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Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?      Mod Threads Home login   Page 13 of 13 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13  Author  Thread: How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?  MandaKay Joined: 3/14/2009 Msg: 301 How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/17/2009 9:48:19 AM During the deed, make them stop and say "This isn't working. You should leave now. You know where the door is."  scottoliver Joined: 3/27/2008 Msg: 302 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/17/2009 11:51:44 AM mandakay ---> your a bad, bad person if you been doing that to your lovers!!!  MandaKay Joined: 3/14/2009 Msg: 303 How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/17/2009 11:53:08 AM I don't do that! They usually figure it out when I'm reading a book during the event.  horseygirl1986 Joined: 3/6/2009 Msg: 304 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/17/2009 3:02:09 PM come on children it not his fault hes crap hes had too many people fake it that he thinks hes amazing so really everyone needs to stop faking x  kpooks Joined: 12/23/2008 Msg: 305 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/17/2009 3:08:27 PM Make it positive. Instead of saying "you suck in bed" (how are they supposed to react to that, except be hurt, have their ego deflated and get angry?), make suggestions on things you'd like them to do (or do better). Construct not destruct.  Whisper_Soft_Words Joined: 8/9/2008 Msg: 306 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/17/2009 3:09:56 PM Step 1. SHOW them what you like Step 2. If you really care for the person, show them again or ask for what you want during sex, be polite about it, be playful. Step 3. When history repeats itself, stand up and walk out the room in the middle of it all...go into the living room and turn on the TV. Maybe fix yourself a drink Step 4. Either YOUR NOT COMPATIBLE SEXUALLY or he/she is either selfish or so stuck in their ways that they refuse to adapt from their old "tried and proven method" Step 5. Join Plenty of fish  Whisper_Soft_Words Joined: 8/9/2008 Msg: 307 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/17/2009 3:11:42 PM I also want to add that we women tend to complain about bad sex but dont do anything about it.....often times we dont know what we want and we expect the guy to...wake up. each person is different, ask for what you want...heck discuss it before you have sex for the first time  drumsafrican Joined: 5/6/2006 Msg: 308 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/25/2009 3:54:36 AM I find that the way you discuss this, i.e. the wording, very insulting. Perhaps the way you are approaching the discussion with your partner is part of the problem. In most relationships, there needs to be some subtle and non-judgmental communication about one's likes and dislikes. That is part of learning about a new romantic partner. If you let your partner know what you like, rather than being angry and judgmental, perhaps you will find that there is an improvement in your sexual relationship. If you feel that this is not working, perhaps you could consider sexual therapy in order to improve your sexual relationship. Judith  Divinity Joined: 2/16/2008 Msg: 309 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 3/25/2009 11:30:22 AM Easy, YOU SUCK IN BED Now that wasn't hard.  bebe_doll Joined: 3/20/2008 Msg: 310 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 4/9/2009 8:09:18 PM You don't... but do make suggestions. ;)  eyesgreen014 Joined: 1/18/2009 Msg: 311 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 4/9/2009 9:38:10 PM Say Bye Bye or go to a sex counselor  Judge Red Joined: 10/13/2008 Msg: 312 view profile History How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed? Posted: 4/9/2009 11:08:10 PM you got to be honest o the relationship will degenerate in all other areas too Page 13 of 13 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13

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