| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 12:49:04 PM | | Me too. Which is why, before I swore off all things sexual, I wouldn't let guys go down there. No part of me has ever wondered if it would feel good with someone else. I've tried it...numerous times. And each time it didn't feel good. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 7:00:02 PM | (351) I've heard this complaint from women before and I think I understand. It's like jamming it in without foreplay... half of the eroticism is from the teasing and torturing of your lover, making them get all hot and squirmy.
The road to the orgasm is often the mind, just as much physically, if not even more. I mean women can get wet off of sexy thoughts without any physical stimulation whatsoever! (And yes, ladies I am jealous! lol!)
To just agressively go for the clit (or suck too hard on the**** or just slam it in the V) is just turning a potientially wonderful thing into a painful and mostly unsatisfying chore.
I always look for the most sensual, passionate and erotic ways to do the usual sexual things. I am always open to feedback and learning how to best get my partner off. Everybody is different and no two orgasms are alike.
Too many people have the same thing they do, time and time again. And they do it, because they always do it, the exact same way, even if their partner is getting abosolutely nothing from it, and is trying to persuade something different and a little more personally satisfying. Which is why/what you should be doing in the 1st place (The nature of the act is to please them...Hell-O!) If they aren't satisfied, what the hell are you continuing to do it for?
If your objective is to please her, and she's not pleased, listen to her feedback! Try something else. Maybe you just might learn or pick up another valuable tool in your sexual arsenal.
I mean think about it. can you imagine what sex would be like, if we all chose to do it exactly like we did our first time!?! (Yikkes!!!)
I for one, would rather take my chances with the blindfold, cigarette and firing squad... I certainly would dread reliving that kind of sex in perpetuity. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:02:45 PM |
The road to the orgasm is often the mind, just as much physically, if not even more. I mean women can get wet off of sexy thoughts without any physical stimulation whatsoever! (And yes, ladies I am jealous! lol!)
Why would you be jealous? Are you saying you can't get hard from just a thought? | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:06:29 PM |
so annoying. Hating it doesn't mean it hasn't been done right. Might mean they actually hate it. Since you have openly stated that you have sexual issues brought on by trauma, that's probably the real reason. It's sad that you have been robbed in such a way. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:19:02 PM | | Regardless of the trauma, it still feels like crap. No way around it. It's like sand paper rubbing down there....or sometimes just a wet washrag. That can be done on my own while in the shower if I wanted it. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:20:52 PM | | From my experience, all girls that I've been with enjoyed it. When I come across a girl that doesn't enjoy it, the clouds will block the sun that day. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:51:10 PM | | from what I hear some women are just not comfortable with their vaginas to let anyone perform oral sex on them. i say get some counseling because they don't know what they are missing. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 9:56:58 PM | Now, I can't say that I hate it....I'm a patient woman and if you think you have some kind of extraordinary talent that you absolutely have to show me then I'll let you go to it and give it a try.
I've only ever had one orgasm from oral sex. It was a very nice little orgasm; but then the real stuff started happening (I guess he'd decided he'd proven his point so he finally let me have what I really wanted.)
I guess that I've found that if a guy really wants to prove something I'll let him go for it and tell him it's great and that I love it....yada yada yada
But give me the real thing - good hard pentration and you'll see a woman have a true orgasm with all the juices flowing and flying!
My final answer: I know I taste delicious, just gimme your****good and deep when you're finished playing around so I can have a real woman's orgasm! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 10:11:31 PM | I'm not sure my health insurance would cover a coochie therapist. I'll have to call and ask about that.
I've been to a therapist (regular sex therapist....no coochie specialist) and all it did for me was make it to where I can be in the same room with a guy without puking on him. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/24/2009 10:23:09 PM | I've always loved it. However, I admit that it can get slightly boring if you get it too often (the thrill somewhat wears off). And by too often, I mean...well... Anyway, can't say I ever hated it. Don't think I ever will  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/25/2009 9:20:22 AM | We ARE what we were taught...Not necessarily all wonderful and good. Some women
love it... others prefer the REAL thing. And there are few who get off by giving pleasure to others.
Sex between 2 people, I am saying this AD-Nauseum...should involve a degree of feeling towards the partner. It identifies us from mere animals. Otherwise IT IS empty it does NOT mean 2 cents...biological release.
If you care for your partner/girl ASK her WHAT would she prefer. And DO LISTEN.
The same goes for YOU. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/25/2009 4:29:20 PM | | Everyone has different tastes regarding what they enjoy. Not all women enjoy oral sex. It also has to do with the person giving it. Sex is not a one size fits all. Oral sex can be great when done right and just a spit bath when done wrong. I'll also throw this out maybe they won't let a man go down on them because of the intimacy involved and the fact that unless done properly with effective barriers oral sex can be very risky when it comes to STDs. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/25/2009 9:36:50 PM | Heh, it's okay. When I'm with someone that's really into giving it, I certainly wouldn't refuse it. When I'm with someone who's not so into giving it, I don't ask for it.
It's better to give than to receive. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 3/25/2009 9:59:34 PM | I can't speak for the other ladies, but it is beyond me how they could "hate" oral sex. The only way i would dislike it or not enjoy it is if i knew the guy didn't like doing it . It is totally awesome and a big turn on when a guy loves to snack.  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:32:23 PM | A lot of women's post that I have read explaining why they don't, there is a very simple fix!
Just tell them what you want!!! If you are not comforitable telling them what you want, you shouldn't be messing around with them.
Most men, enjoy pleasuring you because they know if your satisfied, you will want to satisfy them! If a guy isn't doing it the way I like it, I tell him and he fixes it!
Every woman is different, so how are you gonna expect every man to hit your spots!? | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:57:52 PM |
A lot of women's post that I have read explaining why they don't, there is a very simple fix!
Just tell them what you want!!! If you are not comforitable telling them what you want, you shouldn't be messing around with them.
Most men, enjoy pleasuring you because they know if your satisfied, you will want to satisfy them! If a guy isn't doing it the way I like it, I tell him and he fixes it!
Every woman is different, so how are you gonna expect every man to hit your spots!?
It's not a matter of telling someone what a person wants. I DO NOT LIKE how it feels AT ALL. No amount of talking a person through it is going to change. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/10/2009 4:59:39 PM | I don't hate it, I just don't enjoy it. I don't mind being fingered, but I can only tolerate that for so long too. There's just something about the way it feels that doesn't jive with me. Not that I view it as wrong or dirty or any silly little notion like that - it's just a sensation that I don't particularly find pleasurable. Like licking your palm, the thought of that makes my skin crawl. Bleh. Or having a cat lick your hand. It's the sensation of it that I don't like.
Not to mention many guys think that they should spend hours down there - after a few minutes and I'm sore and uncomfortable. Spend a bit of time down there, fingering, licking, etc, then get on with the show 
Personally, I'd rather be f*cked than eaten out any day. | |
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I don't like it. It bores the shiit out of me. It's not that the men I know aren't skilled lovers, it's not that I suffered childhood trauma, it's not that I don't know what I'm missing. Personally ~ don't need that kind of "stimulation" for any reason. Hell, I really could skip most foreplay and be just as happy as indulging ~ my mind is filled with it's own brand of foreplay and it's much seedier than oral sex. 
But hey, that's just me. 
I guess it depends on who is doing it..and how their doing at it....
