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 alucarm
Joined: 2/16/2005
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A few months ago, I would have said no. Although I know several married couples who met online on the same game, nothing remotely like that ever happened to me, which is not very suprising given the male-female ratio on the games I played. However, one day there was a little bit of a crisis, and this girl and I tried to resolve it. We grew fairly close during the process, and I guess at some point I fell for her. She acted oddly when I complimented her, and didn't appear to enjoy it. If she lived within driving distance, I might have pressed the issue and asked her on a date, but she didn't. Unfortunately, we had an argument and do not speak to each other anymore.
 MikelnoAngelo
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 146
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 2/16/2005 11:21:02 AM

....We have e-mail and chat at our finger tips... We don't speak or hear, the other person's tone of voice... We don't even see, thier facial expressions to our comments... We only see, pics that are placed in their profile awhile back... Not only that but, we have to spell out... in type, are emotions...

.....Essentially, just with the writing, alone... Both you and the writer are communicating at a different or much more deeper, level...


Gerry286, that is one of the most brilliant explanations of why the online attraction happens.

It really is all about feelings and communication. When facial expressions and vocal intonations are taken out of the equation, all that is left is the raw emotion. That is why in the centuries before us, there were so many love letters from one person to another. When it is written down, the person sending the letter can be clearer in their thoughts, and the recipient of the letter can understand the conveyance of the thought.

 exavier
Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 147
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 2/16/2005 11:57:04 AM
Yes, Yes, Yes.
 briteeyess
Joined: 3/29/2003
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Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/6/2005 9:20:51 PM
yes....but unfortunatly there was this huge ocean that was between us that neither one of us ever crossed...I have nothing but the best of things to say about this man...hes an incredible person and I hope he finds true happiness and love to make his life truely complete
 dark_ice_angel
Joined: 9/7/2004
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Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/6/2005 9:41:55 PM
I have, and we are still together, I met him on here!
 Byrd
Joined: 7/19/2004
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Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/6/2005 9:58:57 PM
Yes, here now..And I think shes fallen for me too...
 Gardel
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 151
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/6/2005 11:40:56 PM
first time I fell inlove on the net was like 10 years ago ...

after 5/6 months, she disapeared, and I found out it was a guy ... now that was ****ing weird ...

after that yes, but irl never worked out the same way as on the net ...
 thephoenix
Joined: 8/22/2004
Msg: 152
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/7/2005 2:45:07 AM
yea,that i did.It cost me alot of money because she was a scammer.but i hold ne grudge against her as karma will prevail.
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 153
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/7/2005 3:15:52 PM
Once only, 7 Months of Mails, Messaging & Phone and when we met, 'Perfect' was an Understatement. And its still getting better Day by Day.
 mudbug
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 154
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/7/2005 3:17:56 PM
out of curiosity, ticket.......

could you see yourself relocating?
 Gardel
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 155
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/7/2005 3:19:39 PM
now looking at your profile I understand the connection ...

you make a very nice couple !!!

now tell me how do you handle her temper ? from her posts it's easy to see she is quite something
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 156
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/7/2005 4:56:23 PM
mudbug: could you see yourself relocating?

Small problem only, solution in the works.
'DragonN' is the only One I ever fell for on the Net.

Gardel: now tell me how do you handle her temper ?

What Temper, or you just 'trolling?
Anything On-Topic you have to contribute here?
 magicsexman
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 157
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Posted: 3/7/2005 5:27:58 PM
Kit , you're a hottie ! I fell in love with a woman on the net, spent thousands to fly where she was and send my things , it lasted a year , and I had to spend thousands to start my life over, heartbroken. there is a possibility , but if you meet on the internet , one word of advice is when you get together, ditch the comps , they will be a source of insecurity until one or both of you die.
 lateā„¢
Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 158
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/9/2005 9:40:45 AM
"Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??"


I thought I did, ........I fell for someone that wasn't honest, .........still isn't. She blames the premise, avoids being responsible for the deception, .......not even honest with herself.

The next time I'll look harder for the "red flags", .....and I'll aim higher, not settle for just an expression of need.
 squeak365
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 159
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/9/2005 9:41:31 AM
At some point, I hope to.....

Squeak
 mudbug
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 160
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Posted: 3/9/2005 10:26:57 AM
i'm falling for someone


hope it works out better than your most recent fiasco late....(with the hot woman you got now i'm sure it will)
 Forstmeister
Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 161
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Posted: 3/9/2005 10:37:06 AM
You bet...that's the good news. It was a great summer. She flew in from Oslo last May, and spent the summer. The other news was that she was well established in the Norwegian art community, and I can't make a living there.

Too bad, but we all make choices.

Forstmeister
 jenzagirl
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 162
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/9/2005 11:19:18 AM
Late has a new hot woman? Why wasn't I informed????
 mudbug
Joined: 2/15/2005
Msg: 163
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/9/2005 11:20:20 AM
its an inside joke. hypothetical hot woman.
 Agstang
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 164
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/9/2005 11:31:42 AM

Tell me what have you found behind the computer???

I found a nickel, a paperclip and some fuzzy stuff that I think used to be an M&M in its heyday. But, other than that... I got nothin.
 Tx_ford_kinda_gal
Joined: 3/10/2005
Msg: 165
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/10/2005 10:12:06 AM
yes i have before and it didnt turn out like it should have logn time ago and the past is thepast but im wellin to try again if i met that right person--------> hint hint kentuckey.
 squeak365
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 166
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/10/2005 10:34:42 AM
I may become interested in someone but will not fall for him until we meet and our eyes meet....

Squeak
 jm266
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 167
Have you ever fallen for someone on the net??
Posted: 3/10/2005 5:33:51 PM
sure, kind of. no lasting relationships though
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