| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:49:02 AM | Though I am not one of those ladies.....as I love it! There could be many reasons why and it's all personal to her......Could be anything from a bad oral experience, to maybe it grosses her out.....Maybe she just needs to feel comfortable with a man before she will let him go there.....
I was with a man who hated giving oral.....Made excuses......Didn't make me hate it though...made me want it more | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:50:07 AM | ~# 18~
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 1/1/2008 11:21:08 AM | I have always loved receiving oral sex, but was a late bloomer in regard to learning to like reciprocating. I truly enjoy the oral more than the actual "boom boom!"    | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/3/2008 8:35:15 PM | | I don't really care for it. I have found a few that drove me crazy but most of em shouldn't be down there cause they don't know what the heck they are doing. Who wants someone that thinks they know what they are doing but actually it's irritating because they have no clue! They think they are so good but they suck so bad! I can't even remember when I was with someone that actually knew what they were doing! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/3/2008 10:07:45 PM |
cause they don't know what the heck they are doing
mello... thats when you need to start giving directions, and if that doesn't help then  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 2:24:41 AM | | I don't hate it, I think that's the wrong word to describe how some women feel about it. I can't imagine anyone HATING it. damn. Myself, I feel a little self-conscious, if it's the first time with that partner. I've stopped a partner in the middle because of my insecurity about it., but not because i didn't like it. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 4:47:15 AM | Okay, seems there is no consense here How could there be. Anyway, let me throw my 2 cents into the game as well.
First: I love (yes LOVE) giving oral to my Lady! Not only as a foreplay thing but as well for me to figure out where I am emotionally situated to her.
But comming back to the topic: I had some experience with women not enjoying it or even refusing it. One major point here is for sure is an inability to relax and "let go". That might have something to do with trust?!? Or as mentioned, the idea to enjoy him doing something to please!?! That brings be directly to the more sever case of refusing it. She told me (and I'm glad she was open enough) that it has somthing to do with here deep role understanding. She liked beeing dominated and receiving oral sex does therefore not in the picture. Sure, she's missing out. But if you can't relax and let go and enjoy...what are you missing??
But this, I guess, brings us all back to the basics of sexuality: trust and communication!
Y'all have fun doing it...and receiving it ;-) | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 8:34:12 AM | I'm not in love with it, personally. I used to love it. Now, not so much. I enjoy it, more so because my guy loves to do it, but I don't really miss it if I don't get it.
Few reasons why:
1. I have a naturally low body temperature, and being totally naked on the bed without his body heat I'm often freezing, which makes it difficult to relax.
2. I find I have to really focus, in order for it to really feel good. I find that stressful.
3. I find it difficult to come. Many men pause more the longer they do it as their tongue gets tired, which occurs exactly when I need them to NOT stop. I end up hanging on the edge for awhile and often, my muscles get tired from holding the tension that long.
My guy is good at it, but it's usually the combination of being cold, and having to focus hard, that makes it less than enjoyable for me.
I love to give oral. I probably get as much or more pleasure out of it than recieving. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:42:11 AM | I couldn't imagine my sex life without it! But I have to agree with MelloDLyn on her comment:
I have found a few that drove me crazy but most of em shouldn't be down there cause they don't know what the heck they are doing. Who wants someone that thinks they know what they are doing but actually it's irritating because they have no clue! They think they are so good but they suck so bad! I can't even remember when I was with someone that actually knew what they were doing!
It can be a really wonderful experience when the man knows what he's doing...and maybe with a little guidance! | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 11:58:59 AM | My first wife enjoyed it greatly; she told me once, that if I died first, she would have my tongue bronzed and she would put beside her bed. My second wife was completely different. She did not like oral sex on her at all, and didn't like to give head. We talked about it a lot and she believed its stemmed from her up bringing, that it was dirty down there. Some women have been molested, some just don't want to lose control of their orgasms. My first wife had a larger clit, not sure if that had anything to do with it or not.
People are just, different, and it reinforces the fact, people need to be open and discuss their wants and wishes about their sexual needs. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 1:00:40 PM | | Maturity, comfort level, body image, lack of understanding/knowledge...I don't know - it's never been a problem. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 1:15:11 PM | 
i cant understand why a woman wouldnt enjoy everything her man offered?? as i wouldnt hold back on anything my man asked for
i say dont  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 2:12:06 PM | I agree with message 209.
I find it hard to get comfortable and focus on what is happening down there. Most of the time it takes me a very long time to climax and i beieve I feel a liittle guilty about maybe taking too long, and that of course makes it even harder
And then there are of course the men that don't have a clue what they are doing, some of them even got offended when I told them it was too much / not enough pressure etc. and telling me things like " Well, I haven't had any complaints yet" Thanks dude, that really does it for me now.
The one that does take his time and teases me and knows what he is doing is very much appreciated though  | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 2:44:15 PM | | I don't hate receiving oral sex, but I like giving oral sex better. I get more pleasure from having a man's c0ck in my mouth and pleasing him. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 5:10:37 PM | My ex also refused at first, and then she changed her mind 
It’s always like that with women, first they don't want to try it or hate it, then they love it. What you going to, weird creatures. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/4/2008 7:32:23 PM | | I hate oral so called sex, as I said many times. I do not like oral so called sex done to me and I really and will not do it to anyone, even if I would let them do it to me. A man's fingers down there stroking is so much more direct stimulation and more personal to me. Please guys do not write me and ask why I don't like so called oral sex as some of you do, just read all my forums. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:26:23 PM | If God wanted people to have this...."oral sex" ....he would have put our genitals where our mouths are and our mouths where our genitals are.
It's in the Bible. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 6:47:29 PM | Did you ever consider that maybe she had Chili the night before and didnt want your face in the danger zone.
Probably just a thoughtful girl. | |
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| Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 4/24/2008 7:24:28 PM | | I hate to disagree with anybody because everyone is free to think whatever they want. But steven if god didnt want man to have oral sex he would not have made it taste so sweet | |
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