| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2008 9:55:18 AM |
While my ex could, and did, orgasm wildly from receiving oral she still didn't want it all that often. The reason was simply that she liked to kiss a lot during sex, but couldn't abide the thought of tasting herself (2nd hand, that is).
I totally agree with her I don't like tasting myself either. I don't open mouth kiss after a woman has gone down on me. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:04:16 PM | | Wow that is crazy! Some women have some emotional hangups i think. Like severe confidence and fear of rejection issues. To those women try getting drunk first and enjoy one of the few pleasures women enjoy in life. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/4/2008 8:22:20 PM | Wow that is crazy! Some women have some emotional hangups i think. Like severe confidence and fear of rejection issues. To those women try getting drunk first and enjoy one of the few pleasures women enjoy in life.
Wow,....I agree,......
sometimes the most wonderful thing about being in a relationship with a partner, is the ability to enjoy tasting each others "Excitement",.....
I like to go out and enjoy an evening of doing Karaoke, and downing a few beers,....
But if its a,... "Date",....
I like to have the sexual pleasure of an intimate relationship, before we go out and get intoxicated,...to share the pleasure of what can be,...before a good night of "Partying",
and,...if,.....I'm Lucky enough,... to have my wits still about me afterwards,..then we get to enjoy the pleasures of each others company,..after we return home,.....
Im NOT a "One Shot",..then were through, kind of guy,...there is nothing finer,..than being able to stand up to the demands of a Lady, that enjoys a man that can, and will, be multi orgasmatic,.....and concerned about their Ladies satisfaction,......
If a Lady, isnt interested in oral sex,..reguardless of the reason why,...I can always make sure that she finds satisfaction in the normal manner of an intimate encounter.
To me,..its always about mutual satisfaction,..not just mine.
Even tho, at this point and time in my life, Im not interested in making a serious commitment with anyone right off the bat,.....I am starting to entertain the ideal of finding a Lady of high caliber, that I can become Friends with, and hopefully maybe more, if the stars are aligned, and the souls become entwined.
Im just not interested in casual sex,...at least let me dress up ! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/5/2008 12:02:36 AM | | Because it seems to be a waste of time to me. I have only had a few guys that really knew what they were doing down there. So guys maybe more guys are clueless to what they are actually suppose to be doing. I would rather skip going thru that torture! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/5/2008 3:43:25 AM |
It just never feels right. It's too hard or too soft, but I think the problem must be me! I get very sensitive and even ticklish too! I'm difficult Never feel bad if you aren't enjoying what your lover is doing for you. TELL THEM. Important point though; always phrase your instructions/directions POSITIVELY.
SAY: softer
NOT: that's too hard
SAY: harder
NOT: that's too soft
SAY: slower
NOT: that's too fast.
The second examples are saying "Hey, you're doing it wrong." whereas the first examples are saying "Hey, you can make it better." Nobody wants to hear they are doing it wrong; and everyone wants to hear how they can make it better. Very subtle difference; but it can translate into a much more enjoyable time to be had by all.
If what you enjoy changes frequently throughout the session; just let him know, no problem. Trust me, he would MUCH rather hear what he needs to do to give you more pleasure; than hear that you got frustrated and wanted him to quit. Unless the doof wasn't doing what you asked, then just grab him by the ears. Actually, that's a very good technique; if you're holding his head, you can determine how hard or soft the pressure is, then he just needs to concentrate on speed. Enjoy. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/5/2008 9:46:54 AM | | Maybe something is wrong with me but I couldn't live without it. I've only had one relationship where a woman didn't like receiving oral and she had some freaky germ thing. She thought she get an infection if your mouth touched her there. My current girlfirend wants oral all the time. She wakes me up several nights a week and starts stuff up just so I'll do it. Takes a while too because she is gifted with the ability to squirt and have multiple orgasms so it goes on as long as I am willing and I hate to disappoint! But, quite honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/5/2008 10:40:33 AM | | Well maybe that lady's previous partner was really really terrible. I've had some awful diners downstairs and would rather go without than to receive that from a man with no skills. I had a beaux tell me he prided himself on being very good in that department and couldn't wait to please me, and when I finally let him venture down there I wanted to die laughing. I was with him for quite some time despite his downfall in going in down. But kudos for you for being daring enough to do that act in itself... There are some men who wont, and that's a deal breaker. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/5/2008 11:47:16 AM | To those that dont like you dont know what your missing.
To those that have had problems or dont like certain things ,you have a mouth and hands show the guy tell him,he is not a minder reader....
If you want to enjoy it, make an effort to get what you want.you never know you may like it lol  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/5/2008 9:57:23 PM | I hate it. A lot. Because:
1) That's my personal area and it feels really embarrassing for someone to be looking at it let alone oral.
2) Constant fear I taste bad.
3) Have never orgasmed during oral.
4) Good excuse to not give a man oral. Which I also hate. Different reasons.
In Conclusion, I have vagina shame. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/5/2008 10:21:28 PM | | I hate oral. I will not do it and do not enjoy receiving it as I said many times before. Let your fingers do the stroking and your penis be inside. Oral sucks. No tongue exchange allowed with me. Just respect each opinion you hear here. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/6/2008 5:10:46 AM |
She thought she get an infection if your mouth touched her there.
I always used to get yeast infections from my ex giving me oral. It does happen to some women. It's not worth it to me.
My current girlfirend wants oral all the time. She wakes me up several nights a week and starts stuff up just so I'll do it.
That sounds incredibly selfish to me!
N. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/6/2008 5:12:33 PM |
maybe more guys are clueless to what they are actually suppose to be doing.
mello, you're probably right. but then again, every woman is different, very different in what she likes. and every guy isn't going to have the answer for every woman. take him by the ears(hair, etc, whatever's handy) ... yes, you may have guide him with both your hands and your words, but any guy worth keeping around will be more than willing to follow those directions.(we are guys after all... following directions is easy, asking for directions on the other hand, is a genetic impossibility.) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 1:15:41 AM | I had a girlfriend,well I started working my way south,when I got close she stopped me and asked me what was I doing I told what I was going to do and she said that was nasty.
I asked her who told her that it was nasty she said her ex-husband she then told me after they finished with sex he got up and washed his hands everytime.
Well I started using my fingers on her,when she got off I told her to look at me,I put my fingers in my mouth and licked them clean,she was shocked that I would do that.
I asked her to let go down there if she didn't like it or felt uncomfertable with to tell me and I would stop.
We started at the end of the bed,when she was doubled over against the headboard I had to stop.She never told me to stop and I didn't want to.
To end this I would rather give than recive. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 4:03:18 AM | sometimes its because the guy has harsh facial hair (wether shaved or not can be either ) and it can be rough and sometimes painful if the girl has particularly sensitve skin. other thing would be cleaness maybe you should suggest a shower right before sex it might make her more into the idea, also improves every mans chance of getting a long oral session. other thing may be that she female ejaculates: some women really cant deal with this so prefer to not go there if she doesnt realise it is not urine.
the best thing you can do if none of these things works is simply talk to her about it and ask why she doesnt like it and ask if there is anything that you could do to make her more comfortable with the idea, it could be something really simple.
good luck! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 9:37:11 AM | | I had a few sexual partners that did not particularly care for receiving oral sex. I didn't think it was a big deal. Different people have different tastes. Some women actually get more pleasure from giving oral sex than receiving it. Besides there are many different ways to please a woman. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 12:41:22 PM | not quite sure-infact have no idea why some women don t like oral.
if you are finding this ,i would suggest improving your technique.
no offense please.
with the right person it is fabbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 1:07:51 PM | | well there some but im not one i love receiving and giving, i guess just personal preference but they probably got there reasons , but i love it | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 2:05:28 PM | | I think the posibility could also be sexual abuse? One of my ex's, ex-wife would never allow him to do something like insert his fingers or doggy style. She was sexually abused by her uncle. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 2:43:04 PM | many reasons
never had it before so they dont kno how good it feels
the partner does not know how to do it right so the girl is thinking "no orgasm so y bother"
or they are not comfortable with their body | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 6:13:14 PM | Never met one yet...but have had a couple kinda drag their feet but once they felt what I like to do...all bets where off and they were game every time!...lol. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/8/2008 9:00:29 PM | My god what an education on this thread.
Where are the old hippy dazs anyway.? Those of you ladies who are SO HUNG UP need to drop a 714 Qualude and chill. I mean, just hang on to the bed railing and relax. I have to go. My little BLACK **** has just drapped herself across my keyboard. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 5:09:15 PM | Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww Gawd,...
You know what I hate ?
I just HATE to have to admit,...that my tounge is tired, and I need a break !
Besides that,..after a short rest,.......their begging for MORE !
I thought about making up some "Cards" like the old "PALIDAN" Movie,......
"HAVE TOUNGE, WILL TRAVEL"
LOL  | |
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