her breathing is fast and shallow, if she is involuntarily screaming and clawing...then she is either having and orgasm or she fell out of a plane | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 8:57:23 AM | A fake orgasm is NOT a gift to a guy. Why build him up like that on a lie? The higher you build him up the further he has to fall... not cool.
Besides which I think you just missed an oportunity to teach him.. aint communication grand? | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 11:25:47 AM | Sorry, I can not GIVE anyone an orgasm. If you don't want one to begin with, there is nothing,nothing,but nothing I can do which will give any woman an orgasm. An orgasm is not a present you can wrap up and give to someone.
There are lots of women who never orgasm durring sex. But that doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy the sex. Maby she only orgasms by masturbating. Maby she's too self concious when she's with someone. But just because she doesn't orgasm doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy the sex.
Know what, most women can't tell, really, if a man has orgasmed either. It's easy for a man to fake as well and the woman can't tell if you do it right. | |
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Rake
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Joined: 3/12/2005
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/23/2006 12:29:27 PM | It's so stupid for women to fake it. If the guy is a regular and not ringing any bells than you need to communicate to him what will ring your bell. If he thinks he is pleasing you than he will just keep doing what he thought was right in the first place. Real smart.
Sometimes I don't have an orgasm... and not through any fault of the woman... sometimes it's just not going to happen. I just say "Sorry baby, it's not going to work for me tonight" and that's it. If your significant other can't handle the fact that once in a while you aren't going to come than they have bigger issues than sex. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2006 12:33:12 PM | | Some guys just do not understand. Women and men are not wired the same. Sometime you could be doing all the right stuff and it wont happen. Why stress over that?? A fake orgasms is easier than explaining why you cant get there. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2006 1:07:51 PM | I can understand your point Princess. I understand the fact that woman don't cum all the time.. perhaps because I don't cum all the time... and perhaps it's because I have enough self-confidence to not get all stressed out if my girl doesn't happen to cum sometimes. Sh1t happens. Maybe she's stressed out and maybe my game isn't on. Everyone has an off day.
Do you find that most men's egos get wounded if you don't go into orbit each and every time? Maybe I will make that one a forum topic. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2006 1:20:55 PM | I can see how a fake one would be a gift from you but a real one is the gift he wants to give you.
In a way, I can see how everybody here is right (and maybe nobody here is right).
Some women can only come if they are on top and that is exactly where many men have to really really try not to lose their erection.
Some medications make it to where a guy can get a strong erection with viagra but can't come the way they normally could and have to fake it.
Go figure. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2006 1:22:46 PM | Sometimes postions have nothing to do with it. Sometimes I could be right there, and BAM something happens and my orgasms runs and hides under the bed.  | |
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