| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/20/2008 10:09:08 PM | | Well I want to lose my virginity to a Virgin. Ive only kissed one girl but when that comes up in Relationships ive been in it tends to scare girls away. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/21/2008 6:50:13 AM | OP, I just want to know why not kick him out of the car right there on a highway after that comment 
How old was he?
In my experience, men who want to know how many are under certain maturity level. That has nothing to do with age but I haven't met anyone past 22 who even asks that anymore.
As for me, I'd go for partner with most practice in the area.. while lack of experience isn't fatal, I'd still opt for best results fortified by tons of practice.
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/26/2008 9:43:15 AM | I am a virgin and I really respect a guy the feels that way. I wish there more of you out there like that. It shows alot of respect and maturity. Thanks again!
Jenn | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/28/2008 9:07:26 AM | It's about self respect. I agree with him on that, sorry if you got "offended" but a girl who is known as the town's bicycle can be pretty much compared to the definition of a "wh0r3" | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/28/2008 10:13:39 AM | Well I think someone saying they want to marry a virgin probably means that are insecure and don't want to think about who you slept with in the past if involved in a marriage relationship. If the guy isnt insecure it wouldn't matter.
btw I was dating a girl who was a virgin for a minute and when I broke up with her. My guy friends were like. Oh you should have stayed with that. Prabably a lot of guys would like to bed virgin because they would think she would have to think they are good in bed. lol | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/28/2008 12:26:09 PM | | He should have mentioned this before getting engaged to you. He's an idiot and a hypocrite I'd bet. You did the right thing by dumping him like a hot potato. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/28/2008 12:41:53 PM | | Personally, I prefer someone that has had a couple of guys. Not a bunch, obviously. Under twenty-five, say. But at least enough to know what she wants. Keep looking for someone that will want you for you; forever not for a night. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/28/2008 1:19:40 PM | Because it doesn,t wash out buy the time your with your 5 lover you have been with 8900 other people . didn,t they tell you that in health science class . 
by the time you hit 8 your over a million with out the fun ..  | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/28/2008 1:58:20 PM | | ha, who? someone on mars? or a 15 year old kid who is dreaming? you'r elucky if you find someone who has morals these days and hasn't slept with 50 guys. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/16/2008 7:28:42 AM | I've asked Myself that as well. . .Virgins are a pain in the ass. . .well.. .sometimes. . .as for experience, give Me a girl who knows her way around the block, but chooses to park in My spot every night. and that thing with chastity belts and cageing?. . .kinky!! I wanna party with you sometime. . .but one question?. . .Why impregnate them? most lifeforms on this planet EAT their young. . .having raised several little ingrate crumbsnatchers, I can only observe that this is deservedly so. . . .forn now, sit back,  enjoy My golden years:    | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/16/2008 8:34:29 AM | Virgins are bloody useless, I just cannot relate to the 'appeal'.
I'd rather gargle Coldplay tunes wth battery acid than suffer the misfortune of being the occasion of a virgin or a 'virginal woman' sexually and believe me, that say's alot as I hate Colplay with the utmost of human intensity.
Pah, phooey, no.
Virgins are for wimps. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 11/18/2008 1:58:13 AM | | I'm starting to wonder if I should lie and tell people I know that I'm not a virgin. Most people don't believe that a twenty-two year old can be a virgin. They always say there is no such thing. People will look on me too for it. It's just kind of irritating. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:14:17 PM | This is true you will never find the perfect person for you ..the one you are looking for no one is right for anyone like my friend said thats why people argue and get divorced. I all about looks my ex use to tell me before he died that if you never try then how would you know. I met him at a house party thought he was better looking than me and said to myself why is this guy talking to me. So we began to sit on the couch and he talked about how he was in the army and wanted to marry. He said I really have to tell you I may not be the most decent looking man on earth but I have to try to succeed. And these words stick with me til today. Plus he was not socialy retarted which was a plus.
So I agree with you many people think inside the box to MUCH!! | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/16/2009 10:47:35 PM | Weird. In these modern times, it seems like most people think it's a little weird if you haven't had sex by the age of, say, 18.
No, honestly, over half of the people I knew in freshman year of college (not me) were virgins. That includes guys. We were 18.
By 21, it seemed that everyone had done it already. Or, in the case of a few guys, really wanted to do it but hadn't gotten the chance.
I'm a married 25 year old now. My husband and I have talked about this subject. I consider him a fairly typical guy in regards to what he likes/wants/will accept/desires/whatever in a woman. He has said that men fantasize about sleeping with virgins but few expect to marry them anymore, outside of religious communities. He said he expected that a woman my age would probably have slept with four or five guys before marrying.
In my post-college, married-mom twenties, I have met one virgin, a 27 year old girl who was waiting for marriage, a girlfriend of one of my husband's friends. They'd been dating for two and a half year. Nobody was saying, "That guy is so lucky that he's going to marry a virgin." Instead, people thought it was strange and weird. Another person I knew (actually, a couple) was so religious that they didn't even kiss until their wedding day. Some people thought that was sweet. I thought it was weird. But people think all different things.
In the old days, when people married in their late teens/early-twenties, it was reasonable to hope your wife would be a virgin (or at least only had sex with you before the wedding). Today, now that people are marrying later, it no longer seems so reasonable to expect a 32 year old new bride to be pure and chaste. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/16/2009 10:54:15 PM | | I think very few men expect, or desire, to marry virgins anymore. Your case was unusual. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:02:25 AM | | Why are you so concerned about what other guys want, or dont want? There's nothing wrong with being married to a virgin. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:24:57 AM | It's called the dreaded double standard. A man can whore around with as many women as he wants and he's a studmuffin. A woman has more than one guy in a lifetime, she's a zero.
Better watch this guy. I think that's why so many are preying on little girls. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:38:41 AM | I've heard guys that have a small willy prefer a virgin... | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/17/2009 4:57:32 PM | | there are men in the western world that still want to marry a virgin..... who knew, maybe they should join the taliban lol | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 10/18/2009 3:02:20 AM | Decades ago, this thread would be' Why have sx before marriage'!! ~ times change as they say
Let people be who they want to be so long as they don't impose on anyone else
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