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| | Why a virgin?Page 14 of 19 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19) | | i wouldnt need a virgin to marry.. only if i had to make a sacrifice to the God of the Volcano | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:13:55 AM | I read your post about your story about your boyfriend telling you about him wanting a virgin to marry, that sounds ridiculous. I myself have a different problem on the other side of the fence, you see im still a V and Im an older guy now. Its a major problem, when women find that out about me they want nothing to do with me sexually, it strikes me that they only want there world rocked and nothign else. I dont get it, its funny, guys want virigins and it would appear, in my experiences, women wnat a guy who really knows what hes doin. This of course is to be expected, but I really thought women would be into a virgin too. WRONG.
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:31:52 AM |
What is the deal with men wanting to be married to a virgin "marry a virgin", "being married to a virgin" is grounds for annulment.
My guess? Insecurity. But I don't really know. As much as I enjoy being able to introduce a woman to something she never knew she liked before, a virgin is not preferred by me.
Yes, I was engaged to a guy about 4 yrs ago who told me on the way back from Boca Raton Florida (from his moms condo) that he wanted to marry a virgin. Well, there's the parable of the guy that sleeps with his girlfriend and then won't marry her cause she's not a virgin any more.
My favorite version is reversed from that, but not very PC, so I won't repeat it here. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:33:14 AM |
Its a major problem, when women find that out about me they want nothing to do with me sexually, it strikes me that they only want there world rocked and nothign else. Prostitution is legal in NV. If you are a virgin at 33, and it's not by choice, then it's time for some drastic action. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:47:21 AM | The idea of a virgin does have it's appeal to me, the love making, if it came to that would be much more a special thing to her, not just a "been there, done that" sort of thing.
But if anybody sees someone not being a virgin as a dealbreaker, they are a bloody fool, IMHO. | |
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Posted: 11/12/2006 4:50:52 AM |
OK let me ask what are men looking for a porn star in the bedroom or a virgin?
More of a virgin, but an open minded one, willing to explore new possibilities. I have a lot of personal reasons for this. | |
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marshw
| | Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 332 | |
| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:13:46 AM | | I don't know any who would want that. Virginity is a big red flag in my book. Most likely due to some religious moral BS and once you go there, there's no telling what kind of whacked out ideas may surface. | |
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anth28
| | Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 333 | |
| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:26:23 AM | | The vibe I get from most men on here is that its no problem at all if you are not a virgin. In the end, however, to each their own. I think wether you are a virgin or not, that is your personal choice and should not be a factor in someones decision to be with you. If it is, they are not worth wasting time on. Besides, what fool would throw away a woman that likes to fish! | |
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Posted: 11/12/2006 8:52:56 AM | I was away for quite some time, but I'm back and this thread was made active again. I decided to read over it to see all that I missed. Apparently, I am ignorant due to my youth and my lack of experience, which is fine, people are entitled to their opinion. I don't begrudge 'em that. However, I don't believe that I was so very far off the mark with my original notion that we each have a right to make such a choice.
And as far as Carl's question about someone's opinion being of importance, I believe that everyone's opinion matters to someone, even if it's only to that particular individual. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:59:35 AM | Honestly, some of us Christians are so full of self-contradictory attitudes about sex.
I swear we could easily drive ourselves crazy.
With any luck you'll find someone who has a more healthy and realistic outlook on Love, Sex and Romance. | |
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Meface
| | Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 336 | |
| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/12/2006 9:02:45 AM | | That's a very old fashioned idea, and probably not held by many. On the other hand, I don't think most guys want a total slut. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 5:19:51 AM | | Man, you really MUST be kidding. And where do I start? Why did you never have a choice? And Why does a persons Morals become projected to you as being less than acceptable if they have slept around? Do you truely think this "Virgin" will be honest about it with you? How will you know? And personally, I would NOT want my Man, to come to me if the issues of the day were not addressed by him. Such as a ,, Threesome, or a ,, twosome,,. This is,, and always will be every man's fantasy. Sooo I know this will never happen when he settles down with me. I would hope that he has these things already in his past. Eventually your Virgin, will become curious, and won't have any past experience to draw upon. Thereby making you better than the rest. You see I KNOW what I have, and I know what most men have as well. So now in my older and more mature age, bracket, and my experience level, I feel certain that I can give a Man, everything he needs wants and desires. Without wondering whats going on in the neighbors pants. Why? Because I've seen it all. And I know that MY Man, is the BEST! And to tell the truth,,, my grip is just as strong as ever. Maybe better. Anyway, thats my opinion. Or at least part of it. J.M. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2007 5:28:10 AM | | I think what the whole mess reveals is that he wants a younger girl. Even if you are young. Men seem to be wanting younger and younger girls these days. Face it. I do believe its true. There are certain qualities men look for. And he main one is,,, a good fit. Thats all for me. I'm out. | |
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Posted: 2/9/2007 1:08:50 PM | | I've never known a guy who wants to marry a virgin. I'm a virgin, pretty much...and I know alot of guys think it's "great" because they want me to lose my virginity to them or whatever...but never heard one say they wanted to marry a virgin. Nobody's ever wanted to marry me, anyway. haha. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2007 12:50:50 AM | | Maybe some people may have a lower I,Q, than you, but it is also a fact that Geniuses are more prone to Psycological breakdowns,,, than the ordinary man. Sooo there! Virgins,,, only a fool would find comfort in those impossible to dispute ,,, words. June. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2007 9:29:04 PM | " I would not want sex without love. For me it is not a physical thing. It is a mental and emotional bonding. " Ending search
If you look at past marriages most the time that i hve talked to the older generations MOST WILL TELL YOU THEY WERE ATLEAST THE GIRL WAS A VIRGIN WHEN THIER FUTURE HUSBAND TOOK HER.
now there is a double standard there most the guys weren't virgins when they married thier high school sweet heart. but like most said here it is common for our society to have them . there are alot of reasons to want a virgin and i hve seen it through this post to many to name . but what ending search really struck a cord with me and i guess in my last post i must have missed it
the more i talked to my elders i found that it was not so much as being untouched or not known by any man then it is a bond that can be formed if we all noticed guys and girls when you gave that virginity to that person it was more feeling a link to that person we may not think it was now but most girls know what i am saying even it was a mistake to give it to that person you felt more for him than others after most girls remember thier first more bad or good. That is why alot of guys want a virgin i can see why but to hold a girl/guy like she/he is unworthy of your love cause they are not a virgin granted like most said we don't want a shewhore or a manwhore each and every person we touch in our own way and some one else posted that it is a worry factor to most men that do they stack up against past lovers most of my friends agree. and agree that if a girl has had so many partners that they will cheat.
If we all could get past our hang ups and inurities this would be a perfect world but we may never wwill sorry for such a long post    | |
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veevee
| | Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 342 | |
| Why a virgin?
Posted: 6/30/2007 10:43:58 PM | Why a virgin indeed.
I couldn't imagine breaking in a virgin. That's a patient person who is looking for them. If you are their first and only, how do you know their mind won't wander to what else is available. I think in this arena an average amount of safe experience is helpful rather than harmful. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 7/1/2007 1:46:48 PM | | So that they wont go through eternity screaming in agony from the burning flames of hellfire, with the exception that it's OK to marry if the man who deflowered her has died since she's been with anyone else. The only other possible exception which i can pretty surely talk anyone out of accepting is someone who was abandoned by an unbeliever - a very dubious teaching, this abandonment one, indeed! | |
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Posted: 7/1/2007 4:12:42 PM | @ New_2_Van
Do not tell a woman you're a virgin...duhhh. Look how well it's working for you...lol.
This is one of those areas where a little white lie is in order. Let me guess, you probably volunteer the information hoping for sympathy right? I can't imagine any woman asking me 'are you a virgin?'
If this actually happens, which I can't believe, and you don't want to lie, do this:
Her: "are you a virgin?"
You: "yes, I've been a virgin many many times" with a little smile.
Hey, you're not lying...lol. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2007 6:37:05 PM | LittleMissScareAll, I cannot believe that men don't want to marry you. Kick anyone who doesn't to the kerb.
As for me, I never used to care. I still don't. But I've met a few women who were not very experience and then had a lot of partners. Suffice to say, the change was NOT for the good.
So if I have to be honest, I want a woman with the mindset of a virgin. If that means she has no sexual experience, then so be it. I will be happy to educate her, and I have a lot of patience and lots of effort and care and sensitivity to give. Comes from a very hard life and very hard choices to make in life. But I won't hold it against her if she isn't and would welcome it, as long as she still thinks sex is special and mating is for life. 2 absolute requirements for me. Not that I don't think divorce exists, it's just that I'd probably make enough effort to avoid it that it would be easier to survive a nuclear war. I could have got married 10 times over and never went for it, for just that reason. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 9:19:18 AM | | If thats the case, why did he even start dating you if he already knew that you were not a virgin. Sounds like he dosen't know what the hell he wants. Personally, i would rather be with a woman with experience than without. I dated a woman that was a virgin a long time ago, believe me i don't like starting from scratch. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 11:26:10 AM | your a joke get a life freak | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 1:03:26 PM | Im confused. People actually want to marry virgins?
It was nice how you clumped every man into a category based on one nut job. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2007 1:12:20 PM | That's just crazy... I couldn't care less how many guys a girls been with, so long as she isn't a cheater, who cares? I mean would you rather be with someone who knows what they're doing in bed, or a virgin who just lies there like a corpse? People who have a dying need to know are insecure, and it's just about the only thing I'll simply say, "none of your business",
of course, I know plenty of girls who won't stand for that, and demand to know if they're better than your previous. It's like comparing apples and oranges, everyones different, and you can have good experiences and bad. The first time for a virgin is almost always (but not every time) the worst, no matter how perfect the ambiance, I mean seriously, the whole event gets built up and if you aren't 140% satisfied about it, the girl you're with is going to go, "OMG, I HATED THAT"...
it's just retarded. most guys I know who only want virgins are the same guys who are domineering control freaks who are as likely to have an STD as they are to get a girl pregnant just to keep her. | |
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