| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 3:22:35 PM | | I have to admit that seems pretty strange. Thats how I learned about the birds and the bees and I am 53 years old. The summer of 1967 I was 14 and me and the girl down the street did 69 almost every day. It started in June and we never got down to intercourse till late August. I have dated some women in my life and been divorced 3 times and I honestly can't think of a single one that was that way. I do know of a few who did not want to go down on me but I honestly don't ever remember even them turning it down. Makes me wonder if these ladies are from some other country or something. Maybe from a society that frowns on that sorta thing. Just a thought anyway | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 3:47:45 PM | ~OP~ It's just like anything else in life. Personal preference. I'm one that really would rather NOT. It does nothing for me. I've heard all of the "you've never been with someone who did it right..." bs. I've been with wonderful lovers, very skilled orally, it still does nothing for me. I'd rather fill my time with other things and thus far, no one is complaining.  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:20:07 PM | yeah, I can't ever remember anything other than pure ecstacy coming from any woman when receiving oral sex. Even when they say it does nothing for them. I think they have not had it done right, sorry. Lots of threads say there's nothing like it, so... what have you got to lose? communication is key!! if they are doing it wrong, tell them!! If it's right, tell them!! Just my thoughts... ;) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:26:31 PM | | I think they must have had a bad experience with oral, whether it was a molestation when they were young or just someone that couldn't do it right and made it unpleasant. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:29:02 PM | | I had to respond again,I do not have one friend that does not like oral,and when you are with someone you really no when he is licking there has to be a spot he hits that feels a bit better ,then say to the left thats a start,and as for giving ask him men are different to and would love for you to ask its a turn on to gors together.....but to night i have to say 68iou1 | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:30:18 PM | | I am one of those ones that don't like it also, and maybe I haven't had someone do it right but believe me I am not quiet and communicate what needs to be done and it still hasn't done anything for me. I prefer "manual" stimulation, excites me more than anything in this world. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:34:07 PM | | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^You are totally missing out because like i said in my previous post OMG IS IT EVER AMAZING!!! The feeling of his tongue running alone my cl*t and in and out of my pu**y mmmmm is all i have to say!!! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 9:44:58 PM | ~OT~ What is it with men and this "she must have been molested" "she's been abused" "no one does it right" crap? Get over it boys, some of us prefer other things. I can only speak for me, it's NOT MY THING. I've never been molested, abused, assaulted or otherwise traumatized. It's been done, I've orgasmed while it's happening, it still isn't my thing. Much like some men don't want their prostate massaged. Maybe no woman has done it right, maybe you were traumatized as a child and have a bootie-phobia, maybe you equate it to some sort of homosexual activity. Hmmm ~ that's about as ridiculous as stereotyping women who really aren't all that interested in having some man's face in their coochie. Personal preferences, some of us have them and don't need a reason why they are our preferences, they just are.  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/4/2007 10:29:07 PM | I have heard of it, but never met any that didn't like it personally.
I kinda slacked off from it, had a bad experience with an ex who would not let me go...eh....you know, couldn't breathe and all that. It was fun and scary at the same time.
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 4:02:32 PM | | It is very much a too each their own kind of thing. I personally don't care if I don't get blowjobs so naturally there are some women out there who don't like getting licked. That said I coudl never be with a woman who wouldn't let me go down on her. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 4:06:52 PM | well, personally, i wasn't thrilled about the idea because what if i were too hairy, not hairy enough, too wet, not wet enough, or *gasp* smelly...
fortunately, i don't have to worry about these problems anymore...though some women mature sexually slower than other women. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 4:10:23 PM | | I've heard two explanations. One is that the man's face gets a bit messy. Maybe keep a Wet Nap handy to freshen up your face before coming up from down under. The other reason is that some women don't want to get oral because they feel it obligates them to give oral. Communication might be the key to dispell this erroneous assumption. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 4:27:03 PM | LOL...I love it all...and I want it all...and I want it delivered by cute naked men...when I'm hungry...he's definately eating...that's part of the whole package...right there under the foreplay category...geeez what's wrong with you people who don't like it...lay back and relax | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 4:32:31 PM | I can totally understand why some wouldn't like it, and there have been times in my life where it wasn't my favourite. I think it depends on your mindset, who you're with, and what you want out of the sexual experience. I think it's really horrible that here we are in essentially an adult playground on this particular forum, and there are such critical people here... To each their own is a VERY important part of a sexual lifestyle, and why not respect those that choose something different than you?
As for me...hell I'm ALL for it! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 4:57:28 PM | | They are probably just nervous and worried. Women get uptight about their body...how it feels, smells, tastes, etc etc. Help her relax and all should go well! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/5/2007 6:46:50 PM | personally i love giving and have never expected anything in return, bringing pleasure to my lover is reward enough. but i have run into this problem twice over the years.
the first time, she said "its just wrong". after a we'd had a few drinks 1 night, she did allow me to, and the next day said she did enjoy it very much, but it was "still wrong". the 2nd said she'd feel obligated to reciprocate, no matter how much i tried to say it wasn't important.
the first time with someone, can be difficult. not everybody licks, oops i mean likes(freudian slip?) it the same way. ladies if he isn't doing it right, let him know. your hands on his head, body language, or if need be direct instructions. the man's face is in your crotch, its past the time for you to be shy. guys, when she's giving directions, pay attention. trust me, she probably knows the way to the final destination better than you.
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 7:38:04 AM | Long forum, maybe some of this has been covered, if it is I apologize.
Speaking only for myself here, as yes everyone is different. In my earlier years, I enjoyed it but did not come. Many times asked are you done yet?
At age 34, met a lover, that showed me what I was missing, yup totally love it, and definetly part of foreplay.
Facial hair, if it is a days worth or so does hurt me, something more grown in and softer, heaven.
Best ask the Lady why not. Jumping in the shower together could assure her that you are both clean enough to eat of? | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 10:09:30 AM | I used to hate it.......really really really hate it
I had an ex who'd bite *owie**
with the right man its great........ | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 10:19:13 AM | LOL ~ we are a world of "reasons." For me, I'm not: worried about being hairy or stinky, nervous, not wanting to return the favor, molestation, assault, abuse, etc. Those have absolutely NOTHING to do with my lack of interest. The reason I have no interest: I find it booooooooring. Coma-inducing, vanilla-ized sleeper sex. Not all people think it's the end-all-be-all. Not all people like the orgasm that is achieved by oral. Prior to learning who I am sexually, it was good. It was what it was. Now, it's not nearly interactive enough for me. It's rather hollow in my opinion, laying there being serviced ~ pfffffft. I can think of a dozens of things that are much more exciting and much more orgasm-inducing. It's merely not adventurous enough for me. No other reason than that.  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 12:18:35 PM | | Once met a woman who said she wanted to know me better before we got into it but otherwise, NEVER NEVER NEVER met a woman that doesn't like it. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 3:04:52 PM | Personly i love eating beaver i couldnt go out with a woman that wouldnt let me do it to her,
Iv never met a woman that dont love it until several months ago, before I go any further ladies I know what Im doing, but I found this to be hilarious, went down on black woman, she did pre warn me that she didnt like cunylingus but i proceeded to do the deed anyway and failed miserably whilst she was stuffing her face on a packet of crisps and waching the TV at the same time LOL | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 3:11:26 PM | ^^ Dude, that doesn't mean ya failed. Shoulda just kept on going until she was totally into it.
I love having a smoke, drinking a beer and watching tv while I'm getting some oral. She may not think I'm all that into it but sooner or later she's gonna find out that I was enjoying what she was doing. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 5:30:30 PM | Cowgirl, I'm one woman who doesn't like it. It does nothing for me, okay? Please don't say I don't know what I'm missing. I've had it done to me many times by my ex (he insisted) and I couldn't wait for him to be done. Not everybody likes oral sex. Yes it's true. Deal with that fact. Stop insinuating that there must be something wrong with people who don't. It's getting old.
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