| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 3/22/2007 10:25:59 PM | | Before I came comfortable with my sexuality (a long long time ago), I didn't like the idea because I imagined going down on a girl and got icked out lol. I couldn't in my wildest imagination comprhend how a guy would like doing this? Yeah, well, I grew up and past that. Realistically, straight guys probably don't dig the thought of going down on another guys either... that's where logic kicked in. Once I got comfortable with it I didn't enjoy it much because the guys I had didn't know what they were doing. Once I did find a partner that did and worked with me on technique, I grew to enjoy it a lot... as much as I like giving oral to a guy. Anyone that says they doing like receiving oral hasn't had the right person perform it on them. That's all I gotta say about that! lol | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 3/22/2007 10:59:13 PM | [It takes me a long long long time to orgasm that way and some men don't have the patience. I do know that! I have let guys try it with me a bit and they complained about doing for awhile. Such babies LOL LOL]
I would rather not for the exact opposite reason. I orgasm to fast and it takes a very long time for me to orgasm again. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 3/23/2007 10:04:46 AM | | Maybe it's that the feel uncomfortable, not that they dont like it. I mean, seriously, what woman could NOT enjoy receiving?? I mean, we give enough, we should get some in return! LMAO | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 3/24/2007 5:32:36 AM | Why o why does the sexy one's live so far ?? lol Oral is a domination of some sorts .. I personally love to give before anything else happens , from behind is the best ..lol | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 3/24/2007 6:27:38 AM | I'll admit it. I'm a lesbian stuck in a mans body. Would prefer licking more than most anything else. Only woman I can readily recall in my experience that didnt like the idea of me going down was the ex-wife. That was many years ago. Are there really that many women that dont enjoy getting thier kitty licked? | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/3/2007 6:39:48 AM |
I would never date a woman who does not like to receive oral sex
I guess thats just less work a man has to do,......anyway,...all the women do is just lay there,....LOL... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/3/2007 8:29:32 AM | | I have never known many women who do not enjoy recieving. I honestly probably could not date or be in a relationship with someone who did not enjoy a man going down on her, since it is my #1 favorite intimate activity. As much if not more than intercourse and definitely enjoy giving over recieving oral. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/3/2007 2:05:17 PM | | Ok Iam an older lady,when Iwas a young married lady in my twentys, Ireally didnt like giving or recieving.Didnt like sex either,& wondered what the big deal was. Well I divorced after 20 yrs & remarried, this man taught me how to love & be loved.We divorced after twenty yrs. no regrets. We had a lot of wonderful years together & I found out what passion was all about.Theres is nothing wrong with oral sex, it build passions when your partner loves to please you & see your passion explode.However oral sex isnt for everyone & can only be enjoyed when you have no inabitions | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/3/2007 2:42:12 PM | Because if you're just gonna roll your tung up and stab at her she might as well let her fingers talk to herself. Because you have no sense of pressure. Because they weren't born altar boys.
Because they'd simply rather have you drop some !@#$ on her. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/3/2007 4:49:52 PM | I Love receiving oral sex, just as mush as i love giving it. but for the topic, maybe she just isnt comfortable with you going down there, I was like that for a while with my current boyfriend, but hopefully it is just a phase, and she will open up for u, but more importantly, when you do offer, do NOT push her, let her be willing when she is willing and ready. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/3/2007 4:56:08 PM | I have to say I don't like receiving it for very extended periods of time... my cl*t is sooo very very sensitive that after a rather short amount of time it's OVERKILL and becomes uncomfortable and then usually kills my mood...
Would much rather give than recieve... | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/4/2007 10:55:38 AM | | I can only imagine its not done right... its sooooooooooooo nice if done right although i have had a few that didnt do anything for me . Its about being open and saying what you want and what you like and how you like it. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/4/2007 10:59:45 AM | Are you kidding there are ladies who dont like to receive oral.. **** that is the best. Especially if given from a woman. Sorry guys women are sooo much softer and no facial hair digging ya. lol... I would let anyone lick that wanted too...... Hey I take it for the team. | |
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| Ladies That hate receiving oral sex Posted: 12/6/2007 10:18:24 AM | I can only imagine its not done right... its sooooooooooooo nice if done right although i have had a few that didnt do anything for me . Its about being open and saying what you want and what you like and how you like it.
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| Ladies That hate receiving oral sex Posted: 12/6/2007 1:39:16 PM | Among the many posts here are lots of possibilities suggested as to why a woman might not want to receive oral. There are also lots of men quite adamant that they simply must give oral to any woman they date. Now that we've covered the possible reasons for the women, let's see why the MEN might insist on performing oral:
1. They lack experience and don't know of the many other methods of foreplay.
2. They feel other methods are wrong. Possibly due to their religious upbringing.
3. They are lazy. They couldn't be bothered adapting their methods to the woman's preferences.
4. They are selfish. They like it and feel women should cater to their preferences.
5. They lack a sense of adventure. Doing it the same old way is safer than trying other things.
I'm sure there are other possible reasons. Just thought I'd list a few. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/30/2007 7:49:38 PM | | I'm stunned, a woman that doesn't like oral sex? I'm thinking you just never had the right person do it for you. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/30/2007 7:54:30 PM | I guess that's not known whether a women enjoys oral until it's begun...personally I enjoy giving more than receiving! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/30/2007 8:10:25 PM | As someone who has evolved and now LOVES to get oral - this wasn't always so. In my teens-20s I felt it was a bit 'dirty' and worried about the taste for the guy etc. Being so self conscious about it meant that it was near impossible to relax and enjoy the ride.
Now its a far far different story, in fact I get a bit peeved if a guy wont. Perhaps if you meet someone who is resistant you can suggest you both shower first - maybe venture on down whilst in the shower to get the ball rolling? Or just ask if there is a particular reason why she doesn't like it. Maybe someone has been too rough (I find a lot of guys are too rough for me but I let them know right away) or maybe shes worried about what it looks like down there. I think being honest is best and if you want to do it let her know how much you REALLY REALLY would enjoy it. That can be a turn on in itself, knowing how much a guy wants to do it to you. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/30/2007 9:05:49 PM | | A woman would only "hate" it if you didn't do it right (or her previous partners didn't do it right, therefore the woman doesn't know that it can be good),,,,if someone actually made her feel great while doing it,,,she wouldn't hate it anymore. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 12/31/2007 10:36:01 AM | i just love giving a woman oral.from the first tast a got years ago i was hooked.unfortunitely for me at my age(72)i cant find a woman on long island for long term oral relationship.i could give it 24/7. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex Posted: 1/1/2008 8:44:45 AM | I think they may actually have a penis or are clinically insane
This act is a must have for any man i get with .. I remember the first time I cum through receiving oral sex ... It was like some kind of epiphany lol ... I just love it love it love it :roll: | |
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