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 pirateheaven

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 1/28/2009 4:42:31 PM
Take a few things when he is at work and stay with a friend preferably someone he doesn't know and don't tell anyone. Take the gun too. You need to get out NOW!!!!!!!!

Forget the police, call a lawyer and get a restraining order. It won't solve your problem, but it's better than nothing.

GET OUT NOW!

Good luck,

Jim
 two gypsy

Joined: 10/6/2008
Msg: 127
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Posted: 1/28/2009 4:52:01 PM
Get rid of the gun, then get rid of him. Go to a shelter, get a restraining order, get an attorney, get off your butt & do something. The man is seriously dangerous.
 pirateheaven

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 1/29/2009 9:31:57 AM
DUH, this thread is two years old.....
 Thorb

Joined: 7/15/2005
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Posted: 1/29/2009 2:10:49 PM
duh .... yea ... try the top of the last page is .... 3 years old ...

 8567

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 130
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Posted: 5/1/2009 11:27:51 PM
Hey ummmm people use guns for enemies, so take that as a hint. He is psycho, short fuses, etc...........leave and know after this point you are on different grounds now, unsafe ones.
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 131
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Posted: 5/2/2009 11:09:56 AM
Almost 90% of women murdered are by a guy they are with or used to be with. There has been a huge rash of men killing his woman and his family and it's scary.

Any idiot with a gun using it to intimidate is a loaded cannon.

Move in with family or friends and get him out. Whats sad is that you picked a real loser; dont' tell me out of the blue you see his destructive ways and temper. Start being smarter with men.

I would get armed myself; this guy is bad news; you have huge issues with picking a guy; get the cops and the law involved; this is scary; do it now and get out of there.

I may even have him arrested; i'm sure the gun isnt' registered and all you have to do is say you felt very threatened.
 laurenjane1

Joined: 5/30/2009
Msg: 132
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Posted: 6/6/2009 9:28:20 AM
I hope that this is a joke! if it is true....leave..like yesterday. Good Luck...sounds like a compleat nut.
 sandman7466

Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 133
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Posted: 6/6/2009 10:14:46 PM
Buy yourself a bigger gun, NOW!!!
 love_being_me

Joined: 2/7/2009
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Posted: 6/8/2009 11:30:14 AM
this doesnt make any sense to me at all...unless of course you live in Afghanistan..
if you call 911 he will be removed from the house and a restraining order will be put in place i have known ppl that have had restraining orders and removed from there own home for a lot smaller reasons than this one.... also he is threatening your life so this is either a joke or a ploy for attention...
 gemini_pinup_girl

Joined: 5/18/2007
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Posted: 6/9/2009 12:44:48 AM
If you cant have an honest talk without fear of violence or verbal abuse: File a restraining order, have him removed from your home while being served. Include all threatening behavior and the part about the gun. No one deserves to have to live in fear. There is a crisis hotline for domestic abuse...they can help you "get your ducks in a row". Check the yellow pages or online. You can be anonymous if you wish. Don't give up! You are a brave woman to admit there is a problem before it gets even worse! Follow your gut! You were born with instincts for a reason.
 toy09

Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 136
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Posted: 6/9/2009 12:23:33 PM
I TAKE IT HE'S NOT ON THE LEASE? A HOUSE? APARTMENT? CHANGE THE LOCKS WHILE HE'S GONE, TELL HIM HE CAN COME GET HIS STUFF WITH A POLICE ESCORT.
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