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 Test_Pilot

Joined: 10/15/2005
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Posted: 1/23/2006 1:31:20 PM
Yep... I feel your pain. I can be right on the edge, the doorbell rings, or the dog barks and orgasmtown might as well be on the moon. Nobody's fault, just my frame of mind or a kink in my leg and poof, it's back to square one. Whatever. The missed ones make the ones I do have that much better.
 peoplefan

Joined: 11/17/2005
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Posted: 1/23/2006 1:42:47 PM
I can always tell she's going to cum when she puts the book down.
 jebstuart9

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 78
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/24/2006 7:58:22 PM
You really know it's good when you ask her "how 'bout it" and she says "Climb on and help yrself honey, I'm going to sleep."

Princessnaughty, can I come sleep under your bed?
 Suther

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 79
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/24/2006 8:24:35 PM
LMAO interesting thread.. now what are the tell tale signs:

1) Toes curling
2)shaky legs
3)flushing of the face and chest
4)Oh God Oh God
5)screaming and moaning
6) muscle contraction

All of these can be faked and rationalized by:

1) toes cramped
2) leg cramp?
3) maybe I should have shaved.. lil scruff on sensitive skin....
4) omitting the word to follow ".... hurry the **** up" or fantasing about a past lover
5) "maybe if I scream like a porn star he'll cum faster"
6) kegal exercises

There's only one true sign

You can't fake the tasteof an orgasm
 Ardent

Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 80
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/24/2006 8:30:28 PM
If she tells you she did, she faked it. If she tells you nothing. She faked it. If she starts quivering there's a 50/50 split that she either had one or your dating an actor.

Think of it like this: If she's screaming like a banshee, do you think she screams like that when she masturbates alone?
 nicckimouse

Joined: 8/29/2005
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Posted: 1/24/2006 8:34:43 PM
Believe it or not..anyone can fake..guy or girl...that sucks doesn't it..lol...it's hard to tell...when i'm faking it...my legs don't quiver...thats my tell tale sign...if i am faking it..i just moan a lot and tell a guy how good he is...but even if you don't get off..yourself...sometimes it's about getting the other person off...it's not always about you...no matter how much you want it to be...believe me..i know....but i'm off the topic...believe it or not...only one guy has been able to give me really good orgasms....and i just don't see how woman can fake it..whats the point...i miss that guy...not for anything other than the sex mind you...but wow...lol...i don't like to fake it if i don't have to...because why not tell the person and help them learn what they are or aren't doing...i't may not be them it might be you..
 DragenWulf

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 82
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/24/2006 8:42:46 PM
Wow k did'nt read all the responses so don't know if I am jus being repetitive but I think I have some input....

I believe it is pretty easy to tell if a woman Is having said orgasm. For starters there is no time period in which said orgasm can be had I have had sex that has literally lasted two minutes and both of us have cummed collapsing in a writhing mess..On the other hand I have had sex where a woman has cummed well before myself so if it is faked I would believe she would wait till time was nearer for both could be wrong there... I think that a series of motions occurs when orgasm is neared and reached by a woman. First I think you can tell by the muscles in her inner region if you feel a slight tightening or like your hitting some kind of new development going on in there jus keep it up your close...I find when a woman is about to cum there is alot of involuntary body motion a quivering or maybe even slight spasms it ranges of course...I have had one woman that I know of fake it I was like huh and jus lost contact with her sad thing...anyways a woman will usually say when she is cumming so if it seems like a big performance or even slightly overdone it probaly is..You know whats horrible I faked one once I know that may be hard ot believe but no lie jus was so not up for it and had to do what I had to do I chuckled about it hehe

Ciao
 jess77

Joined: 1/20/2006
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Posted: 1/24/2006 8:47:45 PM
I have never faked an orgasm...but when he asks, "Did you come?" What do I say? Sometimes, I say "No"..then I have to hear, "I'm sorry, I'll try again. You wanna go again? I can do better" and it's this endless pity party for what was otherwise a lovely sexual experience.

Or I say "Yes", and never call him again.
 Ardent

Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 84
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Posted: 1/24/2006 8:54:34 PM
There's no point in knowing.

1) If she does: Keep going, she'll keep having more until you run out of gas or she tells you to break.
2) If she doesn't: Just keep going until you run out of gas or she tells you to break.

Either way, its beyond your control.
 jebstuart9

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 85
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/24/2006 9:48:57 PM
Dragonwulf, in spite of all that introspection, I believe it is clear you have had the real thing and are a genuine lover.

It's a pass it back and forth thing, isn't it? Her building excitement gets me excited, and my excitement gets her more excited gets me excited gets her excited gets me excited and faster and faster oh God that's good get's her excited gets me excited gets her excited....

Well, you get the drift (You know "the drill")

As for the scream, there was a certain scream halfway between hurt and pleasure that curled in an exciting way that haunts me still, like hearing Bigfoot once...

Don't give a damn if it was faked or not. Haven't heard it anywhere since, any other place.

Well, there was that time in Yellowstone, the couple in the next tent....
 lippi

Joined: 1/3/2006
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Posted: 1/25/2006 12:03:32 AM
Who cares; its on the shoulders of the women anyways to make the man feel like he did it right, sooooo i woo and i ahhh until he cummm so deal with it buttttt i may not cummm and i personaly wil tell u not tonight its up to u so im fair......so men who cares as long as u get ur rocks off hey....u always get off if a women is there or not soooo do get sentimental with the question of how to tell or not as if most men care...just my thoughts
 jebstuart9

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 1/25/2006 7:25:07 AM
Do I detect a hint of pent up frustration or anger?

You are "entitled" (if you believe in that word) to a regular orgasm to let go of some of that.

It's your and your man's responsibility, as some in this thread have been hinting.

You have to CO-MUNICATE even if you FORNICATE

"I knew a gal from Forney and her name was Kate.
We all called her Forney Kate"
 darklit

Joined: 12/10/2004
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Posted: 1/25/2006 6:54:20 PM
I have been with a enough women to know when and how they are getting off. Yes I know when a woman is faking. Its not that their not getting off they just make obvious noises or say the same things over and over again. I usually dont mind unless they become anoying. trust me you can tell a big difference between real and fake.
 steven47

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 89
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/28/2006 4:40:11 PM
There is some that do care!
 LaLuna5023

Joined: 1/27/2006
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Posted: 1/28/2006 5:21:00 PM
If the girl is a good actor, you'll never be able to tell.
 nemphisis enforcer

Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 91
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/28/2006 5:48:41 PM
there will be a new aroma i think i spelled it right, anyway you can smell it.
 lippi

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Posted: 1/31/2006 10:01:45 PM
once again a fair women will tell if they can or not come on that occasion; personally i will state OUTLOUD if im am able to come or not,,no im not frustrated and if im unable to come with the MAN then i will come later on my own no need to hit at me, just honesty not dishonesty lol
 PrincessNaughty

Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 93
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/31/2006 10:02:53 PM
Nemesis?? LMAO you can smell it? Eww I think you need to find some women with better hygiene.
 JoseyWales123

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 94
Bring her to everytime..
Posted: 2/1/2006 2:50:17 AM
REAL. If ya gotta big dik you can feel her uteroous dip & grab your "head." If not just stick your had right on her pubs and press down litely while you're making sweet "passionate love" to her. I promise you'll bring her to for you first time, that's if ya never felt that dip before & I've felt that little extra rip before too, thats when ya know!!!!!!!

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 JJBoy

Joined: 10/29/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 3:01:11 AM
YEP!!!!! you can tell!!! and Im a guy!!! you can tell by they way their **** tightens, the tremmors in their legs, the way they are breathing, the clenches of their fists, they get even wetter, their toes turn up because their muscles contract through their body and if its really intense even their eyes flutter a bit!!!! eventhough this is a lot to concerntrate on,
if all of this is not going on at the one time then they´re probably pulling a swifty.
The best way to learn is to go down town and dine out with the tongue!!!! because no matter how many tricks you can do with your****the tongue always does the trick!!!!! cause woman only have an orgasm like 50% of the time when you only use your****!!
 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 5:56:24 AM
I can tell. I can tell everytime.
How can I tell ?
I'm not tell'n, you'll just have to guess.
 GRACEFOOL

Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 97
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Posted: 2/1/2006 4:33:45 PM
do ya really care
i mean, really
do ya really, really really
care?!
 Dreoth

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Posted: 2/1/2006 8:26:01 PM
Few things I've noticed:

Tightening, though this can be faked easily...
Neck becomes flustered in most cases...
Clit becomes too sensitive, sometimes painful to touch for a while.
Toes curl up during.
The way she breathes, hearing a good gasp is a nice sign.
Her legs may tremble after...

Really depends on the woman though. Best bet is to ask her and be open about it, if it's not working for her, ask what does and work with her to bring her to orgasm. :)
 Real_Brunette

Joined: 8/4/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 8:57:57 PM
men..you cannot tell. I am sorry. There is no way for you to know if we are faking. And we don't fake it for you...well most of us don't. I have faked it for myself. So I can go to sleep.
 alpha_female

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Posted: 2/1/2006 11:33:10 PM
Please, women are amazing actresses....we could be Oscar Award nominees for " Best Orgasm ". Seriously!

Here is an example of me faking it :

One night, I was too tired to go on and cum. He really wanted to make me cum, so to please him and me...I had to do the ultimate deed : FAKE. I started off slow with my moaning and groaning...then I started to lift up my hips and butt and start to gyrate and start thrashing my head....this is when I get loud. During the loudness and the lifting of the pelvis ( to make a bridge ), I start grasping at the sheets very very hard as if I can't control my reactions. Then I start kicking slightly and start putting on a pained-pleasure look on my face...almost as if about to cry from cumming !!! After that acting part of extreme height of orgasm, I just thrash harder to push him off, and roll over and start curling like a cat, pretending to gasp and " cry " in a pleasurable-painful way....and then lie very very still after that...as if to imitate an extreme high, an absolute blissful, unmoving state.

THERE ARE ONLY 2 WAYS TO TELL IF A WOMAN IS REALLY, REALLY CUMMING...BUT I WILL NOT GIVE IT AWAY! It's like a treasure hunt....:)
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