| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:52:31 PM | | just my opinion but have you ever considered that maybe they suck because you aren't communicating with him as much as we like to think that men can read our minds they can't lol us women are complicated each of us has different spots and things we like in order for your sex life to become better you have to tell him what you like and don't like | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/10/2007 4:04:18 PM | You dont have to tell them.Just pick up your cell phone halfway through your crappy little expierience and order take out.They will probably get the hint. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/10/2007 4:13:49 PM | | Wonder what he'd think if I broke out my nail-file and started to give myself a manicure before he was done? Might be a clue I wasn't thrilled with his efforts. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/11/2007 12:19:21 PM | errrmmm .. try u suck . So very simple.
Yet is my experience they suck because YOU allow them to do so . Be aggresisive and tell them what u need ! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/11/2007 2:23:09 PM | Oh...you have to nip this one in the bud...RIGHT AWAY!
You can coax, steer and suggest. If that doesn't work, you can come right out and have a discussion about likes and dislikes. If need be, you can simply instruct and teach.
If all of these fail or are met with resistence, then you give it one more try at 'talking about it'. If he won't talk about it or still falters after discussion, you must decide if you can live with this or is it time to walk away.
Personally - I walk away. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/13/2007 3:08:54 PM | | you should be up front with the person i have to say i have never been told i suck in bed but if i did i would want to know and change what im doing wrong but im not one of them slam bam thank you kind of guy . its all about the female in my book .but its not that hard to learn to hold back ... | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/16/2008 10:21:15 PM | Ghost OP: How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? I don't let anyone become my lover if they suck in bed. If I really like a guy who happens to suck in bed then I will train him myself. If he doesn't learn then he doesn't become my lover. Maybe when I'm older I'll feel different but right now good sex is important to me. I'm willing to have patience and I'm willing to teach but darn it, the guy better pay attention and learn.
So OP, how are you? Oh wait, you're not here. Why can't old threads with gone OP's be deleted and a new thread with the same topic be started. If the OP is not here then who will call my post "shallow" and "vain?" | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/16/2008 10:33:25 PM | Sometimes people think there doin a good job in bed, but if u dont tell them how the hell are they going to improve. Just come right out and say it,than u both can work on making it better.If my lover sucked in bed, he wouldnt be my lover no more. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/18/2008 7:51:20 PM | Actually in my honest opinion, if the sex sucks, why continue ?
If it's something that can be improved on, then go for it. If he does it this way, take his hand and help him do it THIS way. etc.
But lets say he's passive, and you like it rough ?
Or he silent during sex, and you love it loud, moaning, dirty talk ?
Or he's got no talent at all ?
Run........dont walk !!! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 12:22:03 AM | "It sounds like you are trying to find a way for you to have enjoyable sex BUT.... are you kinkier than she is and she's maybe not into it? I can't understand HOW a woman can just be bad in bed unless she's not into you.... I mean... I'm not wasting myself on bad sex... I enjoy it, which means my partner is sure going to enjoy it. I like to be pleased and I like to please. There is something wrong with this thread I'm just not sure what it is. You are kinda vague about what makes her "not good" in bed.. does she just lay there like a dead fish? Does she not talk? NO orgasms??? you need to tell more... are you wanting to spank that butt and she won't let you therefore you are not happy with it. Come on..."
There are plenty of women who are TERRIBLE in bed, just because you have a hole doesn't mean that you are automatically good or even if he just cums. There have honestly been times I've had sex where I literally either faked it and ran as fast as I could or, came but it was so bad I would have rather just gotten it over quicker by myself with a hand.
That being said for dozens of reasons it is much easier for a woman to be at least decent in bed.
To the **** who said "be happy you are getting any" I see why you are probably single/staying that way and probably had past relationships cheat. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 9:36:09 AM | | I would simply tell them, "hey let's try this.. or this is what I like in bed." Unless they are totally unwilling to try something that you like.. there is no reason to hurt their feelings. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 9:39:57 AM | | Do you think telling them is going to make them better? The most you will accomplish is crushing their enthusiasm and spirit, which in the end will make them even worse. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 11:24:05 AM | Not so many guys answering this as women. I guess most of us guys know better than to even suggest a woman isn't good in bed.
One tip for the fellas. If a woman ever tells you she is a 'naturally good lover". RUN! They cannot be taught anything.  | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 11:49:41 AM | The RocK ManS top 5 ways to say you suck in bed!
5.You know I'd rather squat over a tall candle till it blistered my nut sack then to do that again with you!
4.Getting my teeth knocked out with a tire iron would be more enjoyable then a repeat of you in bed!
3. Could you please slam the car door on my c**k as you get out? I need some type of pleasure!
2.Well now I know why your a slut and not a whore!
And the number one thing to tell a woman that she sucks in be is:
1. Wow even Kenny would find you useless!
Oh lighten up and laugh! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 11:54:22 AM | | how to tell your lover they suck in bed ...well if you have agram of truth and honesty in your head ..you say honey !!!!!!1 you suck at this !!!!!!!! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 11:57:08 AM | | I think no matter if it is the male or the female who sucks in bed, They are going to realize it eventually. There is only so much faking one can do. I also agree with Will. There has to be SOME sexual compatibilty. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 9:10:19 PM | The good guy in me says, be open with your partner and communicate with them in a tactful way that they are not good in bed and that both of you can overcome this by teaching them what feels good to you and how they can improve.
The not so good guy in me says, give them a Kama Sutra book with stickies, highlighting, arrows and exclamation marks on sections they are lacking.
I act in good guy mode. Do you feel being good or bad today? lol | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/19/2008 9:17:46 PM | | You just tell them! That's what I do! They may get upset but it is better to be honest. If they suck in bed then I'm gone so I tell them why I'm not seeing them anymore! | |
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