| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 9:32:46 AM | maturegentleman, i love the way you put this: "Making love is about finding the right connections." EXACTLY.  
that is precisely what it is about and SO many just don't get that, they have an agenda, or a program that has always worked for them in the past or that works for them as an individual and they just pursue that agenda. which means the love making is about them, not their partner. in which case it isn't love making at all. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 10:03:32 AM | Hate it, no. All about the oral? Definitely not.
Why not?
* It's not particularly enjoyable.
* While most men think they're fantastic at it, many aren't. Sorry, guys.
* There's a power dynamic associated with it that I'm not interested in.
* The word "****" just makes me laugh. Being asked/told that it will be eaten makes me laugh harder.
* I don't eroticize it like I do other activities. No eroticizing = not hot button.
* I'd much rather give than receive, from a sensation standpoint.
* I'm easily distracted by shiny things. Left to stare at the ceiling, I may start creating MP3 lists.
* Hygiene concerns. Not to mention the cost of waxing :P | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 10:09:28 AM | on wax, i actually started getting brazilians in the not too distant past and i actually really like being fully waxed in that area -- don't like getting them (eek!) but i do like the aftermath.
but, yea, it aint cheap. oi.  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 10:17:21 AM | Ha. Don't get me started on the "like" of brazilian wax. I can't figure out how to make the blushing smiley (heh)
But it is expensive, and it's gross while you let it grow enough to be waxed again. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 10:46:00 AM | daaygirl, it sounds like you have some issues with your "parts".
at no point is it gross, it's just hair. and there is no hygiene problem that can't be fixed by proper washing habits.
I'm not trying to sound rude, maybe a bit, but it drives me up the wall. there are things you can't help, like a guy that sucks with his tongue, and there are things that you CAN help, and cleanliness is one of them... those mental issues are a couple more things too. maybe you just need your mind changed... try finding a young guy with a tongue piercing.
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 11:37:22 AM | | i am one of those mythical creatures that never really cared to recieve oral...it took me a while to realize that it had nothing to do with me and more with the fact that my ex husband SUCKED at it...but overall, it is still something i can live without...my current boyfriend is very good at it but there are other forms of foreplay out there....i promise...lol.....i agree that a problem some women may be having is the person who is giving it...not all men know their way around a vagina...many THINK they do...but having 24 access to this equipment has made me an expert with it...lol....there is nothing wrong with not liking oral...we may be in the minority but we are not abnormal... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 12:02:32 PM | why does EVERYONE---H A V E to love the same thing???? would life be boring if we all liked the same thing??? G whiz make room for individuals and let them have their prefrences too. Maybe otherd dont understand why you LIKE that kind of stuff. Ever though of that????
Man!!! narrow thinking, thats what I call it...not trying to be rude, just seems so rude to EXPECT everyone to LOVE everything you THINK everyone SHOULD love and DOES love. Obviously there are some who have other prefrences, thats what america was based on, right??? INDIVIDUALISM.....***plays national anthem*** lol just kidding.
Really not trying to be staunch or rude, just trying to get my point accross, not everyone DOES like the same thing and should be allowed to have that difference without being put down for their difference. Just MY opinion!
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 3:32:52 PM | | Ok, Im one of that small percentage of women that hate to get it. It doesn't feel that good, and all I can think about is how dogs lick things, not people. I get bored. And its not because "they aren't doing it right" because NOBODY can do it right then. People prefer diffrent things. I do however LOVE LOVE LOVE to give. that is amillion times better! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 6:06:33 PM | | I've only been with one woman who didn't like to recieve oral sex. Due to her religious upbringing, she was taght it was "dirty". Silly girl. We lasted around a day. I love the scent and taste of a woman. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who didn't like cunnilingus. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 7:01:44 PM | i love that word "cunnilingus"
think of the poetic possibilities of such a word...
and yea, i think that if you are female and you think you don't like cunnilingus, perhaps give it another try? not as a replacement for intercourse, of course. just as an addition to the sexual part of your relationship.
(it's really so unbelievably brilliant... i cannot imagine it not being pleasurable, unless the dude does something he should NOT do, like biting in an unpleasant way or being too rough.  some guys don't know how to touch a woman. ...then again, some do.  ) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 7:22:56 PM | Here are the reasons I have been told:
1). They has a guy bite them.
2). They had a guy suck to hard (evidenced by the arbys Sandwich meat totaly gross)
3). The don't like how they smell or taste
Reasons why I wont do it...
Smell/Taste rotten salad. Seriouly lay off the red meats, salty foods and citrius fruits.
Look: Rash, sores (I wont stick nothin in there if I see either). Meat Flaps/roast beef.
Hairy: Keep it trimmed or shaved please it helps with the smell and taste.
Even if a girl doesn't get off which is rare. They still enjoy having it done. But if they don't like the face, they still got the hand. I like to give and recieve. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:09:39 PM | in my experience, women who are less confident about their bodies prefer not to recieve oral. However given time, and when they trust you - they really get into it.
I personally love to give and recieve oral, specially like seeing how a women reacts to oral stimulation :D | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:27:35 PM | Gemini..every post I have seen from you has been crude, and really off base. Perhaps you like negative attention, and I'm feeding it, but I had to FINALLY say something. Have some respect for fellow posters would you?
OT: I still maintain..even though I'm of the category that loves it...leave people alone. Who the hell are we to say what people should or shouldn't like? It's not about another online conquest..for crying out loud..if I had a dollar for every online guy that could do it for hours, and was the best? I'd be rivaling Oprah for bank account status. Live and let live...and be with someone that DOES share your interest. Don't try to change those that don't share your views...It's not only about having the right guy..it's about whether you enjoy something, and are comfortable or not! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:52:40 PM | I used to be really uncomfortable with oral. I grew up a tomboy, one of the guys...and I heard so many awful jokes and stories. Of course, I was MUCH less experienced than my buddies...and they embellished on top of that. So I just believed ever stupid thing that came out of their mouths. Everything I ever heard about oral from my guy friends were complaints about the smell, taste, hygiene, or something. Not only did I not see how any man could possibly enjoy the act, I didn't want someone I was that close to thinking those kind of things about me! lol
It took a while till someone explained to me that those issues are not the standard. I do believe he also had to convince me that even if I didn't smell like roses he still enjoyed pleasing me because he cared about me, something to that effect.
I second the suggestion of finding someone with a tongue ring though. The caring and considerate lover may have helped me become comfortable with the act...but the one with the tongue ring really sold me on it. ;) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:55:13 PM | ^^^ and you are any better? You attack both me and the OP in one post.
I am speaking from my own personal experiance and preferences.
Like I told you in reply to one of your mail messages to me...
This is a forum and we are all welcome to our point of view. I don't sugar coat just to save someone the grief of whatever. I say it how I see it. No one taped your eyes open and forced you to read anything here.
I am not here to get into a personal posting war. You have your opinions and your way of posting (attacking posters on a personal level) I just post what I think in mostly general terms. If you bother to read all my posts. I also say to always be honest and to communicate.
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Posted: 2/9/2007 9:30:26 PM | | In no way did I attack the OP..I simply stated that you're rather crass for no good reason. We're all adults, and some people try to learn from these forums, and gain perspective, rather than being made the brunt of disgusting bathroom-style humour. I thought we left that behind in highschool? I was standing up for those that say they don't enjoy it...for every sexual practice out there, there are going to be supporters, and those that would rather not. No one should be casting judgement on choices that are so individual...THAT was my main point, and I'm sure it wasn't missed by those that understand. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 10:09:38 PM | Hey I support peoples choices and reasons for their choices. I was doing the same. I didn't realize i was being funny... Comedy is really not my thing.
I have met some women that can't get enough of oral. Some that wouldn't me try and some that never had it done and gave me the chance to show them it is a very pleaseureable thing.
And yes, some that were simply gross.
To each their own. I really enjoy doing it and welcome the chance to get some one off multiple times doing it. But I do draw the line.
I wont force someone to let me do it. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/9/2007 10:30:51 PM | I Don't/Can't Cum that way; except for someone with whom I love. It's not something that is just thrown out there, ya know?
I know that guys cum. They can't help it. But, for women; (like me), that's something very intimate and special.
Not just for ANY guy... :P | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/10/2007 2:40:33 AM | Phew!! I thought I was the only one who didn't care for it!! I dunno.....I'm much more a giver and all that happens when a guy is down there is a tickling sensation and desire to go straight for the main meal! Some guys refuse to come up until you've climaxed but in my cae that could take a week!
I generally only agree to it to make the guy happy otherwise I wouldn't miss it if it was prohibited! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/10/2007 2:44:55 AM | | Sorry ladies, Can't say that I agree. LOve it. Stay there as long long long long as you'd like. I'll get there a couple times. I wish all women enjoyed it. too bad. more for me. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/10/2007 2:49:26 AM | | All of you women have extremely valid points.... however... all sarcasm aside either you haven't experienced an awesome oral sex adventure or you really don't like it. Either way... I am SOOOOO SOOOORRRRRYYYYY. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 2/10/2007 7:10:37 AM | | hey lipsy72, you know, i also don't like to climax that way because, for me, intercourse is usually the desired end of any sexual moment. and the same applies to him, i don't always want him to climax thru oral sex if i'm waiting for the grand finale and don't wanna ruin it! i think it's better to approach oral sex as foreplay. unless, during that session, you're not planning to have intercourse. if that's the case, he can come all he wants. | |
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