| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/30/2005 10:38:02 AM | | If they really really suck a$$, I just f*****g tell them, You suck, you bettea do better than that. A. I say that because I do my damnest to please her, and most occasions, its because she isnt trying. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:32:08 PM | The only lover that is lousy in bed, is the selfish one. If it's "all about ME", it isn't gonna work, but that applies to the entire relationship...not just sex.
It takes two and if you are both trying to please each other, there is no way for it to be bad. Even if you have a hard time talking about it, you can 'show' each other what works best for you.
Try some encouragement...I'm sure she does SOME things right...If you comment, that, "I love it when you do that", or "it feels soooo good when you do that", it'll make her want to do it more. Everyone enjoys doing the things they are good at.
Then when that is successful, you could say, "I bet it would feel REALLY good if you....." , or..."I bet you would be REALLY good at....." Hopefully, she will pick up the ball and run with it. Soon she will be encouraging you about things SHE likes.
Now, OP, you mentioned that there are things that you don't like....
There are a few thing I haven’t tried, because I don’t like that sh!t, no pun intended, and I would assume that she wouldn’t either.
(Don't ASSUME anything)...did it ever occur to you that maybe these are things she DOES like, and maybe she feels that you are being a selfish lover?? ...Not saying that you are, because I don't know her, nor do I know what these things are.
I see a serious need for communication, here. It would be a shame to ruin a relationship over a lack of communication.
Like someone else mentioned, if nothing else works, try making a game out of it. Good luck, and I hope this helps.... | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:55:28 PM | | Look if you cant talk to your partner about your sex life then you shouldent be with them it is like so alot of pepole have said on here communication is the key to every relationship!!!!! | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/15/2006 6:41:49 PM | | are you talking about ****or clit it is vry different but both are difffrent but beautiful i think the clit you take it slowly mmmmmmmmmm kevin You find that head of th e clit the bigger the better And you try it till it grows abd when it does you give the clit a blow job it be cums erect little****mmmmmmm you then brinng the girl to heaven and then you fingher just thinnner front of her while alpplying pressesse to her clit she if shee starts to to concentrate on contraction she will ejulater fantastic she will, ejulaculte squirt in her parteners facemmmmmm al ther best to all girls | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/15/2006 7:30:36 PM | | it s nots like that u hsave to be gengle at fiirst unftold her gentle folds u part the gente folds in inher vagina there are many beautiful fo hey are sweet things in her folds they are so many sexy things toi go from ther ask any girl she will tell you what to dommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/15/2006 11:08:46 PM | | Make suggestions.... some people just haven't had good sex or are too withdrawn to make suggestions in the bedroom. Take the rains and lead them to the promise land. Anyone can be a good lover if you show them how to make you happy and do the same for them. Communication is key and some people just don't like to talk about sex or are aprehensive in doing so. By doing that you just prolong getting what you want. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/15/2006 11:36:55 PM | | Well, I am a virgin, but I do love to sleep...literally sleep with people. I once cuddled up with someone who hogged the pillows, elbowed me several times, and I consider her to be bad in bed. I never told her. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/15/2006 11:52:52 PM | | If they suck take control of the situation, become sexually assertive. Show them what you like, how you ride. If it just ain't there it just ain't there. This job is the responsibility of both parties maybe the other thinks you suck and they are just riding it out. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/16/2006 4:24:16 PM | "Honey, I'd like to share something with you. Please don't take this personally, because I don't mean it that way. But, lately I've noticed that....errrrrrrr....ah hem.......you seem to be a little uninterested in our sex life. Well, I guess to be honest ~ ARE YOU IN A FRICKIN COMA??????????" "And seriously, I don't mean any offense." 
~OP~ It takes two to have great sex, only one to ruin it for both. If you aren't discussing things openly, expressing your wants/needs/desires/etc., half of the issue is yours. Communication is a nice place to start ~ but ultimately, there are times when two people are just not compatible sexually. Good luck.  | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/16/2006 4:26:04 PM | | I don't believe in telling someone they suck in bed. I would rather express what makes me feel good and how to please me so we could grow sexually. And on the same note I also like to be told what you like and dislike and when I touch the special spot so I can become a better lover for you. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 8/16/2006 4:29:37 PM | You dont !
You say "honey i wanna play a game ,lets pretend its your first time and i have to teach you how to do EVERYTHING"then you take him by the hand and lead him to the room of your choice for instruction | |
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