| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/2/2006 3:04:29 AM |
men..you cannot tell. I am sorry. There is no way for you to know if we are faking. And we don't fake it for you...well most of us don't. I have faked it for myself. So I can go to sleep.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but yes a man can tell if an orgasm is fake or real, so don't think we can't. Besides, if a woman can't orgasm thats her own fault not the guy's. Stop blaming men just because you have some sort of sexual problem. If it was the man's fault then no women would orgasm from sex, but the fact is, women with healthy sexual appetite's do orgasm for real and its the one's with some sexual dysfunction that can't so they try to blame someone else for their own problem. Everyone is responsible for their own bodies, not someone else. If a woman can't orgasm then she is just damaged goods and not a real woman. Move on guys to a normal healthy woman that isn't broken. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/2/2006 3:13:52 AM | Please, if you're doing all that anyone with any common sense can tell that your faking.. Like I said before just feel for the dip and sometimes a womens eyes will glaze over too. To answer an other q. it is important to some guys me being one of them to bring ya to a climax. If I don't, personally I don't think I'm doing my job as a man because weren't you cool enough as to "put out " for me in the first place.
It's my job to get you off!!!!!!
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/2/2006 5:15:28 AM | I'd have to say when thier legs clamp down on your head like a vise, hands on the back of your head pressing hard, body goes completely rigid & the eyes roll back in thier heads while they think your not looking.
I agree though with alot of the women. They can be very convincing I'm sure. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/2/2006 7:11:09 AM | | I think if your going doen on her,which I do first anyway, and she is moving and moaning and clutching but not wet, nor are her lips turning that full lovely clour they do when they are into it. Also that sex flush which appears on a part of their body,depends on the individual, if not there they probably have faked it. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/2/2006 10:31:19 AM | Well not to big myself up or anything, but I happen to be fortunate enough to know EXACTLY where the female G-spot is. I can hit it rytmatically with ease. That's the only way to TRUELY know if a woman is having an orgasm - making sure you know where to hit her. After a woman climaxs, and especially if it's from the constant thrusting into the G-Spot, she will NOT want to do ANYTHING for at least 20 mins. I know this because the birds I made cum would literally be shaking and in complete bliss afterwards. I was beginning to think she took some type of euphoria drug or something!  . Also, girls can get extremely aggressive during an orgasm. If they scratch you and literally feel like that are gonna rip off your skin, then you have done the job  | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/4/2006 7:32:34 PM | | Actually if you take the time and let your other sences be part of it such as sounds ,smell,touch,you might be surprised at what is actually happening besides just gettig off. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/4/2006 7:38:30 PM | | to the men who insist we cannot fake it well...do you think we are unaware of the things our body does when we are having a orgasm? most of us can "clamp down" and we know to make our legs shake and to tighten them around you, grab your back, and make sexy noises. it isn't about being unable to orgasm...I have no problem, but there have been times , I really wanted it done with and I learned quickly that if he thinks I got one, he will soon follow. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/6/2006 7:00:26 AM | | another way to catch a chick fakin it is 2 watch her eyes!!!! because if you do make her orgasm then her pupils will dilate and get bigger, but if they dont and they go smaller then she may be faking it, otherwise its just the old story of slip,slop,slap!!!! the juices will be runnin wild and if shes really cuming in pleasure there aint nothin she can do to stop that. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/6/2006 7:05:09 AM | | really the pupils dialate im a nurse never knew that one lol , another thing who has their eyes wide open during an orgasm lololol jeeeeeeeee thats silly | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/6/2006 4:09:04 PM |
Sorry to burst your bubble, but yes a man can tell if an orgasm is fake or real, so don't think we can't. Besides, if a woman can't orgasm thats her own fault not the guy's. Stop blaming men just because you have some sort of sexual problem. If it was the man's fault then no women would orgasm from sex, but the fact is, women with healthy sexual appetite's do orgasm for real and its the one's with some sexual dysfunction that can't so they try to blame someone else for their own problem. Everyone is responsible for their own bodies, not someone else. If a woman can't orgasm then she is just damaged goods and not a real woman. Move on guys to a normal healthy woman that isn't broken.
Well said berry2006. Women try to blame men for their inability to orgasm because they feel inadequte as a woman. I definately won't take it as a mark against me. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/6/2006 4:53:56 PM | | stop thinking about making her feel good. be a man and make yourself feel good with no guilt or shame. be real. if you want to tear that ass up then do it. (yeah you know you do) Your arousal will feed hers and if you can last long enough (wimp) she'll get there. if not give it ten minutes and if she's still whining get it up again. (the second nut principle) one. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 2/7/2006 3:41:20 AM |
you know..if it happens it happens. Look on the bright side..if she fakes it, you've got it made..she is basically telling you its ok to just take care of yourself..which is what men are supposed to do anyway. In the wild, procreation is not about longevity... it is about getting in and getting out before you lose your spot. AND, back in the day the women did not need long to get off either..in fact, a womans orgasm enhances the chance of pregnancy...which is why so many one night stands, quickies, or flings result in getting a girl knocked up...it's their subconscious way of widening the gene pool.
I agree. A wise man once said "How many orgasms does a woman have during sex?" The answer is who cares? Everyone is responsbile for their own bodies....and if a woman can't orgasm then thats her problem. Like I said, women try to blame men because they can't orgasm lol just as princessnaughty did...typical. Everybody tries to blame someone else for their problems and women do this because they know if they can't orgasm then they feel inadequate compared to a real woman. Its not the guys problem if a woman can't orgasm, because if it was, why do some women orgasm while others don't? If it was the guy's fault then no women would orgasm. The fact thast some women do proves its the wom,ens' problem. The ones that don't orgasm are just broken. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 3/4/2006 7:09:54 PM | | I'll agree that we're each responsible for our own bodies, and I'll agree that it's not right to place blame on anyone for an inability to orgasm. But, I will say that taking the time to find out what makes each other "tick" will only be beneficial to both people. When I was younger, I'll admit that it was harder to reach that point of going over the edge and some of that might have had to do with inexperience, age, hang-ups or my partner not lasting as long as I needed... I'd fake it. It helps to have a man who is willing to do what it takes to help her find the key to her pleasure box and not one who is merely looking out for himself. It helps to be with a man whose ego isn't hurt by a woman giving him directions. It's not just physical, but mental. Either way, I made it my mission to discover myself, explore and find out what I needed or had to do to get there each and every time. I'm an orgasm machine and the 30s brought some nice surprises... being able to go over the edge without any direct stimulation is a wonderful thing! Any of the women reading this who have a hard time getting there... relax, keep trying, explore yourself... don't be shy to read erotica, watch porn, look at mags... find out what triggers arousal in yourself and allows you to let it all go... you'll find it! | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 3/4/2006 7:19:27 PM | And when you find it, please never forget to take your man's hand and bring him along for the ride. There is nothing more erotic than a woman's pleasure.
If orgasms were on a shelf in a store, a woman would never consider it a bargain to pay the same price for a fake over the real thing. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 3/4/2006 7:21:24 PM | For sure girls can fake it pretty easily.
It's the partners role to help her really achieve it and ask her to be honest. Let's give our egos bad time lol
My experience is that the clitoris is very sensitive after an orgasm (you can easily realize that during oral)
I just found out a detailed description on the web:
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Methods of distinguishing a fake orgasm
Not all people are exactly alike, so the effectiveness of these methods cannot be guaranteed.
* During orgasm in both males and females, there is a throbbing action in the genitals that pulses with a period of approximately 0.8 seconds. Although this takes place internally in the female (primarily at the cervix), it is sometimes possible to observe this externally at the fourchette.
* Some women exhibit a "sex flush", or a reddening of the skin through vasocongestion, during the later stages of arousal. The absence of "sex flush" could simply mean a woman who never experiences it, or a woman who is faking arousal. However there is no evidence to suggest women who experience "sex flushes" do so with every orgasm so the absence of a "sex flush" in a woman who is known to experience them should not be taken as evidence the woman is faking an orgasm.
* Orgasm is almost invariably accompanied by darkening and erection of the nipples in both men and women.
* The clitoris generally becomes extremely sensitive and in some cases, may become too sensitive to be touched. | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 3/4/2006 9:03:14 PM |
I don't care one way or the other. As long as I get off, I'm happy. Ignore all her orgasms and concentrate on your own!
LOL!!!!!!!! You are truly a wise man!!
Original poster, is your****numb or something? When she has an orgasm her **** will clench your**** | |
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| women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 3/4/2006 9:06:52 PM |
to the men who insist we cannot fake it well...do you think we are unaware of the things our body does when we are having a orgasm?
YO!!!! I don't think many guys are really concentrating on whether or not your orgasms are real. If you act like you have one, the guy will assume it's real... unless he's an insecure loser bent only on giving YOU an orgasm. But if for some stupid reason, a scenario is set up and the guy has to determine whether an orgasm is real or fake, yes I do believe we could tell the difference. I've had my****clamped on by the woman's conscious contractions, and orgasmic contractions. I can tell the difference. | |
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