| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 6:30:52 PM |
Reasons why I wont do it...
Smell/Taste rotten salad. Seriouly lay off the red meats, salty foods and citrius fruits.
Look: Rash, sores (I wont stick nothin in there if I see either). Meat Flaps/roast beef.
Hairy: Keep it trimmed or shaved please it helps with the smell and taste.
Even if a girl doesn't get off which is rare. They still enjoy having it done. But if they don't like the face, they still got the hand. I like to give and recieve.
And y'all are wondering why some women are reluctant to receive... its comments like ^^ that make some of us worry about the sensory perceptions... do we smell? does it look funny? is he thinking any of this? and we're supposed to relax and enjoy? HA!
But... although I have experienced reluctance from previous partners for these very reasons, I have not given up hope that somewhere out there, is one groovy, hip and willing cat who will learn to rock my world...orally speaking ;) someone who can get over their hang-ups about the above mentioned things and in turn, I will get over mine and just let him do his thing! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 6:38:42 PM | | never met one that really hates it. probably would have to dump her, cause that's the way, ah huh ah huh, i like it, ah huh ah huh. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:09:31 AM |
And y'all are wondering why some women are reluctant to receive... its comments like ^^ that make some of us worry about the sensory perceptions... do we smell? does it look funny? is he thinking any of this? and we're supposed to relax and enjoy? HA!
On the "Rare" occassion,...that I've been Lucky enough to particapate in giving such pleasure,....I useualy get so carried away,..that my eyes are closed,...and Im into such a passionate state of mind,..that Im enjoying it as much as, or more, than my "partner",
and my moans are useually LOUDER,..than thiers,.....LOL 
Sad, that its been such a long time, but maybe one of these days, I'll be able to find someone that I can enjoy life with , again. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:42:53 PM | | I don't hate receiving oral sex. But I like giving oral sex better. I simply get more enjoyment and pleasure from that. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/10/2008 1:22:03 PM | | I agree Steph, I have never heard a woman say she hates oral sex? I am sure there must be some in this big world but I don't know them! Thank god! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/10/2008 3:36:20 PM | I know it said Ladies sorry but had to jump in.
I love giving , I pull a chair up next to the bed I know I'm gonna be there a while
( If I can't Lick it, I may not wanna Stick it )
Is a rhyme that comes to mind | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/10/2008 4:26:59 PM | | When I was younger and with my ex I didn't like to receive oral. Besides he wasn't that good at it....I know that now. Several years ago a man I was dating showed me the wonderful joys of receiving oral done properly.....Ahhh, that's the main thing I miss about him. He was the first and only one to have the patience and skills to show me what it was like to cum from oral. It did take time the first time because I had to learn to relax and just enjoy it. I have not met another man that enjoys to give it.....I'm still hopin' to find him though. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/11/2008 3:31:41 PM | When I was younger and with my ex I didn't like to receive oral. Besides he wasn't that good at it....I know that now. Several years ago a man I was dating showed me the wonderful joys of receiving oral done properly.....Ahhh, that's the main thing I miss about him. He was the first and only one to have the patience and skills to show me what it was like to cum from oral. It did take time the first time because I had to learn to relax and just enjoy it. I have not met another man that enjoys to give it.....I'm still hopin' to find him though.
SEE,....Thats what its all about !
Imagine a world where Every man was an "Expert" at giving Oral Pleasure ?
You "Ladies Wouldnt have Nothing To Complain About",..........
So be Glad that some men arent up to par,........
The Rest of us,......Really Aprecieate That !
(And I Might be willing, to give FREE,..."Samples") | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/12/2008 9:42:47 AM | I dated a woman who didn't like it. She thought the natural flora of the mouth were not compatible with the natural flora of the vagina. Then I found out she was a total germ freak. At the end of the day it didn't work out because she was nuts. Turns out she had something called "borderline personality disorder."
Now I use do you or do you not like to receive oral sex as a litmus test. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/12/2008 1:44:03 PM | lolol some great comments
I used to hate receiving oral, absolutely hated it lololol
then someone i met showed me the way it should be done
and by gowd, its fantastic, i would let a man live down there if their tongue was half as good as the guys tongue that showed me what oral sex was all about hehehehe
whooooooooooooaaaaa
they really dont no what they are missing
xx | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/12/2008 3:22:39 PM | "I don't hate it and wouldn't refuse it. I'd just rather give than receive because I love giving oral. I'd almost say I love it more than intercourse, but I really love doing the boom boom, too.
Receiving just hasn't rocked my world, yet."
Well Ive rocked a couple worlds , You just have to tell him what to do theres only one way he is going to get it right , Well I guess i could write a book and sell everything I have learned but that would take all the fun outta it ;) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/16/2008 12:47:10 AM | I'd buy that book and hand it out to the next guy in my life!! Bring it on and let me know when it's in print...... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/16/2008 12:54:45 PM | It's not so much I don't like getting oral sex-it's just that most men are from the clit licking-finger f*cking club. Not only that, if a man doesn't appreciate taking directions from me while getting us lost in the car-he's not any more receptive when his head is between my legs and I'm telling him where to go.
I mean, let's face it, if a woman was to merely blow on ya d*ck and say 'there ya go guys' how would that make you feel? If you truly like giving-more power to ya, but if you are only gonna lick my clit save us both the time and trouble and just lay back and let a master do her work-bahahahahaha!!
Additionally, someone commented on pubic hair, smell, taste etc-boys, don't think for a minute that a mouthful of your pubes are any better, that your d*ck smells like a rose garden, and you taste like a juicy fruit pop! Hygiene is important-and if neither you or your lover bothers to 'clean up' before going down under what do you expect?
I am happy to report those men who truly enjoy giving oral tend to be quite proficient at it-and enjoy every aspect of it-to those men I salute you!!  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/16/2008 1:50:45 PM | | Mark me down as one of those 'MUST GIVE ORAL' guys... if a woman didnt like it or refused, we would not be dating for long. Sexual compatability is required and if they dont even like oral, then she wouldn't be up for all the really kinky stuff I like! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/16/2008 2:31:28 PM | I've never liked it. I think maybe in my youth I was ruined by pool jets and being really good with my finger...
Crap. The force of the tongue just isn't strong enough.
It needs to be harder and faster and I can't get off and wind up being really frustrated and so I just don't like guys to try because no one can do it and plus I worry they'll get bored because I will take a really long time to get off on just mild stimulation. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/16/2008 6:52:57 PM |
It's not so much I don't like getting oral sex-it's just that most men are from the clit licking-finger f*cking club.
Wow - where does that club meet? I'm heading there tonight! | |
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Posted: 8/16/2008 7:09:13 PM | I saw this topic and fainted for about 5 minutes
Ok I back on my feet now
The person that said some men don't know what they are doing is so on the money
And they should keep their hands and their mouths out of the cookie jar
But to the ones that do .. BLESS YOU
To the ladies that don't like it .. oh well
What you eat don't make me fat | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/16/2008 9:44:47 PM | Well first of all for you guys reading this let me give you my background.. in this topic..
My ex husband and I were both virgins when we got married. We didn't know a lot about sex but we had lots of fun learning and one of the things we learned about was this topic.
I actually believe that my ex ruined me with most men because he became an expert at this ...
Let me give you some suggestions about why a woman may not like to have this done to her..
#1 remember there are as many nerve endings in her clit. than there is in an entire penis.. therefore she is very sensitive.. it can tickle at first till there is intense arousal.. in my opinion most men do not know how to gently arouse this area.. they go at it pretty hard and directly which is not fun.. for the woman.
#2 she may be shy about odor.. so best solution to that.. take a shower together and wash each other.. that is very erotic and lots of fun to get sqeeky clean for all the fun..
#3 she may be having her period.. yall need to negotiate that one..
#4 she may think it is immoral and you will have to exhibit patience with her in that area.
It is my firm believe that unless something is physically wrong with a woman that this type of reluctance can be over come with patience and love. When a woman truely trusts a man it is easy for her to relax.. but that word trust needs to be there..
So don't give up but gently lead her into expriencing this.. you might even want to examine tantric massage which is an excellent method to bond a couple to one another and build trust.. but then again it takes patience.
The best lovers in my opinion are patient lovers who do not rush their partner..it is so much fun to take your time. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/17/2008 3:50:02 AM | i love recvieing oral sex but at time have been embarssed to let a guy do it to me at cedrtain times
I like to be fresh down there and one younger lover would make a beeline for me down there when he would come round and i had been at work 8 hours and not showered. And i would be more reluctant even though he was persistant
Also someone who wknow what there is down there and how to treat it.
We are all different and like different things, but someone who makes me cum is great, someone who makes me dribble OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and then kissing him after and smeling and tatstiung myslef on him is so erotic
carolex | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/17/2008 5:14:28 AM | If it smells like fish
it's your dish
if it smells like cologne
leave it alone
lol
As for the women that said they never got enjoyment out of it... you're man aint doing something right... I don't teach classes but I never heard a woman say she didn't want me to do it anymore. I'd rather give than recieve don't get me wrong I like to recieve... but a woman's needs comes first in my book. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/17/2008 5:58:58 AM | I have learned to enjoy it and in fact with the right guy I have fantasized about it. I learned at the so called hand of a guy who took the time to make me feel comfortable and brought me to one of the best orgazms I have ever had - who knew??....lol
But my ex did not have very good techniques and I guess part of the reason for that was NON-communication. Without some guidance how would he know...and the same goes for the other way round too.
Ya gotta tell them gently what works and what doesn't.
How can anyone know that they are good or not if no one tells them? How can anyone know what you like or dislike without being told?
Its all about communication.
If a woman doubts her female-ness then she needs to be told how wonderful it is. Scent of a woman and all that and I don't mean perfume from a bottle. I was told I tasted sweet - I had never ever been told that before so I too had reservations. I have talked to a lot of men about this form of love making and they say they can go for hours.....lol
If done right though......hours would be an over estimation......
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/17/2008 6:17:18 AM |
I like to be fresh down there and one younger lover would make a beeline for me down there when he would come round and i had been at work 8 hours and not showered
LMM - If I'm dating someone, soon after we become intimate I start to request that they do NOT shower right before we see each other. I PREFER smelling and tasting WOMAN! If I want to smell soap or perfume, I'll go to a store. The morning shower and nighty date is perfect because then you have a day to get 'natural.' A little bit of sweat mixed in with your excited juices...mmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... So if a guy wants to go down there, let him! I cant believe I'm the only one that likes it better.
And you are right - kissing her and sharing her taste after my face is covered in her cum is wonderful! | |
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