| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 5:41:12 PM | "Personal preferences, some of us have them and don't need a reason why they are our preferences, they just are."
Thank you verygreeneyez! 
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 8:02:16 PM | I myself am not a huge fan of oral. I love giving it to a guy, and while I have tried it lots, and come from it it's just not my thing. Why? Well I feel like too often men think it is required of them, and when they do it because they want to they think that it must be a continuous quest for an orgasm which frankly isn't always a sure thing.
There are still lots of other fun things to do, I respect it if my partner doesn;t want oral and woudl like to think they would be as respectful of my choices. I may try it now and again, but I don;t need it or praticularly want it 98% of the time. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 8:36:31 PM | ninki, don't worry about what other people think. you are who you are and you surely don't need to apologize for it. besides, i am sure there are many guys who don't like doing it, so lots of perfect matches for ya. :-)
one thing: if your x "insisted", do you think that may have been a problem? for ex., i like giving oral sex (and receiving it) but if my guy doesn't want it? well, heavens, i'd never insist on doing something to his body that he has expressly said he does not like. that's a real problem. huge problem.
to everyone: do you think some people have a problem with oral sex because of religious stuff? i wonder if like they associate it with the word "sodomy" and, regardless of whether they like it or not, feel that it is somehow morally wrong? i certainly don't feel that way -- far from it -- but i can see how some serious christians might.
just a thought. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 8:38:53 PM | Ninki....you like what you like
everyone has and prefers something :)
oral is ok as long as the person who is doing it dont bite
I tell's ya it hurts | |
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| On dealing with a woman partner that doesn't like receiving oral...
Posted: 2/6/2007 9:12:00 PM | Actually, it's not rare. In my experience, many woman have admitted they have never cared for that, that it does nothing for them, no matter how much they like other sexual activities. A number of women have told me that they want intercourse and fellatio in the relationship, but feel no need to have cunnilingus be a part of their sex life.
I actually handle women having either alternative of a strong desire for it, or not wanting it at all, rather well IMO. Cunnilingus only does something for me if the woman enjoys it. So, if she doesn't want it, neither do I, and I don't miss it. Now, if you're talking about a woman who doesn't have in her nonreluctantly giving oral to the man she loves, that's a very different situation, at least for me. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/6/2007 11:11:12 PM | heeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyy, ya know everyone is different so maybe ur usual technique is not working for this person. Ask her. Ask her what she does to herself and go from there. or don't. I dunno, just a suggestion.
p.s. to all the ladies in Van that are gettin' some right now.............. ALRIGHT GURLS  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/7/2007 6:29:34 PM | Ok, not that I understand it, but Ive had some friends that were in all other ways VERY sexual and receiving did not a thing for them.
But also, from personal experience, some men just dont have a clue!!! Guys, here is a hint. If her eyes are glazing over from boredom...you probably are not doing something right. ASK HER!!!! For the longest time I didnt realise how good it could be. Now, OMG......sometimes that is better than anything else...
So its a 2 ways street. But if you're close enough to be that intimate, you should be close enough to discuss your likes and dislikes. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/7/2007 6:35:28 PM | | This is a pretty informed reply, and I quite agree. It's the same for men. I enjoy receiving, but I have to say, there were a few out there that did it better than most. Has to be the same for women. It also matters how you feel about that person, too. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/7/2007 6:38:52 PM |
I don't hate it and wouldn't refuse it. I'd just rather give than receive because I love giving oral. I'd almost say I love it more than intercourse, but I really love doing the boom boom, too.
Receiving just hasn't rocked my world, yet.
I agree with Funny, I don't hate, but when it's bad....It's really BAD and then the guy gets all upset about. In the meantime he has NO freaking clue what the hell he's doing and God for bid you tell him what he is doing wrong! 
For that matter bring out the vibrator, because it's better then him at the moment  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/7/2007 8:20:10 PM | There are all sorts of preferences, but I've only met one woman who didn't like oral.
Sturdy restraints allowed her to get past the 'squirm away from it' stage and on into the realm of rolling orgasms.
The intensity frightened her.
There was a point that had always tweeked her and she never had anyone push her beyond.
She spent the next couple of years asking for it nearly every single time. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/7/2007 10:42:15 PM | hate Oral? OMFG..(on your knees Baby, NOW) Maybe they're uncomfortable with themselves, maybe, i have the hardest time understanding this, there are people out there that dislike sex, oral. Don't get it at all..
*shaking head walking away..What, not liking oral, omg..* | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/7/2007 11:24:15 PM | sometimes its just the woman's body... but I would tend to think its mostly because of past experiences thatll make a woman think she doesnt like it... if she's had a few bad experiences with men not knowing what theyre doing - she isnt going to want it because she thinks she wont enjoy it.... and therefore comes to the conclusion she dont like it...
wrong, wrong, wrong!!!
after all is said and done, get a man who knows what the hell he's doing - and well! - and get it done ASAP! You have NO IDEA what youre missing out on when it comes to great oral | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/8/2007 2:19:20 PM | @ ninki
I've had it done to me many times by my ex (he insisted) and I couldn't wait for him to be done.
I understand why he is your ex-husband. When someone asks you not to do something and you ignore them, or bully them into it, they will very quickly loose your trust. I suspect that you lost your husband's trust, and lets face it, no trust = no intimacy = bad relationship.
While I love performiung the act, and not just because my lovers have enjoyed it, but because it is an extremely intimate/primal/connected/urgent act, I would never inisist on it if my lover advised that she didn't want it. And I would never interrogate her as too why taht was so. It just would be and that would be that. If she felt comfortable and safe with me, she may want to discuss it further, or then again she may not. So be it.
Making love is about finding the right connections, finding what each other enjoys/derives pleasure and closeness from. Not the same serving for everyone every time. That is why you talk, to find out what you each want at any certain time. To think otherwise is to become boring.
One man's opinion. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/8/2007 2:48:55 PM | | I havent met one yet.....thank god...because ....its the one thing I love to do the most...actually more the intercourse itself....I love to be somewhat in control of giving pleasure to her.....and my reward would be seening her getting off and asking for seconds and thirds....hehehehe | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/8/2007 3:06:04 PM |  Nope this isn't moi.......cuz I'm an all day all night buffet
I just don't get chics that say they hate it......wtf damn your missing out but it's okay I'll give your share being the sharing kinda girl I am LMFAO | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/8/2007 5:15:54 PM | Say it isn't so. I can't believe there are some women out there that don't like that. I do know that there are some men that won't do that....and my response to that is....bubye.
I actually loved the script from The sweetest thing....when Cameron is daydreaming about her guy asking if he could do that every hour on the hour. Now that's my kind of man......lol | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/8/2007 5:33:12 PM | Yep hard to believe some women dont like it....they are missing out on something awesome...
Cant go without it lol no way...both ways :)
keep it coming and cumming | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 12:24:13 AM | DEAL BREAKER!
I have my tongue pierced for two reasons, and one of them is because I just like it. the other... it's a functional reason.
if I can't go down on a girl. it's finished. and that's for no other reason but I get off on it. it's such a fun area to relax and play in, that if I'm getting intimate with someone, it has to happen.
there's only one reason I have come up with why they don't like it. it's a weird female complex about control... the same reason some women find blow jobs degrading. oral is HUGE, and if it's "gross", you don't get the pleasure. and bye.
ps - sorry to women that may have a mental disorder causing them weird fears about oral sex that they can't help. for the rest of the women that think it's just gross to lick where you pee.... learn to wipe. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 2:02:50 AM | | Either they do or they don't like it. It's that simple. If you enjoy it to the point that you have to do it. Find a new girl. Everybody has their own preferance. | |
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