| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/28/2005 10:02:51 PM | | well ive gotta disagree with everyone. The greatest act of love is to know when a realtionship has become harmful to yourself, to leave it as hard as it is, and move on, to find a new beautiful healthy love thats give and take. You'll never find true love until u love yourself first, cuz if u dont u will stay in that shitty relationship, for fear there is nothing better out there for u. Your true love will never find u. | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/28/2005 11:25:55 PM | | Children. If a man becomes the father of my children. I don't have children yet...but I figured that if the man is going to give me a child, I definitely would love him very much. | |
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Kashue
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Joined: 12/25/2005
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 1:05:41 AM | Letting go. If i know she'll be happier in someone else's arms.
Holding on. If i know she'll be happier in mine.
If i don't know, i'll let her make the decision, respect it and be happy that she's happier this way. Either way.
Drama aside, I think the greatest act of love someone could do for me is simply to let me know that i have THAT special place in her heart. Not just any place, but THAT special place.
But that's just me. | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 4:28:34 AM | Vicky,
No need to disagree with us all... we all have a different walk in life, we all have something to share that is based on our own experience...
and it was nice to hear about your definition of a great act of love.
Thanks for sharing, and I hope you have inspired somebody else to bring there different view forward. We can all learn from each other if we keep an open mind...
and if we can get past my bad spelling and grammer!!!
lol,. lol
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 4:36:09 AM | Kashue,
Thanks for joining our chat.... great points
Your a wise man.
I guess the only trouble for me and many of us is knowing when it's time to let go and when it's time to hang on.
J | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 5:34:24 AM | ^^^^ ahhh VICKY192... my soul cries out to yours darlin'
The Greatest Act of Love huh? Hmmm ....
How about this:
To allow someone to dream their dreams. Support them no matter how ridiculous or unattainable they may be, because you love them enough to allow them the freedom to try and your loving arms to catch them if they fall. To love them in such an unconditional way that you live every moment with them....feel every thought....allow them to shine, while you support, encourage and involve them. To never allow a single day to pass without taking time to touch their face and tell them you crave them in every way simply by looking deeply into their eyes. To give them the respect and honour of being your ONE without reserve or question....doubt or uncertainty. That you hold them as your heart....like no other that could ever compliment or complete you in the same way...
~ Silly thoughts from a hopeless romantic Carissima ~
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 6:11:42 AM | | The greatest act of love? When you call your sweety at 7PM, tell her you're finally coming home and you don't want any supper because you're not hungry because you still haven't solved the problem at work and when you arrive home and open the door she's standing there in a Victoria's Secret outfit. YES!!!!!!!!! | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 6:14:04 AM | I think the greatest act of love is Forgiveness and Grace.
Allowing free will to take its course with understanding | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 6:20:31 AM | i don't know about the greatest act - but putting somebody elses happiness before your own has gotta be near the top.
Yeah - what he said too \/ \/ \/ | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 6:25:42 AM | To allow the one you love to move on with peace and good wishes and hope.
It rips your heart out but you smile. | |
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Kat4u
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Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 36 | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 6:57:39 AM | For me the greatest act of love.. actually the only time in my life where I felt more love and joy and happiness was when I gave birth to my daughter..
looking into that tiny face was the most incredible feeling of my life.. | |
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stats
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Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 38 | |
| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 7:14:24 AM | I think yes as you said all that well and could not agree more,to let your love live their dreams and support them.and be there if they fall.unconditionally love them,omg i sound mushy and did not think i was the romantic type lol.yes holding them in your heart and to give them the freedom they need and to trust.to love them and hold them in your arms at night.If they are sick be there to care for them and be by their side and let them know how they rock your world''.I would also say to carry their baby is the greatest act of love in human bonding in a couple,but for some of us ,this point in our life this is past.But i always felt this was a beautiful way to show your love to each other is to have a baby together.I guess it can mean different things to many of us. | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 9:57:37 AM | Thanks to all parents for reminding me of what I'm missing since I am not one. Caring for one’s children and teaching them how to navigate life is definitely up they amongst the greatest Acts of love.
No body should argue with that unless their mother or father was an axe murderer who tried to kill them. Or your nuts and you like to shoot your self in the foot by cursing your parents who gave you life.
To give life is one thing but how about saving a life or two. What about the sacrifices are forefathers made to keep our country free. A lot of them gave up their lives so we can live free.
There is a lot of good stuff on this thread and i think we should keep it going!!
What's your view? | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 40 | |
| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 10:52:07 AM | Simple , to always give until it hurts, that is the main ingredient of love . | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 10:58:40 AM | | If my partner can willingly in a heartbeat give up everything they have for me, then theres nothing i wouldnt do for them. i think the greatest act of love was really summed up in romeo and juliet.......fighting against all odds just for eachother.....uuuh minus the dying...but hey shyte happens =) | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 11:38:58 AM | | Making him despise you so he can stop hurting inside,replace the feelings of love lost with disgust for you. | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 1:48:37 PM | adrenline,
Yes, Romeo is good example with the pound of flesh... yada, yada,
evennow,
Twisted theory Babe… but I'm sure you can get away with it. If I was so lucky, all you would have to do for me is replace that love lose with some words form your heart like "I love you" simple but it would work in your case.
sockmonkey82
Hugs
Now there is a train of thought that works for you I'm sure
Jewelry
Tiffany's would love you for that one... You don't work for them do you lol It has been advertised to us that diamonds are a girls best friend.... is that true or false?
I'm sure if it comes with a commitment it would be a great act of love!!! | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 2:04:53 PM |
Making him despise you so he can stop hurting inside,replace the feelings of love lost with disgust for you.
Something that I'm considering at this very minute | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 2:36:39 PM | Spoken like a true Christian. Incidentally,,,did I tell you I am glad you were born?
Anyone who was born to forgive my sins has my vote!  | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 2:37:09 PM | | Love doesn't work.The kind between two consenting adults that is.Love of family and children is endless. | |
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 2:57:39 PM | Scott's mom
Now that you know your forgiven maybe we can have a fresh start
What do you say to Tiffany's diamonds...
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| The Greatest Act of Love???
Posted: 12/29/2005 5:31:55 PM | To let someone die. I have seen many having cancer treatments....even though they don't want to. It will only prolong their life by a month or two....yet those few "extra" months are filled with agonizing nausea and pain....why prolong this?
Too many think of what would benefit them and not the terminally ill....when convincing the one they love to have treatment. | |
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