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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/14/2006 11:19:47 AM | If she sucks in bed as ^^jo~^^ puts it's not all that bad 
^^jo~^^ some men don't get it ^^jo~^^ and don't even try to explain it to them 
She only "suck in bed" till i lean forward and whisper in her ear..... Man your mom was so much better in this position! Then its Miss Five Alive or Rodeo Girl for the next 20 min hopefully longer      
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EllisD
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Joined: 6/3/2006
Msg: 228 | |
| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/14/2006 11:31:43 AM | I feel the need to step in and issue a warrant for over usage of emoticons.
Be supportive and help them become a better lover. If it's just inexperience, it's easy to overcome. Communication is key. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/14/2006 12:44:04 PM | why should you stay with someone that you dont like in bed? specially if its your lover??
if you are gonna have a lover, then get one that satisfy you | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/14/2006 3:59:08 PM | | ive thrown plenty of men out of my house for being bad in bed...but you know what...its a lot of womens fault that men suck cause they WONT tell them...so they go around doing it like there s nothing wrong.....women just start suggesting certain things to them...tell them that you really like this or that...if they still dont listen...kick thier asses out the door... | |
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Joey a
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Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 232 | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/14/2006 7:18:10 PM |
You dont tell them, you show them what you like. I had one like that ... no matter what I tried, did, showed, talked about, nothing at all, would get through to that man. I was so frustrated after months of dating him that I gave him a how-to book! Needless to say, he didn't take that very well and broke up with me a few days later. I wasn't trying to be harsh as I really wanted things to work out, we had great spark every place but in the bedroom. He admitted he had limited experience sexually, having married out of college and seemed to have a low drive and ED episodes. He kept saying his performance issues were due to stress and so on, which is believable for a middle aged man. THEN he told me when he was breaking up with me that he needed to get his freak on and went off to explore the BDSM scene! Yikes! Not my cuppa at all! Too bad he'd not been honest to begin with about his true interests. He wasted time for both of us. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/14/2006 8:18:25 PM | | We are not born to be good lovers, we need to be taught, and we also need to teach, so what's holding you back? Just wanting to change positions or find a new location should not be difficult, there's more to the story than what we are being told here. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/14/2006 8:53:01 PM | LOL,,, I tell them they are better than my first wife, but not by much.
I only have had the one wife that was poor at it, but that was after she was thinking of other men and not me.
My second wife, never had that problem, she was better than I was in bed, and then she started saying things about me and all of them positive. Enough said there.
I would be gentle, not wanting to hurt feelings, in fact I doubt I would say anything. I would be having to much fun showing them how to be better. If you are better at pleasing then your duty is to your mate, give them the needed care to be better. Don't tell them, show them. Take the time to understand yourself and them and push toward being better than you are, and they will respond or not.
If they don't respond to the above urgings to be better, then talking to them on a more serious out of bed time will be needed.
Love the person not the actions. What you want out of the relationship is the key.
What do you want OP? | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/15/2006 2:10:17 AM | I've decided (I'm in a bad mood this morning)....
Why not do them like they do us... just pack your bags... and sneak out while they are sleeping!!!!
No.. not really..
oh wait.. I did do that once... he was at work one night, I loaded up my clothes.. dog... horse...threw it all in my horse trailer and went HOME where I belonged. But, not only did he suck in bed, he was verbally abusive... | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/19/2006 8:04:40 AM | That is cruel thing to do................I think you should just try to add more excitement to the relationship ..........you should remember that real loves comes from within not from being within! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/19/2006 8:10:38 AM | | U could be a b*tch like me and just tell them to there face. Sometimes, there is no hope that they are gonna change and u just have to let it be. Finding someone that u can connect with sexually can be tricky. So stop wasting ur time with lousy lovers and go out there and find someone better! :) | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 11/19/2006 12:24:41 PM | I'd tell my lover with a poster, and a rock band...and maybe a disco ball with a laser show.
 
"Scotty doesn't know, Scotty doesn't know, Scotty doesn't know....."- Eurotrip | |
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zbt
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Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 244 | |
| You don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/19/2006 1:08:44 PM | | Ironically enough.............my biggest pleasure comes from giving pleasure.....and your the captain of your own ship.........sooner than later.........your partner will recipicate....oooola-la | |
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| You don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/19/2006 2:27:28 PM | You don't need to be negative ot hurtful...
just tell them that you are not like the girls that they have been with in the past and that instead of workin me like your last g/f, you need to do this or that.... | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/9/2007 7:01:08 PM | How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Or do you just ride it out?
Sometimes it could be because their last lover sucked and there love making became a boring routine. I dated a girl who just laid there the first time we had sex, but after awhile I was able to bring out her bad girl and she became quite animated in bed. Some women have inhibitions and you have to find what flips their switch. Once you show them what you like and you're able to push all their buttons in the process they can become very good in bed. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/9/2007 7:11:32 PM | | Well what i would do is look them right into their eyes..maybe give them a wink and say very so softly ..honey you suck in bed..then run like hell..lol | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:39:12 PM | | Well im having a little problem in that area. We do many a position, but the only way he can get off is if he offs himself. Now i have tried and tried, everything from oral to feathers and ice cubes, nothing works! He's too nice! he won't tell me how he wants it, and im getting frustrated when i can't get him off myself. It's pissing me off! help? | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:48:32 PM | Communication and honesty.
If someone is going to get offended then they don't respect your honesty and don't trust you to be sincere and honest with them.
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