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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/20/2008 7:33:51 PM |
How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
You say, follow my lead. Then you do your thing while she learns to reciprocate. Trust me they learn quickly. I haven't had anyone bad in bed other than a few virgins, which is obvious, but they learned.  | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 10/20/2008 7:43:00 PM | | I don't think that would be appropriate if your lover is a virgin. Like me for example, but I would rather get in bed with someone with experience. At least I'll be getting schooled. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/25/2009 6:56:33 PM | | Your answer to this may be quite simple. I myself have had a guy (virgin) who didnt know much and were a little shy. I gradually guided him at different times and told him whenever he was doing thr right thing that "that feels ....." when he does something you dont like,,gently push or move his ... hand, tongue or whatever to where it is right and ask him to do the same so he doesnt feel like he is failing... communication is always the key.. good luck. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/25/2009 7:18:45 PM | | I had a ex fiancee that i was so bad sexually that i would fall asleep during the act sometimes and their were several times that i would fake orgasms just to get it over with. I tried telling her on many occasions early in are relationship what i like and don't like sexually but she would get offended and cry. But as time went by i realized that she would fake cry just to win disagreements and to get things her way. The communication became more and more horrific which is extremly sad being that she was 7 years older than me. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 2/26/2009 12:32:23 AM | guys like watching women masturbate, show him and then take his hand to help. role-play, instruct him or her in an erotic way to teach them what gives you pleasure. there's lots of ways to improve their techniques if they are trusting of you instead of saying "you suck".  people in meaningful relationships don't talk to their lovers like that. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/1/2009 11:07:14 AM | OMG, Vampy....I've read almost the whole 12 pages of this old, old, olddddddddd thread from which the OP has been AWOL for years, all because I clicked on your name in the NS forums.....good god woman, I'm never gonna get that hour back!  | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/1/2009 3:17:39 PM | I have a question.
Why is someone with whom you're not compatible sexually your lover in the first place? If you're just bored, that's one thing, and if it matters to you both you'll fix it.
But, seriously--if you think he/she 'sucks' (in a bad way) why do you consider yourselves lovers? | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/1/2009 3:55:55 PM | I just came out of a similar situation. Tried for two and a half years to find a way for us to connect in the bedroom. It just sucked (and not in a good way) for me. He seemed very happy but I was extremely frustrated after alomst every encounter. I had never had this problem before so I thought it was me. Althought, I never had this problem with my husband of 17yrs. ( it was the one place we always connected ) It was great!! Earthmoving!!! That is how it should be.......
I just figured we are all older now. I have to give it time....
Now I've found I was right to question our compatibility. If you don't connect in the bedroom the rest of the relationship eventually suffers some how.
footnote: Like the site we are on..... don't settle for less... There are always more fish in the sea.......... | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/16/2009 12:33:53 PM | You don't- I could write a book on this because I have had women brag on how good they were but when it came down to it- it totally sucked. I think the reason for that is that men will lie, lie, lie to women and tell them they are the best ever, just to get more. I usually try to say we do not have much in common to continue the relationship- no one wants to hear they suck in the bed.
Of course good sex is probably relative.. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/16/2009 12:40:53 PM | how? easy
boyfriend... let me introduce you to mandingo, he will show you how you should do it...
now I will handcuff you and sit you right on the corner of the bed so you can see how its done. No complaining either! so shush! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/16/2009 1:10:25 PM | | LMAO that was funny. "Or do you just ride it out"?? Well that is definately one way to handle things. First of all if i am sleeping with someone it is going to be someone i plan on being with, so therefore i will be comfortable with him. Good sex is all about being open. I wouldn't say you suck it bed. No need for that. I would just say hey lets try it like this, or it would feel so good if you would do it like that. Or let me show you what i want. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/16/2009 1:29:53 PM |
how? easy
boyfriend... let me introduce you to mandingo, he will show you how you should do it...
This women is awesome. You get 2 Internets for that post. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/16/2009 1:34:19 PM | Im a person who ask questions even before we take our clothes of the first time.
If the person is not into the same things I am then it is time to find some one else.
Do you spit or swallow it makes no difference to me as long as she likes oral sex.
I tell up front im on the kinky side, how are you with that?
That should give her a good ideal .
I have been told im lously in bed, great in bed. It's all who you are with.
I like doing what women like they can come up with some of the most exciting ways to make love. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/16/2009 2:16:12 PM | | Maybe before unloading on your special person that they are terrible in bed maybe try telling them how YOU would like a certain sex act preformed on you or how they could bend or wiggle or giggle to increase the sexual pleasures for not only YOU but the OTHER as well!!! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 3/16/2009 4:44:52 PM | | you dont tell some they suck in bed that just rude come on girls you train them to be good its just rude to pass on a guy that bad in bed you need to train them like you would any animals i ride horses for a living and i dont stop riding til i get what i need out of them they need to get there manners on the ground before mounting them ladies when mounted teach them everything they need to know about your body by making them think it was all there idea when you have just put all hints there. and worse thing you can do it fake it that what ruins most men the loud you scream the better they think there doing so if you all stop faking it they soon get the hint they need to try something new ok so training is the key x | |
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