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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 8/19/2008 3:14:55 PM | One would assume there are ladies that like to receive oral and those who don't.
Likewise there those ladies who like to give and those that don't.
I am one of those unfortunate men who likes to eat ****, straight sex does nothingfor me. I do not need to get off, I just wish to give pleasure with my tongue.
For meis finding a female who is happy with my preference......... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/4/2008 10:48:36 PM | I wont say I hate it, Id just would rather have him give me fingers and me give him oral. Nothing like making a man scream like a banchee I guess its because i just cant cum like that it feels good dont get me wrong I would just rather have him inside me rather then licking around down there. Like I said it feels good and all I just like penetration better. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/5/2008 7:22:04 AM |
hey bikerbiker....where do you live......I need to visit you........NOW!!!!!
Now see,..theres a Lady thats willing to step out on a limb,....LOL
And I'll bet,..she would be willing to give directions, if someone wasnt on the right course,......LOL
Something we all need to understand,......if it isnt being done right,...its time to give advice,....just speek up and say something like,.....
"Oh Baby,...I Love it when you,.......(fill in the blank)"
Give encouragement, when needed,.....give praise when your partner does something right...... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/15/2008 4:18:10 PM | | In my opinon, it's the guy who is doing it. I have also hated it at times in the past. But then I met this really sexy guy who blew my mind, was the best ever... I don't think men know what they are doing. And I think the big part is how a women feels about you, she can love you but that doesn't mean u light her fire. I think, not sure, most women like sex more. We like to orgasm with it inside, we do in oral but it still isn't enough, we need to feel the men's twang to really be done. Where as men are good for a blow and no sex afterwards. We still need part 2. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/15/2008 4:23:47 PM | i've heard that most men don't know what they're doing
a few fingers inside while the tongue works it's magic and all is usually a good tactic, tempo and speed are important. I've gotten off girls many times this way...so it depends on the person it seems... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/15/2008 7:40:29 PM | | Who don't like oral sex if you can give it why can't you recieve it. If you don't like oral sex you are in the wrong sex game. Oral is apart of SEX. It can be a pleasure if the person knows what they are doing. Oral sex can be as pleasurable as regular sex. Sorry if some men and women don't like it but personally I am a HUGE fan of it, to recieve it that is. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/16/2008 2:56:52 PM | | I like it but there are other things I prefer. Probably just ain't had it by the right guy or something. I've heard plenty about how mind blowing it is, well I just don't think it is so it's probably just been men not knowing what they were doing. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/16/2008 4:03:21 PM | | wtf i dnt c how a gurl cld hate receiving oral sex its something i always do i luv doing it cause when she starts pushing my head down i know im doing something right im not huge but wut i lack 4 there i make up 4 it with my toung | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/16/2008 4:40:15 PM | Some women have a hooded clit .... the labia does not retract enough for anything close to direct stimulation so, its not a case of don't like it as much as it is a case of, it feels ok but, is nothing to write home about.... If the clit is not buried too deep you can manually retract the hood for direct stimulation but, know that you have to be very very gentle with her and build slowly towards climax... do not just focus on her clit especially initially if she normally can not receive direct stimulation.... If you know what your doing... if your patent ... if you do it right and gain her trust.... she will be hooked on it where before she avoided it.
I ran into one woman like that .... Once we isolated the problem she considered surgery as she never climaxed from oral stimulation before we explored the problem together.
Men either could not find her clit or if they did the oral stimulation felt painful to her.
I taught her that she would have to train her partner to please her by telling them exactly what she wants what felt good and what was too much.
In the past she only endured clumsy attempts that might have rocked another womans world but only caused her pain so she avoided it. Kinda like being an air traffic controller in IFR conditions with no ILS.. you have to talk the pilot down so they don't divert to a secondary landing site or miss hitting the numbers on the runway. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/17/2008 9:10:38 AM | The main reason I believe a woman would refuse oral on herself is because she is uncomfortable with her vaginal smell or the way it looks! Ran across a few Stinkers back in the day who said they didnt like it either! And thats why I made like "Iron Maiden" And Ran To The Hills! Just being honest! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/17/2008 9:18:13 AM | | some woman dont want men to give them oral, maybe because they feel that they are not fresh and clean... even though they have bathed anf powdered themselves | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/17/2008 11:17:38 AM | This is a tricky one and I can only speak for myself. It could be the ladies you met simply didn't like it genuinely, but I think most women do. The thing it is all depends on the MAN and the SITUATION. So here are some examples of what works and doesn't for me personally:
I want him to if:
He is animalistic and aggressive about it, holding my legs or wrapping his arms around my pelvis no matter how much I squirm - as if I am his prey and he is devouring me no matter what. I want it to seem like he just cannot hold himself back. It makes it feel like he really really wants to do it. It's even better if he grunts and acts like he's in his own world, barely noticing or caring how I am reacting (facially and orally). This of course requires the man to be absolutely certain that the woman really is enjoying it, because this kind of scenario would obviously be a nightmare for a woman who hates it.
I don't want him to if:
He is careful and methodical about it - if it's clear that he's only doing it because he assumes it's his duty. That is such a huge turn off. What's even worse is if he goes at it in a "considerate" manner, peeking up once in a while to ask if it feels good. Oh my god... Just horrible.
I want him to if:
I am shower clean. Maybe it's a quiet night at home or we've been to the sauna/shower/bath together. Or maybe I've gotten ready before he comes over and am all fresh.
I don't want him to if:
We've been out for a while and just returned home to some spontaneous and steamy sex. You know, ripping our clothes off and just going at it. Most likely I will be sopping wet at that point and all I want at that very moment is for him to penetrate me. I have absolutely no interest in cunnilingus in that moment and I would feel uncomfortable about him going down on me since I'd most likely be a little sweaty and moist by then. It's the perfect scenario for penetration, but not for cunnilingus.
Oh and some other scenarios where I would NOT want it:
- If he is trying to make me orgasm. Period. I don't orgasm from cunnilingus. Period. I HATE the pressure he puts on me by just going at it endlessly, assuming that there is a start and finish to the process.
- Old and soft stubble feels very sexy - fresh sharp stubble HURTS LIKE HELL
- Some men just don't know how. I once had this guy who sucked and bit really hard. OUCH.
- Some guys don't understand the clitoris part and assume that it's all about thrusting a tongue in the vagina. Booooring. Does nothing for me.
- If I get the feeling that the only reason he is doing it is to "buy" his turn of fellatio by first giving me head, then it's a huuuuge turnoff. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/17/2008 12:35:00 PM | | If I can't get up close and personal, I have a hard time sticking anything in there. the aroma alone is an aphrodesiac, licking helps with juices, and the rest is just. . . . bliss | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/19/2008 12:12:10 AM | | Just as I noted in my previous post here! Its the women with the stronger, unmanagable vaginal odors that say they don't need or like it! They are just too embarrased to admit the fact! You should be glad she gave you the hidden message before going down south, and finding out the hard way! Take my advise and "RUN TO THE HILLS" | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/19/2008 5:51:51 AM | Never met one that didnt like it....they resisted at first because of the unknown but once they felt their eroneous zone being touched they melted and cooed....right to a couple of toe curling climaxes... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/19/2008 7:08:28 PM | not sure why I'm posting an answer here....cause I don't hate it at all. Some women may be a little self conscious about it with a man. I know I am at first, but if he enjoys it- then all the better. Just takes a minute to relax and go with it.... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/19/2008 7:35:24 PM | | Some women just don't feel that much from oral sex. They prefer penetration. it may just be that simple. I met a guy once who didn't like getting oral, said it was like being tickled. Hard to believe, but true. People just have their preferences. If you want to give it, great, but if she doesn't want it, don't worry too much and just do what you both DO like :) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/20/2008 9:46:16 PM | OK, I just spent the last half hour reading this entire thread LOL
I can't imagine a woman who doesn't like it. Give me a couple hours down there and I'll change her tune. I personally enjoy being able to breathe through my ears. It's a gift.
If I can't spent quality time down there I'm not happy.
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2008 3:31:47 AM | lulai
I don't want him to if:
He is careful and methodical about it - if it's clear that he's only doing it because he assumes it's his duty. That is such a huge turn off. What's even worse is if he goes at it in a "considerate" manner, peeking up once in a while to ask if it feels good. Oh my god... Just horrible.
Oh and some other scenarios where I would NOT want it:
If he is trying to make me orgasm. Period. I don't orgasm from cunnilingus. Period. I HATE the pressure he puts on me by just going at it endlessly, assuming that there is a start and finish to the process.
Some of the things in your response do strike a cord with me...
My post which mentions being considerate an methodical specifically in the case of women that are unable to orgasm via cunnilingus.....
I can understand how expectation and pressure can be a turn off...
I hope you understand that if a man is truly caring, truly wants to please you and, truly, as I do, loves to give a woman oral pleasure (much more than I like receiving it)... in fact I do not care if a woman reciprocates... I want my partner to do only what she has the passion to do not what she thinks I expect.... I agree expectation can be a turn off... that being said when there is no pressure or expectation magic can happen... maybe not the first time... but.... it could happen.
When you say you never orgasm from oral sex
Have you ever considered why...
It may be phycological or physiological
http://www.tantra.co.nz/yoni/circumsision.htm  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2008 6:30:22 AM | Alright so once apon a time I didn't like it. It was because I couldn't understand how a guy could think that my 'V' was attractive or tasted nice. I'm just way too straight.
I had a boyfriend that insisted on doing it to me so I let him and he loved it and I loved it and I was okay with it for the first time. Then I had a boyfriend who didn't know what he was doing down there and because of his lack of expertise he just got frustrated with me and made me feel that I wasn't okay. Then started the whole I don't like men going down on me thing again.
But thank god I meet someone that did know what they were doing and liked it. And he loved my ****. He loved the way it tasted, and loved every little thing about it. I spent 8 years with him. When we broke up I started dating again and was worried that maybe he had lied to me, but nope the new boyfriend loved it just as much. Didn't know what he was doing but he loved it. I taught him how to not do it like a porn star and it was good.
So what I'm trying to say, is you need to help make her feel relaxed. Let her know that this is something that really turns you on. That it's something that you would like her to do for you. Be gentle. Be patient. Let her keep a blanket over her for security. And don't expect her to fall in love over night. Let her know how much you love it, how beautiful it is and she will be putty in your hands.
I actually have a wonderful article that was sent to me by my x that is all about how to eat ****. It's great!!! I get so turned on just reading it. It should be apart of every man's bible. | |
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