| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/29/2005 11:18:43 PM | | Believe me his ego needed to be taken down a notch. I normally wouldn't have said anything to hurt someone, but he did deserve the set down and I was telling him the truth (in my oppinion). It was always his way or the highway. We never did anything I wanted to do, it was ALWAYS about him (anal, BJ's and riding). Thats all he ever would do! and I love giving Bj's. I like to do many positions and experiment, but he refused to do anything but what HE wanted. He also was full of himself and would brag all the time. Given he was handsome, rich, and had qualities worth bragging about. I became tired of NO,No,No all the time and the bragging. My comments did get to him because he called me the next day and left a message. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/29/2005 11:24:59 PM | | For example: He didn't like french kissing or most kissing in general (I'm a good kisser and I love to). No cuddling, no touching his nipples or balls, no touching his butt, he didn't like that I loved to rub and touch him. He WAS a lazy, selfish lover who was sooooo full of himself that he needs a complex so the next girl would be better pleased. His ex wife never wanted sex with him, it was no wonder if U ask me. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 2:42:03 AM | | Hey Talking2U, now those are the types I can't stand. I'm not a selfish lover and I will not put up with one. Have you ever noticed the men with big D***'s are usually horrible in bed because they think with that all they have to do is just screw you and you'll love it... no no no there is more to it than that. My second husband wouldn't eat me unless I also gave him a bj, he said "it's only fair" so I asked him once... "do you cum everytime we have sex?" and he said "YES" and I looked dead at him and said "WELL I DON'T"... lol... he ended up in another bedroom and I ended up gathering my toys and little red ball and moving back home!!! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 3:05:30 AM | | No, you don't tell them. Try to tell her what pleases you. Casually get her to learn what turns you on. How would you feel if she told you that you sucked in bed? Think about how you would feel if it was reversed. Think with your brain, not your.........LOL | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 5:37:14 AM | i agree with you on that and thanx for saying what you said... i have a disability called mustiple scleroces and sadlly it effects my sex life so when i do have sex i,m on cloud nine which is about once every 2 months so for that i am grateful..once again many thanx for saying what u said... bless ya ...regards chazzyp | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 5:42:14 AM | I have had lovers that were not so great the 1st time around BUT if we hung out again we would "work" on things.
It's really a 2 way street.
Kinda like having a great qb and crappy recievers or vice versa, the entire passing game then sucks. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 6:05:16 AM | | It's not a reflection on you. Somethings the chemistry in bed is just not there, nothing more nothing less. Only you can decide if you want something else. Spending time with someone and not being satisfied is a waste of both your time. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 8:50:18 AM | Sit her/him down and simply tell her/him:
Honey, you know I love you. You know that you are the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. But if there was one thing that I could change. Just one thing.... (stubbling for the words)
Let me put it this way dear. I get more excitement and attention at the dentist, while having a root canal done, than I do when I have sex with you. At least with the dentist, I know SOMETHING happened afterwards. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 10:28:02 AM | Maybe you suck & she just doesnt want to tell you? Or maybe she just isnt that into you?
My thought is this, how bad could sex suck if you guys are really into each other? | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 10:29:48 AM | | trust me poison ivy, you can be totally into each other and sex still sucks. Different needs, different desires, different concepts of sexual happiness. | |
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