| married and flirting Posted: 2/16/2006 11:04:38 AM | Most married men who flirt are seeing how far they can go with you..many if they could would go all the way if oppurtunity shows its face...... A compliment is not a flirt.. Many men who compliment another woman nelgect to show the same to thier wifes.. | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 2/16/2006 7:30:50 PM | | What reason or need do you, a married man, have to flirt with other women? do you think this is respectful to your wife and marriage? of all of the intelligent, constructive, meaningful things one can do in life - to make their life better, to make their marriage better, to make their community better, why would you do something so silly as flirt? if your wife knew you did this do you think it would make her feel good and loved? I think you need to grow up and stop looking for validation for disrespecting your marriage. if you wanted to act this way you shouldn't have gotten married. treat your wife with some respect already. how would you feel if she was skulking around online flirting with men? grow up. | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 2/16/2006 7:47:39 PM | | Flirting "with intent" or flirting "without intent?" | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 2/16/2006 7:48:06 PM | | "flirting with intent" or flirting without intent?" | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 2/16/2006 7:50:03 PM | | Or intent flirting without...or Without Flirting intent.... | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 2/17/2006 4:40:57 AM | | puhlease. what kind of "compliment" is it if you receive one from someone's husband? are women really that hard up for validation and compliments that they find it acceptable to receive them from another woman's husband? come on, don't be naive - the only reason a married man's gonna flirt with and compliment a single woman is to make himself feel better - or to see how far he can take it. are some women so desperate for attention that they really need it from a fellow woman's husband? i don't give the time of day to married men or their compliments - i think they're insecure little twerps who need to grow some balls and be a man. | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 3/8/2006 2:12:11 AM | Hey.....forgot all about this thread....glad to see it still had some legs on it. Have been reading your thoughts with great relish......and i didnt realise there were such alot of u guys and gals who like the "sex n flirting in a tent" scenario...........or have i misunderstood Keep smiling xxx | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 3/22/2006 11:47:40 PM | Steve, I think there is a fine line when you don’t know the person your flirting with. You don’t know where the lady is coming from or where she can go with what you might call 'flirting'. Her intentions may be very clear in that she is 'looking' for a potential mate' where your angle is to see if your merely still desirable to the opposite sex. You don’t know if she is emotionally stable....or if she has boundaries. What you might call a game of touch n go with words, may be seen as intentional on her part. There are a number of women who are quite 'needy' ...amazing how they can spot another thats thirsting for the very same attention you do.
Words have so much meaning Steve....you have no control over how your flirts are received. I would look at what is causing you to feel dead and the intentions behind your flirts. To prove your alive from the neck up? Why not challenge yourself and flirt with your wife when she least expects it....see if you get a reaction...you never know....pushing beyond your personal limits with her may bring the spontaneity back. | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 3/23/2006 11:14:50 AM | I'm not responding to the OP...just the question...
Just because you're not ordering...don't see why you can't look at the menu!! | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 3/23/2006 11:38:21 AM | stevetheeagle
men like you kill me, im willing to bet your wife doesnt know that youre on here, and if she did, she have your ass on the curb so fast and im willing to bet if your wife did that to you , you would be running to the divorce lawyer.. | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 3/24/2006 4:07:30 PM | C'mon, its the nature of reality.. you can't fight nature so don't even try.. Wasn't this the point of animal farm? | |
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| married and flirting Posted: 3/25/2006 8:32:06 PM | I think any married person who admits to flirting is crossing the line. . . . and yes, I was once married.
Further more, I thinks its totally SICK that this many married people are on a dating site.
Geeeeeeeze! I'm outa here! | |
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