| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/10/2009 5:12:02 PM | | The one mistake that I find men make is going too fast, START SLOW, tasting, teasing, pleasing and its all good. Go in there like a hoover vacuum and I wont even get close to enjoying it. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/11/2009 2:30:14 PM | | I like giving it, so it'd kind of suck to date someone who didn't like receiving it. I thought everyone of both genders like receiving though... lol. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:01:04 PM | There is always a reason, "ALWAYS"
*maybe the guy before bite her a bit too hard
*maybe she doesn't trust you
*maybe she's "TOO" sensitive there
*maybe the 1st, 2nd, 3rd time you did it...you did a horrible job.
Only communication can tell after all, but I'm sure if someone knows how to do it...the way she likes it...EVERY WOMAN WOULD LOVE IT.
(if you can't figure it out, ask her how she wants you to do it, you'll know when you hit the spot) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:03:46 PM | the way it should feel has to be pleasurable, so as far as "there is something about the way it feels you don't like, that doesn't make sense"
it's matter of if he/she doing it the way you like it, there gotta be a way you like, maybe you haven't discovered it yet, because you haven't find the person who hit that lovable spot yet. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:05:54 PM |
There is always a reason, "ALWAYS"
*maybe the guy before bite her a bit too hard
*maybe she doesn't trust you
*maybe she's "TOO" sensitive there
*maybe the 1st, 2nd, 3rd time you did it...you did a horrible job.
Only communication can tell after all, but I'm sure if someone knows how to do it...the way she likes it...EVERY WOMAN WOULD LOVE IT.
(if you can't figure it out, ask her how she wants you to do it, you'll know when you hit the spot)
Or maybe JUST MAYBE it's because the woman doesn't like it.
Not every woman loves it. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/12/2009 7:41:43 PM | | I have had my share of partners over the last 30 years, and nobody has ever done that where it felt as good as the other women on here say it feels . They were always guys that loved doing it. They were always disappointed that I didn't orgasm from it. It feels ok, but not as good as other things feel. I would actually be curious to have someone do it that swears he has given an orgasm to every women he's gone down on. I'd like to have an earth shattering orgasm from it, cause of course, who doesn't want an earth shattering orgasm! | |
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Posted: 4/12/2009 11:14:36 PM | the way it should feel has to be pleasurable, so as far as "there is something about the way it feels you don't like, that doesn't make sense"
I echo the other poster who said MAYBE she just doesn't like it?
I've had my share of partners over the years (23 may seem young, but I ventured into sexuality when I was 14; which interestingly was ONLY oral sex) and I didn't enjoy it then. Several partners later and I still don't enjoy it. I don't like the feel of his tongue down there. It has nothing to do with not finding the right spot, or not having "discovered" it, it's the simple fact that I dont like it. I dont like the sensation. It does not bring me pleasure.
Not all women like it like all men like getting head. More men need to understand that we are not automatons who all like the same thing.
I hate when I mention this to partners and they say "I'm great at it, I'll be there for HOURS" or "you haven't tried me yet", then get mad at me when I tell them I don't enjoy it and stop them after a few minutes. Women are different. Some like it, some don't. It has absolutely nothing to do with finding the right person, hitting the right spot. There is no RIGHT spot when you don't like it or find it enjoyable.
Telling me that me saying "there is something about the way if feels that I dont like" doesn't make sense is stupid. I don't like how it feels, how can you tell that doesn't make sense. Are you me? Are you in my body, feeling what I feel? No. Then don't bloody well assume. I'm so sick and tired of hearing from men that I should like it, it's awesome, they're so good at it, I'll be squirming and cumming so hard. How many times can a girl say "I don't care for it" before someone finally accepts that women are not all the same, they don't all like the same thing and just because they don't like this or that doesn't make them weird and isn't something that "doesn't make sense".
That's like me telling you "you don't like having a dildo rammed in your ass? That doesn't make sense! You haven't really experienced it until I do it. You haven't found that special someone to hit that lovable spot".
Seriously, it's OK for women to not like certain things. It doesn't mean they're broken or defective. It just means we're not the same as the last girl you bumped uglies with. Accept it and stop trying to change us.
Only communication can tell after all, but I'm sure if someone knows how to do it...the way she likes it...EVERY WOMAN WOULD LOVE IT.
(if you can't figure it out, ask her how she wants you to do it, you'll know when you hit the spot)
Here's how I like it: when you don't do it!
This quote of yours, if you were someone I was in bed with, I'd get up and leave right then and there if you told me that. Thats the sound of a selfish lover, someone who would be mad and frustrated when things didn't pan out the way he figures they should. I've dealt with that kind before. The kind you tell them "sure, go for it but it's really not something I find enjoyable" and then get pissed off when you don't orgasm or you make them stop after a few minutes because it's useless and uncomfortable.
Not every woman is going to like it. No matter how great the guy is or what "technique" he uses.
Oral sex is not something you DEFINITELY HAVE TO LIKE. It's something you either like, or you don't.
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/12/2009 11:37:15 PM |
Not all women like it like all men like getting head. More men need to understand that we are not automatons who all like the same thing.
Believe it or not...not ALL men like getting head either!
I was with a guy for almost 2 years and he would go down on me all the time but never wanted it.
I tried to return the favour once and he stopped me before I could wrap my lips around it. Go figure! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/13/2009 10:15:39 AM | In response to Halokitty™ ...
I've been lurking since I joined late summer last year. This is the first post that I have read since then that really made me stand up and applaud. Kudos! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/13/2009 11:04:08 PM | I have to say I know exactly what you mean. Oral, for me at least, is about as enjoyable as making out. I find it to be a nice distraction, but I most definitely cannot finish from it. I like it, but I could most definitely live without it, also, I am super self-conscious about my body, and not terribly like, self-confident. I don't even like having a gynecologist looking at me there. Just such a private area. I am way more comfortable when having sex, and can be pretty dang openminded, but i have to say that, man! I just am a bit insecure about the way that part of the body looks! I have to say too, that I have been down that way on a girl, and it was fun, to do it to her, but it kinda weirds me out when the other person is really into going south and doing some tongue action. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/14/2009 12:43:05 AM | harveywallbanger asked:
Why are some that don't like it really hate it? I know its probibly small but I have met a few ladies that absolutely won't let a man go down on them. Why not?
My guess would be that it is because of too many experiences with men who did not really know what they were doing down there. Getting head from a guy who doesn't know what he's doing can be worse than annoying to a woman. It's like getting a blow job where the woman rakes her teeth along your shaft. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/14/2009 8:55:06 AM | Again, it's a personal preference. I love oral but honestly there are times when I'm simply not in the mood.
The best oral in the world? When a man is having his way a little to the north and using a toy on you dead center. Trust me, you won't have any problems reaching that 'O'. You might have a problem with having too many of them in succession to be honest. It's one of those, 'please stop I can't take anymore, wait, don't stop, keep going, right there, don't stop.... No really, stop, I can't do this again. Oh My GOD, don't stop, hurry up, right there, that's good, OH MY GOD' kind of things.  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2009 2:33:40 AM | This is a simple. The only women who do not like men to go down on them are the ones that are worried if they smell bad. It is embarrassing and causes them to feel insecure. If you are planning a night with her that will involve oral sex you need to set it up so that she feels comfortable with you doing that. Here are some suggestions to make her feel at ease with it;
Shave your face first, absoloutely no stubble.
Take a nice hot bath together with only candlelight illuminating.
Let her sit in front off you while you massage and wash her back and shoulders
kiss and lick those areas, comment on how wonderful she tastes and feels and how beautiful she is to you.
When you lay her down be playful with whip cream all over her body. Lick it off and have her lick the whipped cream or chocolate syrup you use off your fingers. Be liberal with the whipped cream and lick it off her breasts, tummy shoulders , hands and slowly start to pour some on her thighs and in between.
Feel the whipped cream with your fingers first before you decide to lick and suck on her p*ssy and have her lick it off those fingers.
Just take it slow and do not crash dive to her clitoris. Lick all around first nice and slow and be gentle. She will respond and allow you to move in closer.
When you do finally get there comment on how wonderful she tastes and how much you adore her. Have her place her hands on the back of your head while you are giving her oral sex. This is a great way of finding out what oral technique works best for her and at the same time it gets her use to freeing up any insecurities about you licking her. Pretty soon she will be holding your head against her hard, twirling her fingers through your hair and grinding wild against your mouth and tongue.
Have these special fun evenings with her and you will get to the point where whipped cream is no longer necessary.
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2009 3:18:22 AM | with some woman its a confidence issue!me and my lady friends talk about this stuff all the time.she could be worried you may think shes too hairy,smells or its too imperfect!
me personaly i think its fantastic! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:03:25 AM | Holy smokes! That post by iamurman would have given me shivers had it not been for this statement:
The only women who do not like men to go down on them are the ones that are worried if they smell bad
I am not in the least opposed to oral sex, but I am strongly opposed to anyone who would make such a presumptuous statement. Did you miss the incredibly insightful post by Halokitty (#383)
Nothing would turn me off faster than a man who assumed he knew my desires or the reasons behind them better than me. Such sweeping generalizations are utterly ridiculous. There is no statement that can be made that would hold true for every woman, other than "she has a vagina". | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving
Posted: 4/16/2009 4:07:53 AM | | maybe they hate receiving b/c the guy doesnt really know what hes doing; he just thinks he does & wont take suggestion | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2009 8:31:00 PM |
The only women who do not like men to go down on them are the ones that are worried if they smell bad
wrong. I don't like for men to go down on me because I don't like how it feels. not because I worry about the smell or taste or any of that. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2009 10:28:00 PM | Oh my, I just must add my two cents. I can take or leave a man going down on me. During my marriage it did absolutely nothing for me. I have had a few partners who have made it enjoyable, but it is like foreplay for me - I never get off from it. I am not self concious, I do not worry about not being clean or smelling, I have lived with my body long enough to know how to care for it and to feel comfortable with it. I have had men who are good at it. . . it simply isn't my thing. Why does there have to be a reason why?
I have climaxed from many forms of sexual stimulation, even when I have deep throated while I was giving head, but never from having a man go down on me. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/26/2009 11:10:23 AM | [The one mistake that I find men make is going too fast, START SLOW, tasting, teasing, pleasing and its all good. Go in there like a hoover vacuum and I wont even get close to enjoying it.]
ummm ... yeah; it shouldnt be like your'e scrubbing the floor | |
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Posted: 4/27/2009 12:40:04 PM | Hummmmmmm ?
Frankly,....Im always willing to take advice, and whatever steps are necessary to fullfill a womans desires,.......EXCEPT leave her alone,...LOL | |
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